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Dating Indian Men by victoria1(f): 10:56pm On Mar 02, 2006 |
how do you african girls feel about dating indian guys? how many of you would date one? |
Re: Dating Indian Men by Free(f): 4:53am On Mar 03, 2006 |
indian boyzzz i havent really come across any but anywayz am only attracted to black men |
Re: Dating Indian Men by Thagodfada(m): 3:39pm On Mar 03, 2006 |
Sorry to jump into this female conversation but i went to school with a lot of girls and guyz from India and i don't see any reason why you can't date them. But beware of their culture. They are very strict regarding the role of a woman in the house. Check that out. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by whitelexi(m): 3:42pm On Mar 03, 2006 |
I like variety because its the spice of life, Indian girls are not bad at all and if u think i'm lying, wait till u try an indian muslim |
Re: Dating Indian Men by ashric(f): 7:06pm On Mar 03, 2006 |
I'm half indian and grew up in indian culture and i absolutely will not date an indian boy again. My cousin and i dated Indian Muslim brothers. She married hers, I moved on. She now wants to leave him because she has no freedom. The boy changed after they got serious. I know some indian boys (like my cousins) who are nice but they are few. Even my mom says indian men don't want a wife, they want a slave! Indian girls are another story. She treats her man like a king, and is always dutiful regardless of whether he deserves it or not. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating Indian Men by Rhodalyn(f): 7:08pm On Mar 03, 2006 |
as long as he's fineeeeeeeeeeeeeee then no probs |
Re: Dating Indian Men by Thagodfada(m): 7:17pm On Mar 03, 2006 |
ashric: Thatz an example of what i was saying earlier. The role of a woman in indian culture is a little spooky. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by ashric(f): 8:22pm On Mar 03, 2006 |
Thagodfada: Tell me about it. It has been the demise of many. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by AngelMary(f): 8:53pm On Mar 03, 2006 |
I got married after dating my husband (who is an Indian) for a long time. Indian men , when you closely examine is almost similar to Nigerians. They treat their partners with respect and love, and can be very supportive and encouraging. They wouldn't want their wives to have a loose lifestyle and will not tolerate adultery at any cost. From what I've understood, the men there believes in a two-in-one package. Somebody who is successful both as a homemaker as well as a career woman (Some of them can be egoistic too). Great food, love and care is all you need to win their heart. Another important thing is that, when you date an Indian man, you date his entire family. So make sure you are good to his parents, siblings, grandparents and extended family. A word of caution : Make sure you go for someone who is well-educated. Else you will have a tough time managing them 1 Like |
Re: Dating Indian Men by Idekeson(m): 10:52pm On Mar 03, 2006 |
The word on the street is that an average Indian man can be very shrewd about money. That rubs a lot of people the wrong way. There may be exceptions but sincerely, I haven't met one yet. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by chinani(f): 12:15am On Mar 04, 2006 |
interesting topic b/c i just got over my south asian boy tripp, it was a nice trip. where i live (THE H) and all over TEXAS they're a LOT OF SEXY SOUTH ASIAN MEN (bengali, paki, indian, etc.) i dont have a prob. w/ dating one b/c i relate alot to them as a 1st generation american, as a person w/ "foreign" parents etc. here they're alot like africans in america: they love food, parties and are trying to maintain/balance their culture in america. at my U the muslim students assc. & the iranian stud. assc. LOVED the african std. assc. the feeling was mutual and our communities really vibed. even the ppl who werent in those clubs, if they found out i was nigerian it was all HUGS and KISSES. yet from what i noticed, S.A.s love to date each other which is fine by me. but if one comes my way, it'll be all ***smooches*** |
Re: Dating Indian Men by Dauda(m): 4:11am On Mar 04, 2006 |
More power to you if you want to date Indian men or women. Don't leave home without your breath mint though. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by larger20(m): 1:45pm On Mar 04, 2006 |
ashric: maybe cos they are muslim, but oh well i think all u said about indian men is true, I might be opening up a software company in india due to their smart programming asses. I like their courage and determination.also labor is cheap there compared to the US. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by victoria1(f): 6:01pm On Mar 04, 2006 |
lol @ dauda. but some of them smell like curry. i still think african men are more attractive but some of them are gorgeous too. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by da808cutie(f): 7:57pm On Mar 04, 2006 |
gosh Dauda, u had me rolling on the floor there. LOL! I really don't think I'd date an Indian man, I'm in no way attracted to them. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by Honey123: 8:43pm On Mar 06, 2006 |
If U marry Indian men. To get to freedom from torture is Kill him or kill yourself. Never marry Indian men. What Indian girls should do is boycott marrying Indian men and marry other men from the world. And What other girls from world should do is never ever marry Indian men. In that way Indian men can be taught lesson. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by tamia(f): 1:12am On Mar 09, 2006 |
