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Dreal1247:
That serves them right. Two wrongs can never make a right. Marry, you said that marriage is a scam. He who thinks that education is expensive should try ignorance. I wish all men and women should keep receiving this kind of treatment. I bet you, everybody will fight to keep their marriages. And the greatest gainers are the children whose parents failed to divorce.

h9w old are u? It obvious u not married .

N see where u carry the topic enter

Man came out of a club with a pretty lady only to find out the lady is just another dude dressed as a woman , this didn't settle well with the man after spending so much on the cross dresser and was about taking him home

The fight started , with d cross dresser getting d upper hand but ended up in d receiving end

VIDEO HERE

https://www.hostelite.ng/man-came-out-of-a-club-with-a-pretty-lady-only-to-find-out-the-lady/

Sonofgod1990:
This is something a 5 years old person can build in less than 2 days here in united state of America. Nigeria with backwardness

And u thats above 10 year old how far

Caught on the Matrimonial Bed? Chaos Erupts as Woman Shields Man from Angry In-Laws

A dramatic scene reportedly unfolded after a married woman was allegedly caught with another man on her matrimonial bed by her husband's brothers.

The confrontation quickly turned physical as the relatives allegedly beat the man, who could be heard screaming, "What did I do?"

Throughout the incident, the woman was seen trying to shield him from the blows and pleading with the angry relatives to stop.

The authenticity of the video and the circumstances surrounding the incident have not been independently verified.

WATCH VIDEO HERE

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helinues:
Somehow true. You cant evade monthly bills in UK

Smh for u, soo no bills for Nigeria

Tag just came and ate nigerians people haba
A friend lost 1.5 million even after I told her not to. Now shes crying

Love gone wrong

after a woman requested a divorce, her husband k*lled all 8 of their children.

VIDEO HERE
https://www.hostelite.ng/an-american-man-killed-all-8-of-his-children-after-the-woman/

seobusinessuk2:
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werisetogether:
Thanks for sharing

Just curious:

1. Do you keep track of ALL your expenses on a spreadsheet? tried to but stopped, its not worth it trust me, else u slip in depression.

2. What products/services do you market? (Saw "marketing" in your sig)

physical products, to services being rendered.

On google search.

bing n others optional
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MatrixReloaded:
Shut ur mouth. Always on the negative side of success

na the the tithe that one de eye

Curious345:
May God protect and keep him

his dead what is God protecting again

Plus other house n utility bills

If na arab person dem go dey bend d case out of fear

zinowealth:
But he is making sense. With the amount crude per barrel is sold today, we are suppose to be buying fuel at max N500 per liter. Stop being cheap. Nigerians deserve better.

u no sabi read ? I said d person is attacking somebody else did he even talk bout cheap fuel

Afonja007:
dangote built largest refinery in the world in their any change in your life? How much more battery

Some people will never get sense , they built plant see who he dey attack

Amalekki:
Someone that grew up in Iyana Ipaja where true love means free malt, suya and peppersoup, all bills paid by boyfriend and now she has to contribute her own quota and bring something tangible to the table.

no mind them , thru begin friend ng guy 4 there na wow to suck m dry

In Nigeria u women don't love u just pretend cause u ve found a way out of ur present poverty situation , soo yh suck it all

TotoSuckker:
She must be very fuulish

Shes looking for parmanent atm

Married lady leaves husband for bf went wrong

Apparently she thought the guy was all ready to take care of her but he wasn't ready to settle with her, while she claims the guy is more settled than the husband that's why shes leaving him

WATCH VIDEO HERE

https://www.hostelite.ng/married-lady-leaves-husband-for-bf-went-wrong/

190:
badoo?

what sort of planet are y'all living on!

Isnt that the platform where y;all meet and knack for free

not all

i dont want to post the rest but i got a message after asking why cause i have a 2 degress 1 in ng 1 outside n a teaching training they recommmeded. Mind you i was chatting with a whiteguy who simply barely have any teaching skills 1 bsc n same teaching online licence like mine n he got multiple offers

Heres their response below

I want to be completely honest with you:

Unfortunately, many of our partner organizations have strict hiring requirements based on passport country, visa regulations, and other government-imposed restrictions that are beyond our control. For example, some countries, like Japan, have very specific requirements (such as driver's licenses from approved countries) that create significant barriers for teachers from certain nations. There are many more examples.

These aren't our rules – they're immigration and employment policies set by foreign governments. And we know how frustrating and unfair this can feel when you're qualified, motivated, and ready to teach.

