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I am in Lagos to get a small ride, I was presented with these three options based on my budget.
Since I know nothing about automobiles your candid advise is needed because I have been given different opinions like:
Nissan 2.0 engine is not good, Please dont buy honda because of their hand.
go for Gulf, it is fuel efficient and strong. etc
Thanks.

floragregs:
how exactly can I 'deal' with it? Plz help me out here. Tnx

the best way to deal with it is to have it at back of ur mind that we all die anyway. by knowing this u will be free from fears
some years back when i just recovered from tuberculosis, I developed this panic due to what i went through both at home and in the hospital.
I remembered when i was left alone and about to die, I noticed i couldnt control anything in my body. I pee and poo on my body then knew death is coming so i bid by mum goodbye, she said what does that mean before i collapsed,
but God revived me.
so after months of TB drugs and my recovery, i couldn't forget all i went through easily if i have slight headache or lil scratch on my prick, i wud think may be the whole misfortune is coming back.
I would dwell on the tot to the point that my hearthbeat will increase, the pulse on my arm will be visible and i wud be restless.
even when i went back to school i kept running from pillar to post, from one program to anoda, from class to deep bush to pray to God but i never felt berra.
my joints will be paining me and i couldnt even eat well because i noticed a growth in my belly.
my allowee and school fee was used to buy drugs and re-register myself in teaching hospital, i spent some on scan, and they started suggesting different thing not knowing it was mere abcess due to anti-biotics av taken.
to cut the story short weneva i wanna sleep and i feel like i might not wake up i say a short prayer and remember valaris morgulis lol. ask God to forgive me and fortunately have been seeing days.
All is well

pls can i get samsung s4 screen

kindly re-add me to the whatsapp group on 07065992199

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if you will be going from calabar you can holla send me private msg

adamawa but we will be able to redeploy to any state of our choice

please, how sure is redeployment from that end?. i dont think i can stay there..

unlimitedelite:
what is my gain in scamming people ... is it the 10k to 20k they will pay that will make me one of the top millionaires... actually the man helped me with my posting last year and also has helped my cousin who is going for batch B . when i told him about the DG cancellation of posting ... he told me that even the DG list is on their table already cos he works at the posting department. if am here to scam people Nairaland will have blocked my profile

oga u registered here not quite long... God is watching you if you are not for real and he will not bless the work of your hand if u ever scam anyone here. AMen

unlimitedelite:
Just 5 more days to go for 2015 Batch B PCM
To work on your posting to your favorite states apart from Lagos and FCT both are filled up now ,
Age exemption and
NYSC exclusion problems
contact: 08163248019

NO more FCT and LAGOS available...

oga do u work with nysc. . or u just registered to scam gullible pcm?

please PCM, anyone with info when call up no will be given to those that didnt pay the 3k.? thanks

Burlah4u2c:
And if we all were to register the same day, what could have happened? I don't see any reason why one should rush after all the registration spans from sept 8- oct9...Well, I still haven't registered.. observing the happenings so I can do mine without error.. Its just my simple reason why I haven't registered yet...

I don't actually buy that idea of first come, first serve... Statistics has taught us random sampling....

orie pee jawee(ur head is correct) and u have good reasoning faculty

please what do I do? my school sent wrong Jamb No. I only saw my name but status is I cannot register.

MarvellousGod:
You already know you won't make a good husband even before you're married? If you can love your kids, why can't you show same to their mum?? I pity whoever is going to settle down with you. .

If you know you can't commit in a relationship just as you've said, please don't get married cos marriage is about commitment.. Save a woman a life of misery biko..

d problem is, i give my all at d initial stage but after a while i ll start thinking abt why am into the relationship and before i know it..I lose interest even when sex isnt involved.
I really wish I have the zeal of commitment. not dat i never wish to be a good husband mbok

segedoo:
You do. Are u in doubt?

The gal I loved deeply turned out to be 'wrong' and confused. She's set having my own kids back:@

This is why sometimes I don't blame playas - male or female!

@bmoney9ja
mehn, I'm pretty cool with kids too. Can't wait to have mine preferrably all boys.

bro, me love preety baby gurls ooo at least one. in short i cant wait to have one, then boiz can follow.

jossey94:
Seriously? Being a good father has nothing to do with being a good spouse. The same way being a good mother has nothing to do with being a good wife. The love one has for one's kids can't be compared with anything( except for an unortunate few) and IMO is independent of ones love for his spouse. My two cents. Howeva, I feel that every child should grow up in a loving home and being a good father means ensuring ur a good husband even if its js 2 mk ur kid happy.

on point bro, I think my growing up affected my feelings towards women. I wud try to be a better me.

