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Politics / Re: Soaring Prices: FCCPC Backs Down On Price Controls by bluefilm: 6:00pm On Sep 04
Price control is a very dangerous venture

It discourages producers from doing their job very well since they will not be making as much profit as they would have expected

This will eventually lead to making more fakes of the product

Or hoarding the products thereby causing artificial scarcity just to increase the price of the products in order to maximize profit

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Politics / Re: Fuel Scarcity: Tinubu’s Incompetence Has Been Exposed – CUPP by bluefilm: 4:00am On Sep 04
Burob:
Ok you were expecting a one year miracle abi?

To be frank with you, I wasn't expecting anything at all

You don't expect value from someone who cannot deliver value

It is as simple as that

Doing otherwise is total madness
Politics / Re: Fuel Hike: "Lord Forgive Me For I Have Sinned" - Man Begs For Castigating GEJ by bluefilm: 3:02am On Sep 04
Lizzysamuel:
He learnt the hard way

We are all learning the hard way, the lessons the agbadorians promised to teach Pitaobi

And what a lesson it has been!
Autos / Re: Five Fuel-efficient Cars You Can Buy On Carmart.africa Starting From ₦1 Million by bluefilm: 3:00am On Sep 04
Freethought:
I haven't checked the website, but if you buy a 1m naira car in Nigeria of today... Just tell your wife and children to give you space for like a month.

Why is that so?
Politics / Re: Fuel Scarcity: Tinubu’s Incompetence Has Been Exposed – CUPP by bluefilm: 5:25pm On Sep 03
We saw the incompetence and we tried to warn them

But the RONU miscreants told us that they will teach us some unforgettable lessons

Now, everybody is learning those lessons

And it is not a very palatable lesson, I must say
Family / Re: I'm Contemplating Divorce After Two Years by bluefilm: 5:23pm On Sep 03
Successtube:
I never thought I’d find myself contemplating divorce just two years into my marriage. As a bachelor, I’d look at couples splitting up and wonder how they ended up there. Didn’t they date and get to know each other first? Didn’t they see the signs? And yet, here I am, standing on the brink of making the same decision. I dated my wife for a year and three months before we got married, and I thought I knew her. But I was wrong. She lied and pretended to be someone she wasn’t. Now, I’m starting to see who she truly is, and it’s tearing me apart.

Immediately after our wedding, I noticed changes in her that hadn’t been there before. One month in, we were not having sex like any newly married couple would. Every time I tried to be intimate, she’d have some excuse—a headache, feeling tired, or being stressed from work. I tried to be patient, thinking it was just a phase. But it didn’t end. When I finally asked her what was wrong, she bluntly told me she didn’t like sex. I was shocked. How could she not like sex? We had been intimate enough times while dating for me to believe otherwise.

“How can we have children if we don’t have sex?” I asked, trying to keep my frustration in check. Her response was indifferent, almost as if it didn’t matter. From then on, she’d sometimes only have sex with me during her ovulation period, like it was a chore to check off her list. It went on like this for over eight months, and I felt more and more disconnected. I felt unwanted, unloved. Every attempt to bridge the gap between us only seemed to widen it.

But the cracks didn’t just stop there. Through a relative of mine, I managed to get her a job that paid her 300,000 Naira monthly. She seemed happy, and I was glad I could help. Then, fate dealt me a blow—I lost my job. After months of searching, I managed to find another one, but it paid only 120,000 Naira a month. I couldn’t afford to stay home, so I took it, thinking it would just be temporary until I found something better.

My 120,000 Naira salary barely covers our expenses. I take care of the rent, food, bills, and still fuel my car to get to work. The one that hit me hardest was when our rent increased to 700,000 Naira around the same time my car’s engine gave out, needing another 500,000 Naira to repair. I felt the walls closing in on me. I was struggling, juggling all these financial burdens alone. I turned to my wife, thinking she’d step up and help. After all, she was earning more than double what I was. But all she could offer was 50,000 Naira.

