₦airaland Forum

Mynd44:
It was held in the above case that:

"The Custody of any child born out of wedlock follows that of the mother in the absence of any person claiming custody of the child on the basis of being the natural father. Refer to Ben Enwonwu v Spira (supra) at p. 223.

"In the absence of any person claiming custody on the basis of being the natural father"

If the natural father wants custody he will be granted rights (might be joint, shared) depending on the welfare of the child whether he is married to the mother or not

It was held in the above case that:

"The Custody of any child born out of wedlock follows that of the mother in the absence of any person claiming custody of the child on the basis of being the natural father. Refer to Ben Enwonwu v Spira (supra) at p. 223.

Mynd44:
By culture, yes.

Legally, no. The law recognises the biological father and will grant him full paternal rights including visitation, name, birth certificate etc.

Point of correction, Customary law is not culture but law in Nigeria and why we have customary court

alphaconde:
kill the whole village make everybody rest

over 17 stinking good for nothng korofo

From that time to now, how many people have Nigeria Army murdered in cold blood.

All those innocent people?


Let me tell the CDS, the life of your soldiers is not worth more than the life of Nigerians.


This is unbecoming and outright insanity. it is bottom-line bullying/oppression.


It is unconstitutional and should never be tolerated in a civilised society.

papyjaypaul:
NL will not allow me post a picture because of the daily limits. There is a picture on this post that explains what you wrote here. We need to adjust what we think is modernism, it is not helping society at all.

Most feminist are with their man for a reason.

Most baby mama have their mother or parents helping.

The misled jump in and cannot cope, they are in uncharted territory.

They dont know what to do and all of a sudden they are alone.


Dont folllow anybody, follow Jesus because his way will never mislead you.

papyjaypaul:
NL will not allow me post a picture because of the daily limits. There is a picture on this post that explains what you wrote here. We need to adjust what we think is modernism, it is not helping society at all.

https://www.nairaland.com/newpost?topic=8202996&post=131837950

Do u want to know what is failure?


Failure is not what you do in school or jobs.


Failure is when your child is permanently taken away to be raised by white people as one of them.


That is failure.


People dating and jumping around relationship dont know anything about life until the baby arrive.


E don set...

We should return to our roots and the believe that it takes a community to raise a child.


Clearly this case is confirmation that we need each other and together each achieve more.


I don talk finish, next na to open my community focused church world wide.

For them to find out, u can imagine the type of Cry the baby would have cried.

It was heartless, even if she did not go to that work, the hospital can manage, they normally have more nurses than they actually need, sitting around in the reception gossiping.


This was a poor judgement call and Nigeria need to build a community where ever they go regardless of tribe.


The community should even grow to a Black Community, including non Nigerians.


We are old enough for it.

Even all those Redeem church all over the world are just completely useless?

This si the kind of place they suppose help.

I'm sure their is a Redeem Church close to her house.


I will not blame only her but the entire nation.


Nigeria and Black at large, we failed both mother and child.


Also, we need to do more to hold baby daddy or single father to account.

We are not maturing as Blacks.

Certain things, don pass to blame individual, the question is what provisions do we have as a community?

Pinkyposh:
Not 8 years but 8 months old, that was too heartless of her

This is not all her fault, it is a reflection of the failure of Black community or Nigerian Community at large.


We are community for mouth not action.

With our population, are u telling me that one person cannot be looking after that baby and collecting money?



She no fit come nairaland ask for help and somebody avialable help?


All u need to do is vet them and interview and tell them what you dont want plus have cameras and make sure you pay them.

If Black people or Nigerians dey cordinate and leave wickedness, as she get job , person wey no get job can just be looking aftre the babay and collecting salary from there.

Tat is how community work but i guess Black have not exist long enough to reach community stage.


All we can do with each other is fight , even online.

The bible said the Love of money is the root of all evil.

As a nurse, she is suppose to be on maternity leave for 12 months. So, what is the rush to return back to work?


