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EducationRe: My Ican Success Story---godfrey Ebimobowei by blessediam: 3:39pm On May 15, 2019
Godfrey, this success story eyaf land here... more wins dear
RomanceRe: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by blessediam: 1:19pm On Oct 09, 2018
It is only possible if you have a good reason asides keeping it for your wedding night.

One reason could be the fact that sex before marriage is a sinful act called Fornication. If you are kind of person that fears God and always willing to do the will of God it will be easy for you to stay chaste. However, keeping your Virginity till marriage shouldn't be the main focus but building up yourself as a good woman your partner will be forever grateful to be with after the wedding night.

like someone responded; you don't have to carry it on your head.

-you don't need to argue or engage in unfruitful discussion (about how a lady can or cannot keep herself) with anybody; just get your priorities right; That guy discussing with you may have some interest wink
-know what you want in your future partner
-Be determined
-Give our ear-time to discussion that will benefit you positively
TravelRe: Massive Sinkhole Under Oke-Fomon Bridge Ilorin (Photo) by blessediam: 11:57am On Sep 28, 2018
When you have inefficient Government and Zero-thinking Leaders..
Its obvious a Bridge is needed.
FamilyRe: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by blessediam: 11:37am On Jul 30, 2018
Reason I fear this generation.. still read on the news this weekend of how a lady was shot after withdrawing 150k and i tried to imagine, "is 150k worth the precious life".


oolongtea:
2/5
that's also the reason no one here feels the girl is too young cos we've seen women of almost every age raise children, nigerian women are not allowed to be lazy or weak cos someone has to get sh!t done. then there's the brigade of ppl who secretly wish to punish women who dont want to be pregnant. they dont mind the cold truth that the person who will truly suffer is the child who would have honestly preferred to not exist than to live an awful life they've forced them into just to spite the mother. we read stories of children here everyday, thrown inside dustbin or sold or abandoned in buildings. they'll just say chai chai, what do u think happens to those children??! this world will raise them HARD with no conscience, convinced that life is not to come and shine teeth, u do anyhow u see anyhow. in 30 yrs time, u all will be shocked by the type of deranged creatures that have been raised in this nigeria roaming your streets. then of course there's your angel, your little princess raised like an egg and your son you will die on the cross for.. u will show them all the love u have and one day it's time for them to go into the real world to mingle with the beasts of no nation that u campaigned to bring here while knowing u cant do anything to give them a good life sentencing them to hardship and they've become full-blown sociopaths.

You'd think these fools who refuse to be practical about what happens to these unloved children will give these unwanted kids heaven and earth but they wont even spit on the poor child if he/she was on fire. all these dont abort pls gang who encourage unwanted children, u are not dangote, shey u see these lil babies that u forced their mothers to keep that grew up on the streets, there are millions of these children all over nigeria, slowly becoming monsters and soon they'll be in charge. then when u get the phone call that your angel son in uni that u sent N15k was just brutally murdered near his lodge by petty thieves for a mere 15k and his handset, u'll start screaming. when they break into your home to gangrape all your daughters till they require 17 stitches and a hysterectomy and spill a few of your sons' brain matter on the wall while u watch, u'll start crying and biting your lip till u draw blood asking god where are u.

no amount of your pain will take back what they've done to u, worst part is they cant even see the gravity of what they've done cos as far as they know, it's how life should be. when they are the boss and they have u begging on your knees, who will u call to help u? do we even have 911 in nigeria? do u have money to live in a gated community in banana island and have your own security team? no, what will happen will happen and we'll read about it on lindaikeji and as usual say chai chai and linda will cash out on your misery in ad revenue. still.. your whole world.. crushed! what legal system will give u justice? none, you'll have to learn just like these kids have learned to hurt in vain, stop asking for justice and find a way to live with it. i dont pity most nigerians anymore, they dont think and they dont learn, history will keep repeating itself with most of u. most of u dont even have the financial capacity to live above the mess that is coming. your president will go to london for treatment, u'll die on a queue in a nigerian hospital, when your kids are getting hell on nigerian campus, the kids of your leaders are in the US studying with the creme de la creme totally oblivious to your children's damage. yet they let you live out your miserable lives in a hellhole like animals, the UK and US they cant seem to get enough of, abortion is legal there, it's legal in all EU countries and it's legal in every developed nation. cos they know what happens if u let ppl be raised like animals, they spend unbelievable amounts to see to it that those who are born but have no homes are given some form of stability and love and have security to keep citizens safe.

