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ebubeson:
In the past, to get a lady you like, it may take three months, a year, weeks etc. for her to say Yes, and it may come with pains, rejections, efforts, begging, assurance etc. before she says YES. And in those days, a lady saying Yes to you may sound like a big win and a joyous encounter.

Why is hard-to-get partly "dead" or almost dying? Why do men generally no longer chase women with efforts.

(1) Lack of Decency in Several Ladies: The rate at which several ladies sleep around might make several men not chase them with effort. Why chase a lady with effort when another guy might sleep with her easily, probably without spending a dime.

(2) Lack of Virtue in Several Ladies: Several ladies have little or nothing virtuous to offer. Some club, smoke sisha, do hookup, behave arrogantly sometimes, cheat etc. So when a man weighs these options, instead of him focusing on building a good relationship with a lady, he may just focus on sex and pleasure.

(3) Quest for Money and Material Things Amongst Ladies: The quest for material things and money amongst some ladies might scare several men. Even some ladies who are not from well-to-do backgrounds may appear so demanding. For some ladies to probably prefer yahoo boys to a responsible salary earner shows part of their nature.

In summary women are losing virtue but you've left out the fact that social media has made it so easy for everybody, male and female, to fornicate

MzeeMachiavelli:
Isn't the adjective used here supposed to be BIT? (I stand to be corrected)

Adjective? Bit? Bro just stand down

James39:
If she could do this to an elderly man...
I pity the man that will marry to one.

In fact be very afraid for the man that would end up with this demon possessed human

tolugar:
AI is the game changer and the beginning of the doom of mankind.

One day when we are no longer, AI will independently push the button.

It will take advancement beyond the reach and control of human intelligence.

Yes Musk will lay the foundation...


...But, what do I know?

*musk has laid the foundation. Spot on. Because it is recorded that in the end of time, men will be so dependent on the machine, they said it will do everything for them (there's a neo humanoid AI powered robot soon to go commercial already)

Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.

Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.

An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.

She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her contacts.

My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.

I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.

Please avoid that Mr Simpleton that is disguising as your friend. He is your enemy. Cut all ties with that fool immediately. Stop talking to him. Block him everywhere. If he comes knocking on your door knowing fully well that you are indoor, do not open. Also forget that confused slutt. Stop talking to her. Block here everywhere. And please stop throwing away your good fortune/spiritual energy by laying with these slutts who don't know how 'conscience' should work. Value your soul, brother

gasparpisciotta:
I believe Portable is suffering from some mental health issues that makes people see themselves as larger than they really are.

This is synonymous with heavy drug users

*with people who play with idols.
When they are so advanced in idolatry they put it on SM, the consequences/expected outcomes are endless

smokinloud:
He's not actually fooolish. He's just a hater of the Jews.

Kanye West says 'I love Hitler', accuses Elon Musk of stealing his 'Nazi swag' in explosive social media rant

Let us just disagree to agree that that guy is a lunatic in designer

mrbonesy2k:
At about 10:58pm yesterday, my dog barked just once, i was surprised because i just left the sitting room. I woke up this morning to see this long black snake lying dead in my sitting room outside door.
My dog couldn't stand up nor eat. But i have taken her to my vet doctor for treatment.
Please what is the name of this snake and does it have deadly venom?

Where's the photo of the good boy na

rentAcock:
Another attention seeking clown. One minute he says Blacks are the real Jews, the next minute he calls himself a Nazi. If this was the 1940s, the Nazis would've used him to roast BBQ. Ever since Adiddas ended their partnership with his Yeezy brand, the man has been on a psychotic downward spiral. Just the other day, the joker attended the Oscars with his girlfriend wearing a seethrough sheer dress with no underwear just to garner media attention and they gave it to him. Very soon, even the media will ignore his antics and he will be forgotten for eternity.

Only in America can an slowpoke rise to fortune and fame

tanigororo:
Where is all this Nonsense coming from that they are introducing Sharia into Yoruba Land, how does creating of Sharia Court in Yoruba Land translate introduction of Sharia Law to Yoruba Land.
Some people never failed to public show their absolute stupidity and hatred, what's the problem of introduction of Sharia Court to Yoruba Land.
If nobody force your Papa go Sharia Court abeg shut the Bleep up.

See the gibberish coming out of your gutter giro teeth. Apoda!

fuckJones:
what figure of speech is this?

oxymoron

theophorus:
Your Wife dey raise hand to Beat you?

I know say Women no like make Men dey beat children to correct them but say woman go raise hand beat her Husband?

Abeg, dem need to send that woman back to her Mama sharperly and that Man need to work on himself ooo.

From your comment I can tell you are F not M

Kobojunkie:
Huh? The same Jesus Christ of Israel who instead said that His Father, YHWH — of Israel — sent Him only to the Lost Sheep of Israel, literally indicating that only those whose ancestor is the man called Jacob can reach Him? How can a God who said He cannot be your God if you are a non-Isrealite be your God as a non-Israelite?

I guess you are reaching out to/trying to confuse some people. All the best

Righteousness2:
You don't need to kill or Harm yourself irrespective of the Sorrows in your life, family etc.
You don't need to send yourself to Help fire unnecessarily

Be it Joblessness, Sicknesses, Poverty, Joblessness, Barreness, Spirtual oppressions, Confusion, Depression, or whatever it may be.

This Coming Weekened Saturday and Sunday, February 8th and 9th is for you.
The GREAT GOD OF CHOSEN is waiting to Turn your sorrows to JOY.