Moana:
sure, then you can come back and make noise about paying child support and blame it on feminism like your fellow mates again

I can neva make noise spending on a child that has my dna..not even on adopted one.

angieberry:
Stop being a playa
The fact that you love kids and love being around them does not automatically prove that you'll be a good father... Being a good father is beyond feeling good around kids, its interconnected with being a good husband because I don't know how you'll be good to your children if you're bad to their mother...hope I made sense

maam you are right, I really wish for better me.

Moana:
wait till you are 40 (with no wife) and giving advice about women up and down the forum like your fellow friends on NL

babymama wont be a bad idea you know?..

Mamaflex:
I guess you have not find someone you really love.

people have been telling me that but my question is, till when?

today when my neighbor's kids came to my apartment, i carried the youngest one as she rested on my shoulder, she slept off. I thought within myself that i would make a good daddy due to the way I feel around kids.

At that point, I started wondering how possible is it for me to be a good father without being a good husband due to my poor level of commitment in my past relationships.

I know I go extra miles when it comes to caring and giving attention to kids but doing that to women especially the ones have had something with, I find it very hard with time.

any suggestions on how to deal with that is welcomed.

happy birthday sir...more grace in ur ministry..God bless you

hello good people,
I have been pondering on an issue lately about which way to go.
I have interest in I.T because that is where I got my first exposure to corporate world. since then, I have been reading one I.T material or the other but I have not written any professional exam yet.
I got an internship job laterly related to I.T but not anywhere close to networking and server engineering I have flair for. but am planning working for a wyl to save so that I can pursue my career in I.T. the challenges am having is, I dont really have a mentor to guide me through my career path and goin to I.T school is a bit expensive where I am.
on the other hand a friend of mine in germany adviced me that working and schooling in Germany is a bit considerable.
my question is, should I save to travel or stay behind and get certified?
please for network and server engineer/administrators in the house I would need your help.
thanks

Princewell2012:
@op judging by the commandment, u have not pay ur tithe, even if u did all those things u mentioned. u c, man were not made to work like a robort, if God has blessed u, and u c a need for u to put one thing or d other in place like what u mention ealier. God will surely bless you. thats the way our Lord Jesus want us (christians) to be doing. when u discover some1 who is not capable, or well to do, u dont nds anybody to preach 2 u to asists him, which means u must b a caring person, den Jesus will b hapy wit u nd wil surely bls u. tithing has been nulify in d new testament, d day when Jesus died on d cross.

bros i dont seem to understand ur point..... do u mean it' s not right to use money meant for tithing to put things in plc in the house of God? afterall the bible states "bring ye all tithe into his house".
the reason behind my decision is, after paying all tithes in local churches they pack dem to the national head quarter which has been established in structure and facilities already.
and mind you, these local churches get little or no support from the so called provincial headquarters.

AdeniyiA:
my brother it seems you can see thru my mind on this issue, it's presently what I am very uncomfortable &unhappy with , our rent is due, we have students we can help, we find it difficult maintaining our amenities, some are jobless etc...
please carry on with your decision, it's the best in this case, also if u are capable locate a motherless homes/orphanage nd render d help you can.
I believe that is better....

thanks brother, it hurts me dis morning wen i was cleaning the church all the chairs have changed colour, some are broken and last week i cudnt withstand the heat.. dont know why local churches are being ignored while the provinces looks like a palace?

hello my people,
I just moved to the south and the parish am attending lacks basic things like chairs, fans and windows, even the floor is not smooth but I have decided not to pay my tithe to the church but using it to get all these things at the end of the month to put the sanctuary in shape.
because I dont see the reason why tithes are packed to the national headquarter when the local church is in mess.

If you are somewhere close to south-south Nigeria, I would suggest you visit this exhibition of culture, if not for anything but for the fun of this season.
It is really happening here in Calabar, Cross River State Nigeria and I heard this is just the beginning.

my girlfriend will be coming back home from service. but while in service she confessed she had sex once with a guy that was there for him when i went my way and she regrets it.

now she is coming back home and am the type that is scared of contagious diseases because I was once a victim of TB which I don't have the idea of where I got it from.

I know we all make mistakes at a point in life but I don't know how to ask her to go for HIV test before I can be fully committed to her again

usermane: Am sorry dear, you r not alone. I did have to part with a love interest recently too. I 'd planned in advance but things never worked out as planned. I 'd been smitten for two year without taking any significant step. But as soon as i was finally getting to address it, it all had to be terminated abruptly.

thks bro u seems to understand me better. there is more to my story if i can talk to u personally

perry2020: Good for you

agreed sis