i raised kids in the 90s and any honest person who was either raised then or raised kids too at that time will admit that if u raise a child exactly like we raised them back then, u will raise a total liability cos the world is crazy and parenting methods must be adjusted. there are many stories u will never hear of what many families have gone through, u will be shocked at the current rate of child sexual abuse and even more shocked when u find out how severely underestimated those figure are for little boys (7 in every 10 nigerian girl)(5 in every 10 nigerian boy[3 in every 5 abused by men]) and i know young ppl hate hearing this but one day it will be your turn to see what others have seen, u will see the slay queens give birth and have mummy body, u will see u and your male friends lose all your hair and have potbellies, u will go through the old ppl disease too, highBP, diabetes, rheumatism, eye problems. every thing in life will happen with u just like it's happened to others. it's the cycle of life.

the problem is the ugly part of life that about 90% of ppl go though but never talk about openly about, think of it like how there are many things you've experienced that your parents have no clue about even though they were there the whole time, it doesnt have to be abuse, just intense experiences. u reading this, u know many many men who have been sexually abused, same with girls, some ppl u know will bury their children, some will die young, some ppl will get into life altering accidents. even if this makes sense to one single person, save yourself!! if there is anything u can do to improve your quality of life, do it. the same way u bought gen cos they wont give u light, decide that anything that will make life good for u, u will work hard to get it and secure your own comfort.

nigerians dont love themselves, stop thinking like them. everyday u hear news of a man who raped a child and they beat him and took him to police station for bail of 4,500 but a 17 yr old boy stole a laptop and they killed him. you'll wonder if these ppl even filter their thoughts. if jungle justice must prevail why not serve justice? it's cos these men are weak, when they see a man who did something really scary, their weakness causes them to withdraw but they see a not-so-scary victim and they use mob advantage. u would think men who have no laws to protect them will kill the psychopath/molester and give the young thief a dirty slap or 2 and let him run home crying. same way they harbor evil even when it lives in their street is how they encourage the birth of children doomed from day 1 even when the same children will grow up to terrorize them. it's pure self-hatred. zero personal interest protected. all round foolishness.
CrimeRe: "How N37k Was Debited From My Bank Account Through My Stolen Phone" (Photos) by blessediam: 12:31pm On Jul 10, 2018
faithy314:
Exactly what happened to me,bank is gtb.the guys stole the phone from me in a napep and transferred 30k they bought credits tru my mtn sim then transferred to their numbers which I tracked all n have their numbers.I also have my IMEI phone number for tracking but sarz asking for a fee and that its 50/50 so I just shunned.
As u suggested tho,I have put a phome lock and sim lock.
Exactly my experience; same gtbank. It happened on a Saturday, was trying Gtbank customer care for 2hrs before i could reach one of their Customer care Rep and at that point 30k was out of my acct + plus the 1k recharge on my sim(ofcos i saw the remaining bal on retrieving my sim).
requested for camera footage because they used cashless withdrawal but I had to give up when i couldn't see the faces of the criminals.

one lesson i learnt was to have called my line's customer care agent immediately it happened.
EducationRe: Carry Over Is Ruining My Life Please Help Me by blessediam: 12:51pm On Jul 09, 2018
http://insurehealth6..com/2018/07/7-study-habits-to-improve-your-memory.html

https://www.nairaland.com/4599536/10-commandments-every-success-oriented


go through the above post; you will find them useful.

Shun out anxiety and try approach the forth coming exam with good preparation and a positive mindset.
EducationRe: 10 Commandments For Every Success Oriented Student by blessediam: 10:36am On Jul 05, 2018
mascot87:
Best thread on Nairaland this year so far. smiley but unfortunately, you will hardly see people comment but if it is yansh now or breastt, they will flood this thread like volcanic eruption
as in grin
EducationRe: 10 Commandments For Every Success Oriented Student by blessediam: 10:35am On Jul 05, 2018
This is superb.

thanks for posting.

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