I was speechless. She looked at me and said it was a man's duty to cater to his family, and she could only "assist." Her words felt like a slap. Here I was, drowning under the weight of our expenses, and she was holding back. I had to sell one of the lands I’d bought back in my bachelor days to cover the bills. I never thought I’d be in a position where I had to sell my hard-earned property just to survive while my wife, who I had helped get a better-paying job, stood by and watched.

The emptiness gnawed at me until I reached out to someone who had once filled a different kind of void in my life—my ex. We had broken up years ago because of distance when she moved to London for her studies. But we never really ended things on bad terms. There was always a "what if" lingering between us. Now, in my loneliness, that "what if" turned into late-night conversations, laughter, and the kind of warmth I hadn’t felt in a long time. I sneak out every now and then to be with her. I know it’s wrong. I know cheating is not the answer, but I felt like I was drowning, and she was the only one who could save me. With her, I felt alive again, seen, and heard. Things quickly escalated, and before I knew it, I was back in her arms. It felt like a betrayal of my marriage vows, but at the same time, it felt like the only way to reclaim a part of myself that had been lost.

I never imagined I’d be contemplating divorce, but here I am. I want to marry my ex. I want a fresh start, a chance to feel loved again. I don’t know if I can continue in a marriage where I feel more like a burden than a partner. Maybe it’s time to face the harsh truth: some people change, and some people never really were who they claimed to be. Maybe it’s time for me to choose my own happiness, to take a leap and start over.

Don't make the same mistake I made. Study your partner thoroughly before to married, don't rush!

This story is total rubbish
TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija 2024: Live Updates Thread by bluefilm: 6:29am On Sep 03
Aguwanyi:
I go trace una.. grin grin grin

You shouldn't have mentioned this
Politics / Re: Billionaire Bill Gates To Visit Nigeria On Tuesday by bluefilm: 8:15pm On Sep 02
Satanic Bill Gates again?

Just Watch the sudden increase in the number of Mpox cases in Nigeria after his visit

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Politics / Re: My Political Commitment To Peter Obi Ended After Tinubu’s Victory — Okupe by bluefilm: 5:09pm On Sep 02
Total nonsense sad
Sports / Re: Victor Osimhen: Galatasaray Reach Loan deal agreement With Napoli - Romano by bluefilm: 4:13pm On Sep 02
I can hear Finidi George laughing out so loud

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Politics / Re: Tinubu Authorises 50% Subsidy For Power Used By Institutions, Hospitals by bluefilm: 4:12pm On Sep 02
From subsidy Is gone to 50% subsidy?

Dey play
Health / Re: Inside Abandoned 250-bed Ogun Hospital Where Termites, Others Are Patients by bluefilm: 11:04am On Sep 02
pyyxxaro:
Please Permit me to blame Tinubu for this , I said Please 🙏

You don't need any permission at all
Politics / Re: Passengers Lament As Lagos Drivers, Louts Raise Fares by bluefilm: 10:09am On Sep 02
Bobloco:
It's been one bad news to another since the emergence of this regime

Nigerians have really suffered under this calamitous Tinubu regime

The worst part is that we have not even reached half time

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Celebrities / Re: Most Boring Porn Star In The World by bluefilm: 7:35am On Sep 02
Tekashi89:
I think the award for worst bluefilm star should go to this dude.

I've never seen anybody lazy in his craft like Krissyjoh Chris.

Dude will first use big preeq to attract you to click his video. When you click, the preeq will be what you ordered vs what you got.

Now, the girls in his videos are good, but you see this guy? Laziness is his name. He'll just lie down and the women will be untop as an oriaku that he is.

When he now finally manages to get up, he gives you the most boring nragbu ever. No skills, just vibes and inshallah.

If you make mistake and click on his video, because of the big preeq you saw as the caption photo, you'll be disappointed.

Chris, you're a disgrace to the p*rn industry and God will punish you for 600 years!

Why are you focusing on him?

Are you gay or something ?