There are many Nigerians in that UK that she can leave the baby with to return to work but because black people are always dividing themselves for no reason, things that shouldnt be a problem is now a problem.


when we tell them come let us be a community, everybody want to do their own thing, does that make any sense to you?

When we tell them, all of them seem to know better and comedian.

Just know that baby is gone forever.


Those white were already looking for excuse to steal the baby and hand to their people that can't have kids to raise for them.

White people raising Black baby to be a coconut or bounty chocolate.

AntiMarxist:
Now you are claiming Kogi?

The few Ibos in Igala territory ended up there due to slavery just as Ibos in Onistha and Asaba ended up there also due to slavery.

The Binis and Igala own Alambla .

What of the Nnsuka chiefs who swear allegiance to the Attah of Igala land ?

They say you have low IQ and i should stop arguing with you, i intend to do just as i was told.


good bye!

There are more Igbo land in Kogi than you have Igala comunities in Anambra.

If you are complaining about few communities in Anambra that are mixed with Igbo speaking Igala, then what do u expect Igbo people to do where they have entire local government areas in Kogi that are Igbos?

Igbo that were delibrately taken to Kogi to make us look smaller.

The indigenous ndi Igbo that are inhabitants in Kogi state, occupies Kogi East which is by far the most populated and the largest by its land mass. They are found under these local government areas:
1. Akpanya
They are under the Igalamela/Odolu Local Government Area which shares boundary with Enugu state in the east and Niger River in the west. With 95% of the locals speaking Igbo and the remaining 5 percent are conversant with the Igala native tongue. Some of the Igbo natives who have converted to Muslims are majorly found in this community.
2:Nwajala
It is made up of other communities like; Umuoye, Ubulie-Umueze in Ibaji LGA, in the south of Kogi state. The community is separated from Edo State by the Niger River.
3. Ebokwe
It consists of communities like; Amaeke, Amadiefoha, Amankpo, Amauwanu camp, Amaufulu, which are all under Igalamela/Odolu LGA.
EkeAvurugo
The people of EkeAvurugo are under Ibaji Local Government Area, they are bilingual as they speak Igbo as a first language and Igala as a second language, this is as a result of living together with the Igalas.
5. Onicha-Igo
This is a community in Ofu LGA that is located in the central part of Kogi State. They are indigenous Igbo-speaking natives.
6. The Odolu Community
The people in Odolu community are also bilingual but in their case, the predominant language is Igala while the Nsukka Igbo tongue is adopted as their second language.
Being a minority ethnic group has not stopped the indigenous Igbos from living their lives like every other person in the state. They are recognized for their agricultural prowess and as traders who sells off products from their harvest. They have four (4) market days which are, Eke, Oye, Afor, and Nkwo, just like the Igalas.Due to modernization, some of them have left farming to other trades like that of Spare parts of vehicles to other merchandise and are dominating the market exceptionally well, thereby contributing their quota to the economic growth of the state.
In terms of politics, they are given the right to exercise their franchise just like every other person residing in Kogi state, regardless of their ethnicity. The present deputy governor of the state in the person of Edward David Onoja is from an Igbo speaking community, Odidoko-Emonyoku in Ogugu District, to be precise.
The indigenous Igbo communities still uphold their culture and traditional values as their brothers and sisters in the Eastern part of Nigeria. Some of their cultural practices are similar to that of the Igala natives. For instance, the Ofala festival that is used to commemorate the Kingship of the Obi and New Yam Festival has peculiarities to the Ata coronation of the Igala kingdom.

As they both entail music and dance as they celebrate, symbolism which is evident in their traditional regalias (eagle feathers on their caps represent strength, the horse tail, and a machete in their hands) there is also the breaking of kola nut which signifies peace and oneness, and the use of masquerades to add color to the day.

gidgiddy:
So what's your point? That Anambra is 99% Igbo?

Anambra is 100% Igbo.

