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Girllllllllllllll, If you only knew, I am not sure about who you have been listening to in London but , the Indian Americans that have met speak with uninhibited fluency in public and behind closed doors,

"you don't often find proper Indians going out with blacks, only African Indians fron places like kenya or zimbabwe or those from the carribean would actually try and get down with a black girl or boy."

I do not understand by what you mean by this statement. Especially the word "Proper". You make it sound as if something is wrong with people of African Decent. Are you saying only low class Indians date people of African decent? Do you think that people of African Blood are less than other people in the world? We are all people born the same way with the same hopes and dreams. I would think any man would consider it a privilege and a gift to date some one like me, smart, educated, intelligent, thoughtful, energetic, curious, beautiful, etc.

[center]Well, my saying is

"Once you had a taste of Curry you'll never be in a Hurry"
(to go back to black, that is) [/center]

But, that's not totally true.  Because Although I am a light skin African American
I tend to migrate towards the brown to really dark skin Indian men.

This is and interesting topic.  I was doing a search on black women dating East Indian men.  I just wanted to see how many other black women find them attractive besides me,    I am an African American who grew up mostly in a white environment in the southern part of the United States.  Moreover, dated my first Indian boyfriend in my late 20's. 

There are several things that i find that i really like about Indian men beside their exotic features.  Of the one's i have known and dated the things i like the most like are their world view, global thinking, high intelligence, adaptability, extremely polite, well rounded, well read, highly educated, and calm personality.  In addition, I found them to be; 
[center] extremely sensual, great kissers, and wonderful lovers.  [/center]

Now, with that said, yes it is true that their are the traditional family issues that they have to come to terms with.  And i found the if the Indian man is somewhat insecure and is the type that needs his family approval then an American woman is not going to stand a chance.  But, if he is assured of himself and his place in this world then he will make the best decision for his life.  I do ask up front if he is independant from his family and makes his own decision.  Some will tell you the truth and some won't.  But, it dose not take long to figure it out.  You can tell by where he takes you and who he introduces you to. 

It's not easy finding open minded East Indian men here in the south but, I just can't seem to date American men.  They just turn me completely off, both White, Black, and Hispanic men.