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Avenger4NL:
What error msg are you getting exactlycoz I just logged into my own account without any qualms.

Incorrect pasword which is a fat lie then I try to recover my password, wait for an email confirmation none came.... Been on it since noon

Avenger4NL:
Na new mobile you dey use?

Normal web browser for lappy o

austino677:
was it to Payout or u can't login?

Log in o

austino677:
... Whenever we have problems regarding our accounts.. They turns deaf ears. .. why not try recover your password

Bro, I did.... And i have done.... Lol several times, even to open new account no case... Seems grey have issues with their network or probably too many customers like u boss

austino677:
yeah but as of December last year merrybet and lionsbet.com got higher odds.. . They reduced nowadays

Need to payout a d credit but bet9ja, but I can't access my account, don't know what to do o... Called customer care already the rude boy asked me to log in after 10mins my account will be accessible, not knowing that the guy just want ditch me ni

homesteady:
I was watching football that time, I've seen her and her pierced nipples now

No offence to anyone buh piercings and tattoos not my thing... The thing dey turn me off like poo

homesteady:
Okayy!
I've not seen the girl involved in anything yet.

She read out the first task on how to use the fire extinguisher, the lady with the Dragon Tattoos and piercings...

Just noticed merrybet odds very small compare to bet9ja.... If u accumulate games u see the difference, u won't notice much the but the winnings differs.... Dunno y bet8ja just freeze my account, can't access it o... Bet9ja open my account o, allow a new password so I can do my thing... No love for merrybet atall

homesteady:
Bobbyunitedfc who is tokunbo?

Tokunbo is tboss.... U know what tokunbo means right

OK am so gonna do everything possible to keep thin tall Tony in the house, the first day I met this guy in church I was like WTF how can a guy be so tall n cute.... He is such an easy going fella...

Beyonce... Looks so gay to me, maybe he is into ways who knows...

Cocoice am not sure her mama gave her that name,....fake, BB should have allows them use their real names, makes it more naija...

Efe....... Area dey behind h, but plz try speak small good English,,,

Bally aka yemi blaq..... Fine boy


And that boy from ph... Got forget your 6packs


Tbose aka tokunbo is actually 32 years old, forget the 22 she said o

Dunno the criteria used in selecting these peeps but I think it should have been done geographically, that would have aided Unity in diversification.... For people asking what the show is all about
!!!!!?

and thats how the cookie crumbled..............

86 minutes

TIJUANA OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
NO BE ONLY UNA PLAY THE GAME O...I JUST REMOVED EGPYT AND GHANA

85 MINS 0 1

ceaser:
Irrespective of the veracity of the claims or visions of your mum or aunt, I will implore you to listen to them. Your mother will not ask you to put your hand into fire. And while you have every right to your opinions or choices as a grown up, I sincerely implore you to listen to the counsels of elderly ones.

I have no strong bias against marrying from other tribes, but your mum may have her reservations and sincerely it may be due to her selfish reasons, especially when it has to do with her fear of communication or interaction with your spouse culture-wise. But the questions are this:

Is her opinion about taking your mate from your tribe an entirely bad opinion?

Do you believe that you will never find a mate that you would love like you feel about the lady in question?

Do you believe that in an average African cultural setting and especially Nigerian outlook, and as it is in western cultures, your parents have no input whatsoever in your marriage or your family life?

Do you think it is in your best interest to disregard your mother's concern about your welfare, especially now that your aunt corroborates your mum's position in the matter? (mind you that they may have both planned it together but it still doesn't matter IMO as their aim is to convince you beyond reasonable doubt)

Do you think you have to be selfish in your choices not minding how it rubs off of your family and especially your mum? (She may be worried that she won't be free with in-laws from other tribes as she would have loved to do if it were people of her own culture and extract, having in mind that mothers see their first son as their own little husband which they wouldn't want lose)

If your answers to those are in the negative, then you may need to listen to your mum not minding the inconveniences to you. It doesn't mean your manly attribute is being compromised but it actually is wisdom in handling issues.

No

Yes...this lady is the love of my life, we been on for 5 years

No

No

Yes.... It's my life, it's OK to be selfish

So much wisdom in your write up, can u please rate me base on my answer

lovat:
If you love your girl carry on. This is 21st century where your choice today makes or mar you. My parents don't need to tell me whom I'm to marry because I'm an adult and i can make decisions that will make or mar me.


Open a thread and explain better so that you can get more advice.

I do love my girl but what about the spiritual angle to it..... Or do u think those pastors and alfas could be lieing... The funny thing is that the prophesies are similar ..

