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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Wheriz Da Luv by bocajj(m): 4:54am On Nov 20, 2010

Men luv sucks. U dnt wana fall in luv wit a guy/girl n xperience hearts break 4rm he or she,so really where's d luv? Men screw luv.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairalanderz Help! Wat Do I Do? by bocajj(op): 4:19pm On Nov 19, 2010

Guyz i really wana tank u'll for ur wordz. Now dat u guyz hav made me knw dat i've lost her evn wen we'v nt brokeup,wat do i do? I saw her yesterday n we tuk bout it.bt she waz jst tellin dat im jst jealous n she's alwyz givin evry1 impression dat she's a gud girl,i jst feel i shldn't let her go jst lik dat,i feel lik her somtin strong 4 playin wit mx heart. Wat do guyz tink?

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Nairalanderz Help! Wat Do I Do? by bocajj(op): 7:33pm On Nov 17, 2010

diz is my story. my girl was hiding her second fone frm me for a while,only for me to colet it wit force frm her n get to discover dat a guy in her school has been sending her txt msges using d wordz honey,luv,d one dat struck me most waz wen i saw one saying eva since i met u,my life has neva rmain the same. i got angry bt waz ready to control it,only for to return d fone to her n she started shoutin @ me saying if i eva try callin the guy or so,i was gonna regret it. although we settled d issue, bt since she's nt bin commited lik b4,evn recently i checkd her fone n she bin talkin to the guy @ nyt n 2day i went to c her,she was going out wen i got dere n we were standin @ d bus/stp n i told i'll luv to c her 2morrow,all she did was to tell me dat she'll cal me and she walked out of me n took a bus. Guyz pls help me wat do i do? i really luv her n im nt ready 2 loose her.

Romance › Re: Nairalanderz I Nid Ur Help: by bocajj(op): 12:20pm On Oct 19, 2010

Wat's wit d holyghost battle n my relationship? My friend talk well,

Romance › Re: Nairalanderz I Nid Ur Help: by bocajj(op): 12:16pm On Oct 19, 2010

Wat's wit d holyghost n my relationship? My friend talk well,

Romance › Re: Nairalanderz I Nid Ur Help: by bocajj(op): 12:09pm On Oct 19, 2010

Omolola1:
Relationship with your choir member?

NA Holy Ghost battle be that

Romance › Re: Nairalanderz I Nid Ur Help: by bocajj(op): 11:57am On Oct 19, 2010

negga4al:
Relationships can start from anywhere, however, most times church relationships are always built on secrecy and hiding from one person or the other especially when both of you in the choir are suppose to be an example to all others (members of the church). Talk to her again, if she refuses, then wait, after that ask the MD to talk to her if he claims to be close to her. If there's still no positive response then, call it quit.

For me, I would not have an affair in church, especially when we both know God would not be happy with us. You are in the choir!
God wil only be angry wen im bin deceptive, Jst lik i said earlier my relationship is nt a child's play n it's a Godly one,we've neva had sex n we're 2yr plus.

Romance › Re: Nairalanderz I Nid Ur Help: by bocajj(op): 11:55am On Oct 19, 2010

negga4al:
Relationships can start from anywhere, however, most times church relationships are always built on secrecy and hiding from one person or the other especially when both of you in the choir are suppose to be an example to all others (members of the church). Talk to her again, if she refuses, then wait, after that ask the MD to talk to her if he claims to be close to her. If there's still no positive response then, call it quit.

For me, I would not have an affair in church, especially when we both know God would not be happy with us. You are in the choir!
God wil only be angry wen im bin deceptive, Jst lik i said earlier my relationship is nt a child's play n it's a Godly one,we've neva had sex n we're 2yr plus.

Romance › Re: Nairalanderz I Nid Ur Help: by bocajj(op): 10:33am On Oct 19, 2010

Specialist900:
Them even dey choir dey run package, on sunday them go dey sing for us, MD even dey give consent. God go get cases to judge that day o.

So wat? Mind u my relationship wit her is a Godly one n not a child's play. Im tinkin of takin it 2 nxt level,

Romance › Re: Nairalanderz I Nid Ur Help: by bocajj(op): 4:49am On Oct 19, 2010

xynerise:
How old is she? She likes secret relationship. Just try and talk things to her ~~dumb skull~~ sense.

Romance › Re: Nairalanderz I Nid Ur Help: by bocajj(op): 7:48pm On Oct 18, 2010

[quote author=jaguar_09 link=topic=534322.msg6964981#msg6964981 date=1287413368]Why u dey run package for church na?

Anyway I advice you try harder to make her listen to you, if she refuses then tell your MD to talk to her to make her understand that you weren't the one that told him about your affair with her. Sure she will come to her senses. But dude if you are not for real with this girl auto-ignore talking to your MD because that would mean more commitment with her as the MD will ensure you guys stick together, before you take that step THINK like a PLAYAR and then as a LOVER BOY at the end make a wise choice which only REAL MEN do (SINCERITY). GOODLUCK DUDE.
Tanks bro,i really apprieciate ur contribution,i really luv her n im nt ready to loose her. I'll post wat i hav in mind bout d whole soon.[/quote]

Romance › Nairalanderz I Nid Ur Help: by bocajj(op): 3:14pm On Oct 18, 2010

Me and my girlfriend are in d same choir in church. But our musical director is aware of our rlationship. Me,my girl n our md was driving home one faithfull saturday evenin aftr rehearsal,we drop my girlfriend @ her house. on our way my musical director startd tellin me dat he knws bout my affair wit my girl,bt it's ok he said, He evn warned me nt to brk her hrt cos she's lik a daughter 2him. I was nt suprised cos i knw he'll get 2knw som day. immediately i snt a txt 2her statin MD IS AWARE OF OUR AFFAIRS. Only 4her 2 start shoutin @ me dat y did i tel him(MD) she didn't giv m d chance 2 xplain. Since den she's rfused talkin 2 me n pik my cals. PLS PIPS HW DO I HANDLD DIS SITUATION?

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Am Erica Female From Delta State I Need A Boy Friend by bocajj(m): 8:03pm On Oct 15, 2010

Babe nothing do u, call get bck to you, just hold on for big daddy.

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Churches Pay Their Instrumentalists? by bocajj(m): 7:12pm On Oct 15, 2010

First Q u should ask yourself is why do pastors get payed. Been a musician is a profession if you must know, thats why today you see keyboardist,bassist and drummers leave gospel for circular. So let's do everything possible to hold on to these guys cos there are ppl that come to church just for good music.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Need A Guy In My Life by bocajj(m): 6:15pm On Oct 15, 2010

U need a guy in ur life? Ok first thing u should do is to ask urslf some questions, im i ready to offer the guy wat he wants? if yes Im available, hahaha

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Need A Guy In My Life by bocajj(m): 4:52am On Oct 15, 2010

U nid a guy in ur life? Y annoucing it? Ok Wat kind of guy are u talkin bout? For sex or for relationship? Define it, i'l knw hw to help u,

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Need A Girl For A Real Nice Time. by bocajj(op): 4:43am On Oct 15, 2010

My mum? Guy notin do u, all i'll do for u is to take u to her grave! There u'll really hav a nice time wit her. Well if ur sis nt availlable @ d moment, i dnt mind dialin ur mum,

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Need A Girl For A Real Nice Time. by bocajj(op): 5:54pm On Oct 10, 2010

colins na ur sista i nid. I really nid her urgently.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › I Need A Girl For A Real Nice Time. by bocajj(op): 12:35pm On Oct 09, 2010

i need a girl for a real nice time

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