₦airaland Forum

To stop this deep-rooted problem with cabals and economic saboteurs, Aliko Dangote should join a political party and contest to be President of Nigeria.

He should not be afraid to sanitize the system. The rot in the system is deep.

Bishop, instead of "cursing" the criminals and kidnappers, simply mobilize your teaming church members across the country to demonstrate against the incessant insecurity in the country. You will be surprised how things would change for the better.

You have a huge number of followers, use it to effect positive change in the country. When you do, generations will remember you for doing so.

First off, your wife speaking to an ex for that long doesn't seem ideal. Nonetheless, find out why she is still talking to her ex, and why the long conversation - please ask her in the most cordial way possible. Your attitude when asking would go a long way in how she responds, and if she decides to tell you the truth.

Regarding her attitude toward you, your mum and your family, please don't read too much into it. She may be having post partum disorder. As a new and first-time mum, she may currently be a victim of her hormones without knowing it. Try to reassure her that all will be ok. Read up articles on "baby blues" or post-partum disorder with her.

Regarding your fear about how she might change when she arrives the U.S, you should not be scared. Life in North America will either bring out the best or worst in her including yourself. Just be determined to be the good husband and father.

Oh, one last thing, please take away the word "control" especially in your relationship with a spouse. Never try to control your wife or exert authority over her. Work to be the adult, if she is smart, she will respect you always for that, if she is not, she will regret her choices in the end.

Wishing you both the best.

This one wants to be invited to Ask Rock like Ooni of Ife. They pretend to blow hot in their domain, but when they come face-to-face with Buhari they start acting like a dog with tail between its legs.

The other day I could see how the Ooni was acting like a coward before Buhari - his body language and post-meeting press statement was so disappointing. Nigeria's so-called royal fathers are equally part of the problem in that country. Just like during the slave trade era, many of them keep enriching themselves at the expense of their people. Shame!!

A schoolmate of mine and his co-workers were kidnapped along that Ore axis in April this year by 5 masked men. After they were led into the bush, the kidnappers removed their hoods and behold, they were Fulanis. The victims were later released on the third day after family raised millions of naira as ransom.

Why the hoopla about masked men vs herdsmen? My school mate and his co-workers were kidnapped along the same Ore axis in April 2019. According to him the kidnappers emerged from the bushes with hoods over their heads.

By the time they were taken into the bushes they realized the kidnappers were Fulanis. They were released on their third day of captivity after friends and families raised millions of Naira as ransom.

If history is any lesson, harsh judgment awaits those who continuously cover the truth.