1metre:
I hope u can relate with me here that your family hv some kin mental disability.

lots of laughs.....some kin,reminds me of my days growing up in wafi,yes what they have is some kin tribal disability......yoruba people and tribalism,wheres is that picture of mugabe sef?

humilitypays:
‎If that your Igbo fiancee agrees to marry you despite all your mum thinks about Igbo people, then she is a big fool with no brain!

She's better single than married to you, what nonsense!
‎
And your mum didn't even know that she was lucky for an Igbo girl to have agreed to marry her son Maybe your Igbo girlfriend isn't full Igbo girl sha, I am sorry for her‎

HEY MAN....easy on the lady,u dont need to insult her to buttress your point,thats totally not the way u address a woman.....just because she agrees to marry me despite my mum stands on igbo...

yes,my mum doest know how blessed i am to be dating an igbo lady,damn this babe can cook,i am yoruba but forget shes my fiancee she can cook for Aso rock on a ver low budget....

full igbo? shes from imo state,how full igbo can she be again na?

lovat:
Seriously you need to learn how to play with words, your fiancee isn't disable rather your parents don't want you together.


Let Love Rules but remember, its a two way street

i get u ur point,i just use the disabilities ton illustrate how bad the situation is,sorry if u feel disturbed by my choice of words

here we go again with the same story,can someone get married without parental consent?

Johnsown1:
Love conquers all, prayer is the key.

Pray until something happens,

yes thats the plan,but once person mama don make up her made,it only takes the grace of God for them to change......

Arrow24:
so being an Igbo person is a disability?

According to my mum who thinks the only perfect beings in this world are yorubas.....no offence to my ibo folks,i didnt mean to insult u guys,just related my situation to this very one..
sorry if u feel offended,meant no harm

I FELT LIKE CRYING AFTER READING THIS BECAUSE I CAN TOTALLY RELATE WITH THEIR STORY,,,,MY GIRLFRIEND HAS NO PHYSICAL DISABILITIES THE ONLY DISABILITY SHE HAS ACCORDING TO MY MUM IS THAT SHES IBO AND SHE SAID HER FIRST SON CANT AND WONT MARRY AN IBO LADY.....

MY AUNT WHO IS THE PROPHETESS OF THE FAMILY CAME UP WITH SEVERAL VISIONS ABOUT OUR FUTURE IF I MARRY THE LADY,SHE SAID ONE OF US WILL DIE,THERE WILL BE POVERTY IN OUR HOME,TOO MUCH SCARY STUFF..

FEW DAYS AGO MY MUM SAID HER ALFA GAVE HER SIMILAR PROPHESIES TO MY AUNT....DESPITE ALL THAT I STILL STAND MY GROUND ON MARRYING THIS LADY.I JUST HOPE I WONT REGRET THIS IN FUTURE..?

Abeg who can help me downgrade my marshmallow back to lollipop on x60p 1gig variant.... Have searched all over the web but I got to know I have to use a PC.... Please anyone in Lagos who can help me don't mind paying for the Service I just want my Android 5.1 back.... Xos not for me

Iamtosignno:
Your system is still repairable where do you stay i can do it for you

Am in Lagos... Where art thou

saydfact:
@ Bobbyunitedfc:
What the pics wld do..,

1. I want to check ur soil type - firm or water logged (u can however tell me that)

2. By quality I mean, I want to be sure ur workmen have done the right things up to now, I believe they have. #Wink

I'll contact u for the method I talked about and my consultation on this question is FREE... so don't worry.

Finally... Dont be frustrated - In my building, I used my best workmen and paid them twice what I would have paid some of my other workmen because it's my house.... Every kobo u spend wld be worth it..

Goodluck.... I'll send u a mail via NL.

Hello
I got a notification via gmail that I have a mail from u on nl but I didn't see anything... Please just forward the mail directly to omos24ever@gmail.com..thanks

My workmen suggested we put no columns abi pillars due to the solidity of the soil they say, but I insisted they put around the 4 corners of the house due to professional advice I get here on nairaland,
Tried uploading pictures but no avail......

My laptop just won't come on, even after pressing the power button,the light just blinks and won't come on.... I was tempted to smash it on the wall but changed my mind and gave it to an engineer who told me the laptop is beyond repairs... I weak

saydfact:
@ Bobbyunitedfc:

I've had a quick check at the breakdown and I find your workmen being sincere giving you that price for the job they intend doing; in simple terms

1. They are planning to tie the lintel all round the building whether there is an opening there or not - I often tell people Lintel and Beams are not the same, a lintel shd be just over the openings, its a beam that runs round on all block.

