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haekymbahd:
3 things that attracts woman

1. Money

2. Money

3. Money

Ask shatta bandle he will tell you more..

Lol money is number one but they're other things.

Don't let any pickup artists or dating coach deceive you. Only three things can get you a woman:

1. Money
2. Looks
3. Status

Nothing else. It's either you have resources: house you live, car you drive, you look tall and handsome, be fit, or have some sort of position (status) it could be being a president of a student association, etc or just having any sort of office.
There is nothing else outside these three things, not personality.

Personality just complements your looks or status. So personality without good looks or money in the bank is zero. Great personality can never stand alone.

Truvelisback:
You? I'm suprised to hear this from an ambassador of ladies. Weren't u the one giving us relationship tips abt ladies? How come u acting like this. Don't tell me u are clueless on what to do.

This particular one weigh me bro.

Haylel:
Sorry, you've lost her already.

I know bro. I loose girls by overthinking and overanalyzing always.

God. I just wish this week can pass quickly so I don't have to see and talk to this girl again. I wanna leave this camp. This girl is driving crazy and I just can find a way to get physical with her. I'm loosing appetite because of her. She's nice to me. I think I'm the friendzone. My heart is troubled. I just can't stop thinking of her. The there is a high probability that O won't do anything with her. I'm just being irrational and stupid.
How do I forget about her for the remain few days. I really want to forget about her. I'm loosing focus.

Stay away from drugs. Don't say we didn't warn you. You can be a bad boy without taking drugs. You just have not to give a fvck.

Whazar:
and how is this in romance section?

Doesn't matter lol.

I really admire the work ethic of yahoo boys. The sleepless nights, heart, passion, hardwork, focus, all the qualities that make man successful. It ain't easy.
I'm talking about the disabled Facebook accounts, bombing and spamming and so many other numerous challenges.

But I feel you can still succeed at legit stuff if you put in your all the way you do when it comes to fraud

It seams that some youths are just serious and give in their all only when it comes to fraud.

They just don't put the level of effort they put to fraud to legit stuff. Why?

I think if you do legit stuff the way you do fraud you can still make it.

Ahmback:
between u and de guy, i no com knw who mumu pass

Na red pill rage dey worry am. Im go recover.

DONFRANSKID:
Who needs them anyway

lol. No one needs them. But we still want them.

KiNg0G:
guy go out there and do things in reality, stop waiting for f monikers from nairaland.

try go get a life....even simps self better pass u .. with this kind mumu topics u dey create

Shut up. Not like it bothers me so much bro. It's nothing deep. I'm just having fun here. If you had a life you won't even notice me at all.

I've looked at your topics. It's clear your red pill rage is not over yet. You'll get well soon. It's like that.

KiNg0G:
na mumu boy.


na stupid topics he dey create everyday.



na him you go take know say some people nor get life outside nairaland.

But you wey dey so busy, how you dey carry notice my topics?

Nairaland guys Una no dey try abeg. Una don chase all the female Nairalanders finish.

It's so hard to come across a female moniker in Nairaland nowadays.
See wetin Una red pill and misogyny don cause.
Nowadays, even you ask a question specifically for ladies? It will be only guys commenting.
Balance is key

Alejandrah:
Are you married? and is your wife 4king around?

A true wife should resist "ALL" advances at 100% level.

This is not even a debate...you've got to be kidding me.

Yeah. A true wife does that, but guess what you have to face reality.

No man has the exclusive right to a pussy. The best you can do be the highest shareholder. Know this and know peace. Your wife can't resist 100% of advances at her. No matter who you are. Whether you're rich, handsome or famous, alpha male, simp, anything.

Your wife can just cheat for the sake of trying something different, not because you're lacking in anything.

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odinson1:
Devil nor suppose dey fear winch na

I dey roll for ground with laugh like this

The easiest to avoid heartbreak is being real with yourself. The girl is not yours, it just your turn. Men bin dey handle before you, and men go still handle after you.

The problem is the you guys have been sold the concepts of soulmates.

It's good to be in love, but just enjoy the moment and stop thinking to love long term.

Don't let your life revolve around your girl. Let your be your girl, don't try to make your girl your best friend, your therapist and shit.