Simply because those so called Igala understand and speak Igbo too.

They are border people and that is understanable.

Ebubu:
Nzam

Inoma

Igbedo

Igbokenyi

Odekpe

Anambra is not 100% ibo.

In those same town, you have Igbo being spoken too.

The same is the case in Kogi, a mixture of Igbo and their Igala brothers.


You can walk from where Igala is spoken and the next village will be speaking Igbo, just like that and often the people can speak both Igbo and Igala in all the vilages in Kogi and Anambra.


You cannot separate them with border, due to mixture.

They ready to go fully armed to that small on top water village 100 times to show they are gallant.


Shoot old women and little kids at sight.

Dont you see our men in uniform are brave? cowards!



LMFAO

smh, what a country...


This si where you will know Nigeria Army are gallant, for killing unarmed civilians. LOL

yoniehuin:
You know you are lying

They are voting not based on race

You can't even get some jobs if you are not white

You can not even contest for election in some area in Europe if you are not white

stop deceiving us

Or you think we do not see the recent riot in England

The abuses on black people and the discrimination

so what competency are you talking about?

So he was never elected into any office in Ireland by Irish people?


Are u alright at all?


How did he get to parliament?

Calitoscassius:
I agree with the irish, she should go and contest in Naigeria, anyway, no Irish person will vote for her. She will lose. Why did she even accept the nominations?

In far away Europe they are voting for people not based on race but competance.

Ireland can vote for her, they normally do, not all their politicians are Irish white people, some are Black and Indians.


In this case, Igbo must go just has to be replied, so they can also dance to it in Ireland.

yoniehuin:
No the irish didnt vote the indian

He was appointed because he became the head of the party and he was not elected by the irish people

get your facts right.

Here again, in case you cannot read.

Social media is global, u put it out, everybody will recieve it at the other end from across the globe.


I guess it started in Lagos, then u took your hate to SA and it has reached Ireland.

yoniehuin:
You miss the point

The irish has their own nationalism, it has nothing to do with the energy you put out there

Irish people want irish people to rule them not foreigners

it is the way the yorubas, hausas or igbos want their people to rule them

Stop talking nonsense, Irish people were the first to vote a Indian gay man to be their Prime Minister

U see wen i knew Nigeria was done, is when South Africans started correcting Yoruba men and calling them tribalist bigot.


U can imagine they went to tell South Africans to kill Igbos and the South Africans replied we just want to kill Nigerians and dont nother us with your tribal nonsense.


That was wen i knew Nigeria was over



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ch4Z0C9B6j4

Igbo must go

Igbo must go


Igbo must go... don born pikin for Ireland.



That wan na go back to your country and contest



The energy you put out is what you will get. What goes around comes back around.

It is not hard to see Seyi Tinubu is behind all this.

Yorube people showing their true colours after making noise against Jonathan, this is it.

Well God dey.

plaetton:
Canada arrests and prosecute people, almost daily , for making threats against individuals or groups.

Well, they dont arrest and jail them for counter threat when threatened.


That is the point that jumped over past your head

plaetton:
If true.
The so-called lawsuit is frivolous and won't see the light of day in a courtroom.
Abike, no matter her prejudices, was acting in the public interest.
Amaka's act of posting public threats in the category of hate crime, is a criminal offense under Canadian law.
The fact that she has been criminally charged is the best evidence that Abike was acting in the public interest.

U think Canada is your kangaroo nigeria court?

kingi777:
I was shocked to hear fellow Nigerians calling on South Africans and other Africans to unite against Igbos. Earnestly, this inter ethnic hatred has gone out of hand and Nigerian government must find means to stop this.

The SA told dem to get lost.

Insulted them for being tribal bigots and called all of them Nigerians., stating they dont care about their tribes.

Isn't that funny?

U as a Nigerians, do u care about the SA tribes? A south African is a South African to you.


Likewise is a Indian or Chinese just that, because you actually see no difference. oir care·