ther's this indian guy in my Biology class omg he's smokingly hot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ouch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i like his ways though n if i could date him i would. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by ocho(f): 3:01am On Mar 11, 2006 |
dating Indian men? ummm, i don't really find them that attrractive. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by cammy(f): 5:22am On Mar 11, 2006 |
some indian guys are pretty hot. i dont mind dating one. they are pretty kool people |
Re: Dating Indian Men by Allied: 7:03pm On Mar 16, 2006 |
I am dating one right now, Our similarities are more than our differences. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by mamaput(f): 8:08pm On Mar 16, 2006 |
me no never. I like there food thats it. The is one i Know he has a fast food delivery service if i work too late my kids order pizza and guess what he brings it persolally and asks for me.? but am not at home. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by Dauda(m): 3:03am On Mar 17, 2006 |
Allied: Allied, pele poor thing. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by Allied: 3:55pm On Mar 17, 2006 |
Dauda, why poor me? |
Re: Dating Indian Men by Dauda(m): 2:31am On Mar 18, 2006 |
Allied: @ Allied, that was just a joke. Do your thing. If he rocks your world, hold on tight to him. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by blueocean(f): 4:55am On Apr 26, 2006 |
This is and interesting topic. I was doing a search on black women dating East Indian men. I just wanted to see how many other black women find them attractive besides me, I am an African American who grew up mostly in a white environment in the southern part of the United States. Moreover, dated my first Indian boyfriend in my late 20's. There are several things that i find that i really like about Indian men beside their exotic features. Of the one's i have known and dated the things i like the most like are their world view, global thinking, high intelligence, adaptability, extremely polite, well rounded, well read, highly educated, and calm personality. In addition, I found them to be; [center] extremely sensual, great kissers, and wonderful lovers. [/center] Now, with that said, yes it is true that their are the traditional family issues that they have to come to terms with. And i found the if the Indian man is somewhat insecure and is the type that needs his family approval then an American woman is not going to stand a chance. But, if he is assured of himself and his place in this world then he will make the best decision for his life. I do ask up front if he is independant from his family and makes his own decision. Some will tell you the truth and some won't. But, it dose not take long to figure it out. You can tell by where he takes you and who he introduces you to. It's not easy finding open minded East Indian men here in the south but, I just can't seem to date American men. They just turn me completely off, both White, Black, and Hispanic men.
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Re: Dating Indian Men by chinani(f): 5:51am On Apr 26, 2006 |
So, what you're saying is: Once you go Brown you never go back?? j/k Do ya thang girl! |
Re: Dating Indian Men by blueocean(f): 1:56am On Apr 27, 2006 |
[center]Well, my saying is "Once you had a taste of Curry you'll never be in a Hurry" (to go back to black, that is) [/center] But, that's not totally true. Because Although I am a light skin African American I tend to migrate towards the brown to really dark skin Indian men.
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Re: Dating Indian Men by chinani(f): 9:58am On Apr 27, 2006 |
At my alma mater, the Indian & Paki student asscs. made shirts that said "Come See What Brown Can Do For You" or something of that nature. I think they "borrowed" the UPS slogan. The shirts were hella cute. But, I like your |
Re: Dating Indian Men by blueocean(f): 2:09pm On Apr 27, 2006 |
Kool, you can quote me anytime. I would love to hear more on this topic of Indian men and women of African decent. Still few people here have elaborated on their experiences and view points. If anyone else knows of other places that touch upon this topic please let me know
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Re: Dating Indian Men by Nia: 6:14am On Apr 29, 2006 |
Blueocean I like the pictures. Keep 'em coming if you have more, About Indian men, I think the generalizations and stereotypes can be applied to other people as well, including many countries in Africa. Submissiveness is still very present in many parts of the world. Eventually, it's all about finding a good man that's perfect for you and that means knowing as much as possible about the person before getting married. I am usually hanging around people from different countries because, even though I'm a Naija-born American I feel like a global citizen for the most part and I've always enjoyed my experiences with dating people from different cultures and different parts of the world. However, i have met very few Indians that I have been attracted to, <<<I hope that doesn't sound mean>>>. Although I seem to have developed a preference for Latinos, LOL. To answer your question, though, I see nothing wrong in dating someone you are attracted to and care about, no matter where they're from. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by babe1(f): 7:09am On Jul 30, 2006 |
Huh?? anyways since i am married i reserve my comments. But good luck , but love is where u find it and in whom. |
Re: Dating Indian Men by babe1(f): 5:51am On Jul 31, 2006 |
blueocean: And how old are u ? |
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