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Bt i have never heard d gulugulu since i have been eating it and drinking water.. Lolz

aolatunde00:
There's this incident I heard about years ago.
A young man was knocked down and kicked by a careless driver on the oshodi express way.The driver was apprehended and taken to the police station.
Seeing it was a clear case of manslaughter,the careless driver offered the inspector in charge some money to say the slain man was actually drunk and he was at fault.
At this time,the inspector had a son who was planning to abroad but he didn't have enough funds to sponsor the trip.The bribe offer was just about the amount of money he needed for his son so he accepted.
They got some alcohol,poured it on the dead mans" body and said he got into the road in a drunken state.the police inspector took the money and sent his son abroad.
Ten years later,his son came home for the very first time since he travelled.As karma would have it,his son was killed at that same spot in oshodi by a drunken driver!
Exactly 10years after the innocent boy was killed

this is a story i read in one novel .... Cant remember d name.. Well i do bliv in karma..

Venom104:
Quiting is not the solution to everything.. even if you dont end up marrying him, you can still help impact on his life positively.. Instead of just complaining and telling him to change, i feel there are some womanly things you can do to force the hand of a man that truly loves you.. like you said he still stays with his friend and you probably go visit him there and spend the night there perhaps.. when you stop visiting him and insist you will only come when he gets a place of his own.. maybe then he'll sit down and think about getting his.. etc etc

wow! I love dis advise real much

sinizia:
Like someone advised, if he can't let you manage his finances, quit!!

thanks 4 ur advise.. Bt is ain't easy quitting a relationship.. I will try my best

kevinberry:
Me think you are the sole reason he is spending any how....if it should be only when he is having financial problem you have to stop asking him for money,sorry to say,it too bad of you....

If you really care about him...why don't you use the same method you normally use to collect money from him..and start collecting his money little by little and use the money to look for a place for him....a wise woman should know this tactics..unless she isn't concerned about the future...rather than to collect money from his partner and spend it anyhow...

Why am I having this feeling that both of you are getting old and you are afraid he isn't ready to propose yet,and because you want your wedding to be awww...now you are concerned about his spending....

Btw,we don't want to know about the amount of his goods...that amount can barely take care of my family for a month....

Final punch...if you can think of ways in which you can collect his money,and yet you can't think of a simple way to help him manage his money its pathetic....

i don't ask him 4 money bt he do gives me.. I don't depend on guys cos my parents are there 4 me..


In d nxt 5 years 2 come whether am married or single (bt i don't pray 2 be single ) i will still be as young as ever without changes by Gods grace.

Thank God u could barely feed ur family with 3.8 million i would have say i wish 2 be like u bt i don't know d source of ur income..

final punch too.. I do appreciate ur advise.. And i will try my best by makin him the best..

falconey:
hmmmmmm no one will ever support a man who spend on drinks more than any other thing.
Is obvious is an addict, you need to threaten him to stop spending too much on drinks or you will end the relationship. Going like this he can turn 50 without a place of his own.



You said you stopped collecting money from him, no girl can stop that unless she break up with the guy or he is damn broke.

Thanks 4 ur advise.



U don't just say no gal can stop collecting money 4rm a guy except he is broke.. I don't depend on guys and i have never done that .. My parents are always there 4 me.. Am not d demanding type.. if u wish 2 give me fine. If u don't wish fine .. We are still together

sinizia:
He's 31-years-old? Doesn't have a place of his own, not even a rented flat, yet shows off and pay for unsolicited bills to impress his ancestors? Girl, sit him down and tell him to stop it and that this time, it's final. If he continues, flee no matter how hurt you'll feel. That nigga is the unserious type.

i have tried talking 2 him bt he seems not 2 heed 2 any

[quote author=Tattooboy post=31439064]. He shud limit goin out wit several pple. Spendin on drinks is a real turn off 4 me tho.[/quote
i have tried 2 stop it bt it looks like it didn't work

nerodenero:
When you fail to plan,you are planning to fail.Get facts and tell him about people that refused to manage funds and ended up "broke".This should scare him.

i told him abt dat but he promised 2 change and till this day he hasn't changed

Yareey:
Some people are just bad with managing their finances. Why don't you convince him to let you help him, if he refuses then you got decisions to make.

i will try that... Thanks much

falconey:
What are the unnecessary things he spend on? Dont forget you are part of the things he spend on.

since when he had a problem last year.. I stopped collecting money 4rm him... He spends more on drinks .. He doesn't mind buying 4 everyone.. We went out yesterday he did same.. Even 2day

Good evening.. Nairalnders.. Help a fellow nairalnder..


I have been dating this guy close 2 a year and i don't like d way he spends money.. He spends money on things that ain't necessary and do abandon d necessary ones.. I have tried talking 2 him abt it bt he just continue telling me he would change

we do go out with family and friends.. And when its tym 2 settle d bills he's d one that normally pay for it... The one that is giving me more concern.. He doesn't have a place of his own.. He stays with his friend and he's not getting any younger this year will make him 31 although he still looks young.. He promised 2 get a place last yr bt something came up.. He was expecting his goods worth 3.8 million bt it was seized by customs.. Although it gave him sleepless nyt bt dat doesn't stopped him from spending unnecessarily.. As am typing dis there are some necessary things he stills needs money for apart from this ones i mention bt he doesn't pay attention 2 them.

Am really concerned and am trying 2 change him bt i don't knw hw 2 go abt it.

Plssss matured advice as needed here.. No insults i beg una

NightWhisperer:
chai na you cause am

hw i take cause am ?

Lolz.. U don commit sin already

NightWhisperer:
don't make me to commit sin oh

NightWhisperer:
your nose is deceiving you

my nose ain't deceiving me.. Talk true make Satan shame.. Shebi na lie u dey lie ?

NightWhisperer:
why do you think i lie?

because everything abt ur story dey smell like lie

Lie go kill u

The worst way 2 go.. I can't stand and watch someone being roasted .. Stil some armed robbers no go learn 4rm dis.. Make una learn 4rm pple mistakes

PunkyBrewster:
Fair enough.

Oh, I'm a huge fan

Good 4 u... Enough piercing and tattoos on u huh ?

Cutehector:
lol and wat if u get d reply yes. So much more dan wen bleep.

and i will be like " ok.. Continue snifing it and if possible u can eat it...

PunkyBrewster:
Really?

Let's see, I have a job, pay my bills on time, have one child instead of 101 children, never been to jail, married etc. How does having a few scribbles on the body automatically make one irresponsible? That should be on Ripley's believe it or not!

One man's food another man's poison.. U might not see it as anything bt 2 me oh.. I see them as irresponsible pple and i hate doin tinx with such pple cos i blivd they are possessed with evil spirit most especially pple with tattoos.. Hope u ain't a fan of it ?