pansophist:
Nuthead feminist fought so hard to wrongly convince themselves and women that marriage is a burden on women, what they didn't knew was that they made it so unattractive for men. Every poll shows women wants marriage than men, and now, the chicken has come home to roost.

Most importantly, people get marriage because there are some certain things marriage gives, that single life does not. Thing such as sex, companionship, kid(s), labour, and peace of mind. Right now, lots of, if not most marriage does the opposite. kids, sex, companionship, Labour and can be gotten outside marriage. Also, you're far more likely to have peace of mind, frugality, and freedom outside marriage. Also, the entitlement women brings to marriage is disgusting. To lots of women, showing up is contribution. No skills, not even their frminine allure, but to show up and take. More like parasitism, as oppose to mutualism.

Also, the incentive for men in the past to get married was that they are married to a girl at her prime, she gave her best years and virginity to him, and he stays with her during her beauty decline. Right now, our women make sure they chase vanity, sleep with as much men as possible, drunk under the illusion that they can have it all. Infact, many of our girls have seen more p.enis than a urologist, sex has lost its sacredness, and due to her experience in handling all sizes of p.enis, it may be hard to sexually satisfy her, which increases her chances to cheat.

Men are logical beings, they think through things from reasoning not emotions. I am sure most of the men on this thread that refuse to marry will do so if the girl is a virgin, in her prime, and is as wonderful and useful as their mothers. No man wants to get married to a woman who some of the wedding guest have slept with her. Thats a bad deal. Lots of our modern women will realise that you can not eat your cake and have it.

And because women prefer to "feel good", instead of truth, they will always be a victim of this culture that lied to them to make them feel good, but when they find out about the truth, it would be a lonely existence and the beauty to attract a quality man would have depreciated. You can choose to deny the truth, but you can't deny the consequences that comes with the truth.

Bookmarked.

Stephenomozzy:
When people with trust issues and problem with commitment turn to philosophers, this is the shiit you get.


Monogamy thrives on Self-discipline. Forget natural orders (which I'm sure you're making reference to animals)

But it's not compulsory

There is no love, only human needs meant to be satisfied.

The thought of a man fucking one pusssy his whole life or a woman being stuck with one diick is unrealistic.

I really don't think it's in our nature to monogamous.

Let us stop deceiving ourselves. Monogamy is based on love. But in reality love doesn't exist.

Romantic relationships in reality are not based on love but on batter of utility.

Utilities such as financial provision, sexual prowess, looks, emotional availability etc.

All pusssies ain't the same. All dick ain't the same too.
Some feel better than the others


Let us burry the thought of expecting our partners to be loyal

Bury the thought of expecting your husband resisting that hot sexy young girl, who can provide better sexually utility than you.

Also bury the expectation of your wife resisting that handsome fit man that can fvck better than you.

We all have fantasies

In a nutshell, monogamy is not natural. Stop forcing humans to go against their natural desires and needs.

You're fool if you believe in one man one woman relationships.

Don't get all crazy when you find out your girlfriend/wife/boyfriend/husband cheating.

Stop murdering your partner for cheating.

lefulefu:
the only real love i know is the one b/w a mother and a child or the one the one the parents have for the children.i dont think that is a scam

The only man a woman loves is her son

SouthNigerian:


Love is not scam, it is your definition of love that is scam.

Love is bigger than you define it.

What's your definition of love?

I really blame literatures, Hollywood and Nollywood, R&B music for brainwashing us to thinking true love exist.

In the reality, there is nothing like love. Just people trying to satisfy their needs: sexual, financial, emotional etc.

We were brainwashed to thinking we will be loved for who we are.

Unfortunately, we can be loved for only what we can offer.: LOOKS, LIFESTYLE, FINANCES, SEXUAL SATISFACTION, ETC.