SHIVA001:
Lol I swear. Na single mothers full badoo

lol d rate men just dey born waka ehhh

Check from 28 down skimping dress n fun to be with

30 up fat single mothers

40 up fat single mother of 2 n more

Next generation oh boy e go plenty

Sirchiboy:
It was so unfortunate.
My stature betray me.
Lost all my savings 17.5m I would have used to better my life within one yea in the name of women.
If there is no effects , I would have chop off my Dickson long ago..
I don't blame my uncles who could not make it in life.
It was women that destroy their life

Story

Nigerian Man tracks down a lady he booked from Ibadan after she allegedly stole his 10-gram gold necklace, only to discover she sold it for ₦120,000.

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Ifeoluwadev:
Let me start by saying this: I know what you are thinking. "This guy don craze." Even my own mother cried when I told her I was coming back.

I left Nigeria in 2019. Got a visa through my company's transfer program, packed two bags, and landed in Manchester on a cold Tuesday morning that nearly killed my Lagos raised soul.

For 5 years, I did everything "right."

Got a better paying job. Sent money home every month. Upgraded my family's life. Got my indefinite leave to remain sorted. On paper, I was living the dream every Nigerian prays for at night.

But last December, I packed those same two bags now four and came back to Lagos.

Here is why.

1. I WAS LONELY IN A WAY I CANNOT FULLY EXPLAIN

Nobody warns you about this.

You can be surrounded by colleagues, housemates, even "friends" and still feel like a ghost. British people are polite but not warm. There is a difference. You will smile at your neighbor for 3 years and never know his first name.

In Lagos, my street alone has more genuine human connection than my entire postcode in Manchester. My landlord's wife used to bring me food when I was sick. My neighbor knew my name within 24 hours.

I did not realize how much I needed that until I did not have it anymore.

2. THE MONEY LOOKED BIG UNTIL IT DIDN'T

Yes, I was earning in pounds. But London/UK cost of living will humble you fast.

Rent: £900/month for a small flat. Food: £400/month if you cook mostly at home. Transport: £200/month. Bills: £150/month.

By the time you finish doing the math, that "big salary" is already half gone before you enjoy anything. And if you have family back home depending on you, which most of us do, you are effectively running two households.

Back in Lagos, with the savings and investments I had built up, I now run a small logistics business. Last month I cleared more in naira than I was taking home in pounds after expenses.

People forget to calculate purchasing power and cost of living when they are dreaming about abroad.

3. I WAS AGEING WITHOUT LIVING
This one is personal.

In the UK, my routine was: wake up, commute, work, come home, cook, sleep, repeat. Weekends were for grocery shopping and rest because Monday was always coming.

In Lagos, even with the chaos, there is LIFE. There is noise and owambe and suya at midnight and people who actually want to sit with you and argue about football for 3 hours. There is color. There is energy.

I went to the UK and became productive. I came back to Nigeria and started actually living.

4. MY PARENTS ARE GETTING OLD
I watched my father shrink over video calls. My mother's hair went completely white in 3 years. They never complained, that is the Nigerian parent way, but I could see it.

No amount of money sent home replaces presence. I know that sounds like something on a greeting card, but I promise you it is true. My father's face when I walked through the door in December is something I will never forget.

I refuse to be the child who shows up for the burial after spending the last good years sending money instead of time.

5. OPPORTUNITY IN NIGERIA IS UNDERRATED
This will be controversial, I know.

But hear me out. Nigeria is hard. The infrastructure is a disaster. Fuel prices are criminal. The government is not your friend.

AND YET, for someone with skill, international exposure, savings, and the willingness to grind, Nigeria rewards you in ways that a saturated Western economy cannot. The competition is not as fierce at the top. The gaps in the market are enormous.

I identified a logistics gap in my area. Started small. Now I have 6 staff and three vehicles. I am building something. In the UK I was building someone else's dream.

THE HONEST DOWNSIDES, I WON'T LIE TO YOU

Light situation is still a spiritual attack. Generator fuel is expensive. The roads want to kill me daily. Some things that should take 30 minutes take 3 days because of bureaucracy. I sometimes miss the simple efficiency of abroad. Ordering something and it actually arrives. Bills that just work.

I am not here to sell you a fantasy. Nigeria is hard. But it is MY hard. And I am building something meaningful inside it.

FINAL WORD

I am not saying don't Japa. If you have the opportunity and you are young, GO. Gather experience, save money, build skills, see the world.

But do not let anyone make you feel like returning home is failure. It is a choice. And for me, it has been the best one I ever made.

I am home. I am building. I am alive.


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Drop your questions or your own experience below, let us talk.

did you come back with money n started ur business or someone gave u

first headline said japan or u meant japa