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Anyone who has a kid bunk bed to sell please let me know. I urgently need one.. Any location but preferably in Benin

kibi:
The kids should stay there and do their studies. They don't really need to be in Nigeria to think or act Nigerian. With information technology they can jolly well read about Nigeria and make friends with Nigerians in diaspora. Coming to Nigeria at a time like this with all the kidnappers perfecting their trade coupled with cultism in most. Nigerian Universities including religious owned ones may likely turn those kids to what their parents never expected.

I totally agree with you kibi, I have noticed you always make very intelligent comments. Sent you a PM.

ryut:
I and my wife have separated for some weeks now due to some irreconcilable differences to give ourselves some space and which nobody know where it will finally end and we will not be meeting.However,one of the basic challenges since the separation is coping with sexual urge.In all sincerity i dont want to commit adultery pending the outcome of the separation and nobody knows how long it will last or whether it will finally lead to parting away.I also know that my wife due to her very high sexual drive is not finding it easy as well.Last time She sent my a text which when i read meaning behind it, is more like,that the urge is much on her,cant cope and probably [b]seems like she has messed up(started messing up) with men or started dating other men.However,i want to use this separation time to seek for God's direction especially over the union and one of my challenge is sexual urge.Truly,its not easy,most times,i will be disturbed and some nights i find it difficult to sleep,even though my wife attitude/text message somehow portray that its likely she has already had messed up sexually/started dating another man,but i dont want to fall,atimes i even feel like to masturbate,but it is also a sin to do so.How can one be engaing in adultery and masturbation and yet be praying?.I cant engage in any of the two and yet have a clean mind to pray.My conscience will keep disturbing me that i wont be able to pray or anytime i want to pray if i do so.I have been taking all necessary precaution including keeping myself busy,avoid staying in a lonely place,praying anytime i have the feeling,keeping away my mind from it,stopped going to any place that will make me vulnerable to it,etc,but all to no avail as the urge is still high and quite distracting.Please kindly advice on what you think i should i do.

Seems like you are trying to give yourself an excuse to commit adultery with your supposed suspicion about your wife already cheating....I might be wrong anyway, but that's what I deduce.

Anyways, please don't cheat, resolve your difference yourselves if you can...if you guys both agree you can't, decide on the way forward amicably

tiwiex:
You say e her pain is justified yet u don't know if d story is true. How u justify na?

Yes na, reading her story, she is justified to be pained but then the truth of the story, na another matter entirely...

This is too chilling!! Horrifying to say the least

Is the ex pained? Yes, is her pain justified? Yes, is her story true? Only God know

Miradamian:
Jazz pass jazz, she should do her own Jazz and go collect her stuff. That might be empty threat, if she is innocent, jazz will not catch her. She should consult her gods to go with her and nothing will do her. Finish

I don't think its really about the jazz fear, she was talking about using policemen after all she has the court order.
My issue is the ex is just wickedly holding on to her things...he obviously doesn't need them. He even sold her car from what she gathered.

My aunt recently got divorced from her husband of 5 years because of constant beating which led her to the hospital several times, neglect of children and some other reasons bothering on fetish..She sued for the divorce, the husband now ex never showed up and the judgement was delivered in her favour.
The main issue on ground is all her personal belongings and things she had to hurriedly leave behind and which the court has said should be released to her are still not with her...reason is the ex has blatantly refused even bragging that if she uses force to come pack her things, she should be prepared for what she sees as he has jazzed the place.
Those properties are very important to her as she cannot possible start from scratch in their purchase....clothes, bags, kitchen stuff and gadgets..she bought them personally and some of her credentials.
Please what is your suggestion and is there anyone who can personally help her get justice as I feel so bad for her

Thanks

I sincerely hope the OP is not trying to join the said group in church with the highest votes so that he won't be obligated to give as well....

This is so serious....i do wonder what happens to their privates when they grow older...knowing that they become worse as they get older

This is beyond shocking....so sad

He might have had a change of heart and decided not to kill anyone after all.God works in mysterious ways...

Weird? For sure, Possible? I guess, true? Only God knows

femid1st:
Amen

And Amen!

OP, I wish I could like your post a million times. Seriously, you couldn't have said it better

She looks so innocent in that picture. I pray for her safe return. Amen

Sadly, this is a case of a woman who felt she had met a good man and had no reason to hide her money from him. Painfully, such action only leads to disaster!

Ladies, please men aren't worth spending your money on....quote me anywhere

Happy for you fine woman with fine kids...

My friend is actually going through this and she doesn't work because her husband blatantly refuses to allow her. I was so upset when I heard this and hence my post. She would LOVE to work, she is educated and has her Masters.
It just seems like she is being punished to me. Give her an allowance monthly...

I totally think the men should provide allowances for their partners. Regardless of their marital status.
Its not about milking the man dry or anything but something that would assist in her immediate needs...I personally hate the idea of always having to ask...infact I don't know how to ask for money from a guy

A man has money and keeps it all in his account while psyching the girlfriend, fiancee or even wife by saying" what is mine is yours baby" yeah right! Can she withdraw from it and if she keeps asking all the time will you like it? Why dont you just give her a share so she knows she has HERS!.