Love is a like business transaction...sad

Adeniyi9462:
Please, guys, have been dating this girl for the past month now, she
seems very hurt from her previous relationship because she
thought she will always end of with them but unfortunately, they
end up breaking her heart
Right now she is still afraid I might still leave her someday.
Then I ask her what can I do to tell her I love her so much, that me
leaving her will be impossible
Her next reply was blood oat, I was really shocked.

Don't try it.

I blame romance Nairaland mods for pushing this rubbish to frontpage

True shiit

Before you castigated that man for not getting very rock hard for you
Maybe you the woman could be the problem
Women with ugly bodies want men to get all aroused and hard.

Bring a sexy hot chick and you'll see that dick go hard like metal.

You see sometimes the problem isn't the man.

You can't expect a nigga to get all turned on by the sight of your fat unnatractive body.

This is not cancelling the fact that there is erectile dysfunction. But come on.

Joycekkh:
Cause the mods believe in love and pampering women, y'all are wasting your time.

Fvck that shit

Fvck da mods

Meeyankee:
Because most of the mod are simpii men.a simpii man will always fight against redpillers.

That could be true

I'm just wondering, why red pill education post never make front page.

It is a taboo or something?

What could be the reason?

I think these red pill knowledge posted here are worthy of front page or Nairaland is against the red pill.

Someone explain.

Every man should swallow the red pill.
The red pill is life.

I want to overdose on the red pill.

Blue pill or red pill?

Ejom:
Vulnerability comes after having kids.. She ain't going no where.. Too late

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tunize:
No woman put gun for ur head sey if u nor sacrifice i go kill u, its a matter of choice if u can sacrifice good if u can't rest.

Don't ever sacrifice for her, she won't appreciate it.

Hisduchess:


I used to promise myself that I must marry a graduate but nairaland changed that mindset,I
Learnt that many university graduates don't have more sense more than their secondary graduate counterparts. This op is simply senseless

This has nothing to do with being a graduate.
It's you that have sense....nonsense.

Take these words seriously

Kenplay:

Its their natural hormonal build up. The feelings of pity and brings out her mother nature side of her which makes her to place you as a friend or child. Whoever she puts in those bracket cant make her wet or exhibit sexual feelings.

Confidence, Intelligence, Competition and Security are the feelings you can involke in a woman that makes her feel sexual attraction to you. This feelings makes her to secrete hormones that are sexual inunded.
So that brings out the saying “Women cannot feel Pity and Sexual attraction for same man".

You nailed it

mofeoluwadassah:
Yen yen yen....Na una type dey commit sucide

I'm not saying you shouldn't be emotionally vulnerable, but just don't do it with your woman.

Hypnotise:
Words of caution. He that has ears, let him hear.

Tell them

duality:
Looks like humans are becoming more and more complicated.

If you fall into a pit and a woman comes to save you. Would you reject?

I wouldn't reject.

The point of the post is to discourage men from being emotionally vulnerable to their women.

Here is it, guys, another word to live by.

Never lean on a woman, never cry on a woman's shoulder.

Don't ever open up to a woman, telling her about your troubles.

Don't allow these women lie to you, that they like it when you open up to them. They don't!

When things aren't going well with you psychological or mentally and even financially.

Never make the mistake of being emotionally vulnerable to a woman

Don't tell her about your problems, mental health issues, childhood trauma etc.
Don't seek emotional comfort in a woman

Women aren't wired to understand a man's problems

She will loose attraction for you, when you tell her about your personal issues.

A woman cannot feel pity and sexual attraction for the same man.

Never show emotional weakness and vulnerability in front of your woman.
Never confide in your woman. If you have issues bothering you go talk to friends or family about it.

Your woman may be telling you to pour out your heart to her, but never fall for this trap.
Tell her everything is fine.

A woman loses respect for you, when you pour out your heart to her.

Keep your shit to yourself, if you must vent your pain, do it with your close friends and family.

A word is enough for the wise.

Deicide:
One thing every woman lacks is sympathy

They lack empathy