1a. The reason workmen recommend this method is for their benefits, more money, easier to form (less work) but the client suffers it.

2. I'll recommend you ask them to redo the estimate crossing over only openings and not tie-ing it round the structure - A pics of your building wld help

3. Do you know after spending 100s of thousand doing my initial ground floor lintels, I spent just about 20k doing same amount on the upper floor using same materials i.e concrete, granite and re-bar. (I wont share this method until I'm sure of the quality of your project...)

In summary: The reason you have that huge amount is because your workmen are running lintels over the entire bounding walls; its a price to pay if you want it that way, if not ask them to give you an estimate if only openings (door and windows etc) are considered.


Note: Attached Pics are Googled Pics

A = over only openings
B = round the entire structure

Good Luck

THANKS FOR taking your time to answer me with ease and simplicity,i think you are right about tieing the lintel to the entire building,its way too expensive for that and i find it demoralising going on with the project..

Pls give me a professional advice,which method would u advice me to use considering all factors?


i cant get a pix of the house for now cause am at work but what do u mean by quality of the house?

please share

saydfact:
don't misunderstand me - I said whatever cost I send as the real estimate when negotiating dont go above it by more than 20k... lol
I'll quote u once i finish the estimate....

ohh now i get sorry,i thought u were refering to the total package,that a 20k difference might suffice from the balance the man gave me

chai........softwork boys

A FRIEND OF MINE TRAVELLED TO UAE YESTERDAY VIA KENYA AIRWAYS,SAW HIM OFF AT AT THE AIRPORT I EVEN WEPT CAUSE I KNOW HOW MUCH ENERGY AND MONEY HE HAS PUT INTO THE PROCESS,I WEPT FOR HIM NOT CAUSE AM GOING TO MISS HIM BUT CAUSE OF THE MANY STORIES HAVR READ HERE ABOUT DUBAI AND ITS ENVIRONS....

FIRST,,,AN AGENT GOT HIM THE JOB AFTER HE PAID OVER 350K,THE COMPANY SENT HIM TRAVEL TICKET AND HE PROMISED TO PAY THEM BACK FROM HIS JANUARY SALARY....

NOW MY PROBLEM IS THERE WAS SO MUCH NOISE ABOUT THIS TRIP,I DONT PRAY HE COMES BACK REGRETTING BUT WHAT ARE HIS CHANCES OF SURVIVAL AND MAKING IT BECAUSE HAVE READ TOO MANY STORIES OF HOW THINGS GOES DOWN IN THE UAE AND IT SCARES ME FOR HIM.....AM BEEN PARANOID I KNOW...


posted this late last year about my friend who traveled via direct employment,am glad to inform the house that he is doing well,we talk everyday via imo due to the free wifi available at his office,unfortunately for me na my hard earned data he dey burn....
Things seems to be rosy for now cos he just sent me some money(dont ask how much) but at 134 exchange rate mehn naija is in trouble....
like every human,now me too feel like joining him over there,,,,,not a bad idea right?

saydfact:
I'll assist you with a break down of what it should cost you, use that as a guide in negotiating and buying materials..... The cost I send you would only be a guide ie plus or minus say 20k. (for eg)

I'll get back latest tomorrow with the estimate (if I dont make it today) GoodLuck

WOW......thank you very much brother....20k off that is a huge plus for me

Muyesky:
Everything you have been quoted for seems to be in order unless you already have some of these material on site. If not, it is reasonably fair.

I DONT HAVE ANY MATERIALS ON GROUND NOW,WITH THIS ESTIMATES AND RECENT INCREASE IN CEMENT PRICE EVERYTHING TIRE ME,AM DOING THIS ON A LOW BUDGET,MONTHLY SALARY OF 30,JUST HAD TO SAY IT SO U KNOW WHY I HAD TO BRING THE ISSUE HERE FOR REVIEW...OVER 200K FOR LINTEL,HOW MUCH WE GO TAKE ROOF THE HOUSE THEN?

saydfact:
It is way too much - what's the length and breadth of the 3bedroom and how many doors are there in total ?

OK SERIOUSLY I DONT KNOW WHAT THE LENGTH OF THE HOUSE IS I JUST KNOW ITS 3 BEDROOM,JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER 3 BEDROOMS I THINK...PLEASE IS THERE A WAY OF ME REDUCING COSTS FROM THE ABOVE ESTIMATES?