Forget about him and focus on the bitches he's banging

That's exactly what I do

He normally bangs some well endowed bitches

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TV/Movies / Re: RADICALS Evicted From The Big Brother Naija 'No Loose Guard' House by bluefilm: 7:55pm On Sep 01
Nonsense

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Celebrities / Re: US Rapper Fatman Scoop Dies After Collapsing On Stage by bluefilm: 5:20pm On Sep 01
Did he take the COVID vaccine?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester United Vs Liverpool (0 - 3) On 1st September 2024 by bluefilm: 5:16pm On Sep 01
Goaaaaal

Liverpool 3

Mo Salah on the beat

It's all over for Womanchester

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester United Vs Liverpool (0 - 3) On 1st September 2024 by bluefilm: 5:16pm On Sep 01
helinues:
The whole team needs to be dismantled. Apart from the goalkeeper, Onana, others are just there like K in Knives

Which creative moves have they made in this match?

Mainoo is trying his best
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester United Vs Liverpool (0 - 3) On 1st September 2024 by bluefilm: 4:46pm On Sep 01
helinues:
Is it young age that's affecting Rashford?

Rashford needs a new challenge

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Sports / Re: Napoli: "I feel sad seeing Comments from Nigerians About Osimhen" - Ighalo by bluefilm: 4:45pm On Sep 01
The way Finidi George will be laughing at osimhen right now

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester United Vs Liverpool (0 - 3) On 1st September 2024 by bluefilm: 4:43pm On Sep 01
Old age has finished Casemiro

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Religion / Re: What A Christian Saw On Hospital Bed Of Rich Atheist Friend Dying Of Lung Cancer by bluefilm: 10:41am On Sep 01
Fiscus105:
All these books you mentioned,are they not religions pointing to EXISTENCE OF GOD?

You people just too delusional and myopic in reasoning. What OP said, many of u have digressed in other to win cheap point.

......the OP is emphasising that, a known aethist trying to renounce his bilif and accepted the existence of God wen death is imminent, but many of you are shifting and talking trash.

Xtian, islam, budih, hindu are they not the way to God existence in their own unique
ways?

I see your point

But at the same time, do you see my point that there is really no Superior God?
Politics / Re: Tinubu: No Place To Hide! By Olusegun Adeniyi by bluefilm: 9:16am On Sep 01
The Renewed Shege must go round

Tilumboo till 2099

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Religion / Re: What A Christian Saw On Hospital Bed Of Rich Atheist Friend Dying Of Lung Cancer by bluefilm: 9:10am On Sep 01
Absolute nonsense tales

What if you came to his dying bed and you saw the Quran or some other Krishna or Budha worship items on his bed?

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Politics / Re: Tinubu May Shake Up Cabinet As Pressure Mounts On Ministers by bluefilm: 8:25am On Sep 01
Nonsense angry
Education / Re: Students Of Military Secondary School Revolt Against Soldiers (video) by bluefilm: 7:48am On Sep 01
End time Military Secondary School Students grin
Family / Re: Nigeria Man Slams His Wife For Leaving The House Dirty And Messed Up(video) by bluefilm: 7:46am On Sep 01
Looks like a skit to me

But all the same, I feel his pains

The worst is that the woman will even be watching that useless Zee World
Politics / Re: FOREX Reserves Dip By $505.68 Million In August, Biggest Drop In Four Months by bluefilm: 7:40am On Sep 01
Oghighirhighi:
From the look of things, this so-called CBN mr cardoso will die of cardiac arrest very soon.
This is quite funny grin
Family / Re: Questions You May Ask When Choosing A TV Stand by bluefilm: 4:54am On Sep 01
No pictures? undecided

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Fashion / Re: Chidimma Adetshina Crowned Miss Universe Nigeria 2024 by bluefilm: 2:40am On Sep 01
nlfpmod:
Chidimma Adetshina has won Miss Universe Nigeria 2024.

Consolation, I guess ..?
Education / Re: Moment Students Pranked Their Lecturer & Walked Out Of His Class (video) by bluefilm: 9:49pm On Aug 31
This is bullshit_

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Health / Re: Again, Man Commits Suicide In Ogun by bluefilm: 7:38pm On Aug 31
I hope he's not one of those useless ''vote APC or go home'' thugs?

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