From Sorrow to JOY is Happening live this weekend Saturday and Sunday, February 8th and 9th 2025.

Venue is THE LORD'S CHOSEN REVIVAL GROUND
CHOSEN ESTATE, AMUEO ODOFIN.
OSHODI/ALSO A EXPRESSWAY, BY ONE SHE BUSTOP, LAGOS, NIGERIA

TIME IS 8AM DAILY

MINISTERING LIVE IS GOD'S SERVANT, Pst Lazarus Muoka.

Don't wait to be told.
Don't miss for anything on Earth.

It is a Guaranteed that your sorrows will be turned into JOY

At this point, it is very sus the way you are always advertising this "God of Chosen"

porthouse7:
Na mumu still dey do religion , if u are a Christian Bleep u, if u are Muslim Bleep u too. If u believe in God alone God bless u

But the way to thy God is Christ. Peace!

Meaning? As it did not come up on Google translate

beeblack:
The two of u are great. The greatest is not yet born

Cole palmer is coming for their records

omoredia:
Hehe sebi Sweden has made romance with terrorist nah. It is good

Same Sweden wey dem dey collect permission from police to burn quran

zebszebs:
You dont know the difference between "many" and "much" and their proper usage?

Dont use this same brain to sire children.

As we have enough idiots in the world alread.

Haba guns in a fist fight

RollinTNDA:


I'm 100% sure these Foolish Chosen members saw the herdsmen and shouted "I'm Chosen, who are u"

Naso herdsmen use bullet baptize them

Odeshi vest no work
Fools believe more in Church bangle, Church oil, church candle , church doctrine and Daddy G.O than they belive in God.

Where is that bastatd chosen Righteousness
Werey will avoid this thread like leprosy.

Where is that stupid woman that gave testimony how armed robbers shoot her AK 47 but her Chosen vest blocked the bullets

Una Daddy GO dey carry DSS security
Come give una fake odeshi vest ..

Seriously, you find it funny?

Obakoolex:
How can you call someone a living corpse... That's uncouth.

Bants bro, did you not find it funny

ValCon888:
See as babe worwor like masquerade wey dey Tales by Moonlight. Doggy styled is not enough to fúck this chick. You need to cut off her head.

Lol falcon pls nah

Kooyepeju01:
I like that words, "no sane person will take his own life because of such a thing, anyways my family will raise the child without him".

You like his situation too?

Slytiger:
Nlfpmod

https://punchng.com/man-undergoes-life-saving-surgery-as-ndlea-removes-57-cocaine-pellets/

I hate to admit it but it wasn't the man's life they were trying to save. It was the cocaine they really wanted to retrieve

quadraheem:
Very unfortunate!
He should have come to NL and seek for advice and way out instead of the option he eventually took.
Relocating back to Nigeria would have saved his life. My thoughts

"He should have come to NL and seek for advice"
This might sound simple or stupid but if and only if that man had done that, I believe the outcome would have been different.

Because when a person like me drops a tale sadder than his, and other guys share more experiences that make even my own look like an ordinary argument with a danfo driver, it is at that point he will stop thinking of suicide and beg God for forgiveness instead

Righteousness2:
We Love Trump
We Love Netanyahu

The Combination of these 2 GREAT Leaders is = VIRGIN! VIRGIN VIRGIN and More Virgins in Virginland for TERRORISTS !

From now to the next Four Yrs is Gonna be Virgin Hell for TERRORISTS and Supporters.

No perfection in this world, but those faces up there represent the forces of good in this world. Different from the demon that wanted to come in and make abortion lawful, an act taught to men by fallen angels

Nonexisting1:
They start their wicked witchcraft at young age so no surprise here. Haaahhh, only if Adam had known, he would have kept vigil on that particular night they took one of his ribs. Few shots of hot drink could have kept him awake all night and this disaster would have been avoided.

He should have requested for a dog as company bro. He would never have been bored again or betrayed. The price he paid because of boredom is a great one. Look at us now sigh sigh

InvertedHammer:
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Most Nigerians born from the 80s till now were raised to be global wanderers, economic refugees and leeches. Why do you think immigration policies of other countries throw Nigerians into depression? None of them is thinking about fighting for Nigeria. Everyone is packed up already to flee. That's why they will gladly vote anything into power knowing that their first option is flight.

Trump coughs in US, Nigerians in Africa get cold. They are more interested in what Trump has for breakfast than what Tinubu is doing to the economy.

/

Leave us alone! One chance at life but you want us to wait till one of the paper handed boomers finally gets it right at the presidency? Jet age, jet brains, jet movements...you dig

ppogba:
She declared it at the National stadium Abuja abi?

Okay, the declaration was on CNN!

Werey!

Lol not everybody that has eyes can see. The smart young gold digger has subliminally broadcasted her message. The wise ones got her message loud and clear

Amotolongbo:
Regina: Sweet husband of my youth

Ned: Yummy wife of my aged

Openly declaring she can't wait for her rich old man to die so she can move to a young man smh

Don't be a willing simp. You are literally talking and having conversations with a person you just met. The fact the person is a female and you are already smitten does not mean you should turn to jelly. Grow a pair bro

Bendeco02:
But why would a sane person send 500k for a woman's birthday that is not his Wife?

Howmuch has he sent for his Mum's birthday

Sanity and simplicity don't mix. They are mutually exclusive, in case you dunno