It will be harder for you to recover from heartbreak if you do everything with the same person. It doesn't mean you must cheat on your girl. But don't disconnect with your friends, family, hobbies and passion because of your girl.

And people have stop the delusion that dating will must lead to marriage. All your ex boyfriends you didn't marry them, why do you think it's this one that will marry you?

And finally, love doesn't exist, it was just a concept that seems good on paper, but does not apply in reality.

Relationship is just an exchange to utility, nothing special it's like contract but people act as if it's different.

I'm just curious, it seems that's only guys that are cautious of not catching some disease through sex. Most girls won't suggest condom if you don't suggest it first. These girls dey fear me. Most girls aren't scared going raw. E be like say na only guys dey fear am. What could be the reason for this?

mployer:
She actually has some dks she is chasing after. It's all about preference.

Lol of them join.

Don't take rejection from a girl personal. Don't allow it affect yourself esteem (especially for sex)

Here is the reason, their so too many men trying to fvck that average looking girl (nor even talking about the beautiful ones) from school, church, workplace, street, old dudes, young dudes, coursemates, neighbors, social media, etc literally almost every guy., guys trying to get her by buying gifts, some by handsomeness, muscles, status, money, being a simp, being alpha male. You name it.

Even guys with money want to fvck average girl. Good looking guys are dying over average looking girls. Celebrities want to fvck average looking girls.

Even if the girl want to fvck around, if she wants to be loose, even if she's sex freak, she can't fvxk everybody.

It's does not mean, you're not handsome, or you're broke. Just that the demand just to high for one pussy is too high.

And no matter how that girl tries to accommodate more dicks, she have to reject more than 90% of the guys that approach her.

Don't let it get you and your ego. It has very little to do with you. It has more to do with excessive demand.

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


Kenya, Ghana?? And another state like Borno, Zamfara or Sokoto shebi??

Lol. You get problem with me boss.

OLDESTWARRIBOY:



OP, it's like you mix Action bitters, black bullet and monkey tail drink this night with all this your useless posts.

Go sleep abeg

Jokes on you . I don't drink alcohol.

I get it man, you wan to fvck bitches but you ain't rich yet.
Here is the secret, Chasing success is gonna get you bitches. Even if you ain't succesfull yet.

Even though you ain't rich yet, the fact that you're putting a whole lot of work and grind. That's why yahoo boys get a girls even when dem never pick yet.

Women just want to see you working on something tirelessly. Be fvvcking busy with work and hobbies.

Bitches are gonna love you. Girls just love ambitious guys. Even though you're 'broke' if you have a serious work ethic, girls are going to off pantys for you

I think the most unattractive to ladies is not brokeness. It's actually laziness and lack of hobbies/activities.

As a guy work hard and live a nice life. Stop eyeing people's money. Stop bothering about people using iPhones and travelling to fucking Dubai. I'm not saying iPhones are bad, I personally love iPhones, but just fvvcking worry about some things until you can afford it. As long as you're broke iPhones are overrated. Learn how to despise things you can't afford. Worshiping money is not gonna make you rich bro, it's only gonna cause depression.

Try balance your life small. You need a little bit of everything. No be say you get only 500k for your hand you wan buy iPhone 12. You dey try to compete with Davido way don already balance im life. That's why you fucking unhappy. I feel balance is key to happiness you need a little bit of everything.

This life eh, you gats dey sure of basic needs as a human being that's food, shelter and clothing before you add up extra things. Try dey live your life to scale.

No ever dey try compete for this money spending thing because you no go ever win I promise you.

Boys go always get money pass you. You

Me way dey talk this things no be say I perfect sha. But as I dey advice others, I dey take style they advice myself by extension.

And abeg try dey enjoy by budget, you no fit afford Dubai yet no mean say you no fit go vacation. Go to Ghana, go to Kenya, if that wan too much, go to another state in Nigeria. Last last na still vacation. There are still beautiful places in Nigeria you haven't seen yet. Don't deprive yourself of vacation because e no fit afford the expensive ones, the Instagram friendly ones.

Even the Nigeria way no dey like America sef, you never still enjoy am finish.

oilmonie:
I disagree. Your ten years fit be my ten secs. You fit dey cook indomie, while I dey Cook beans. Its not how far, its how well. No be everybody dey start from scratch. Some dey build house while others dey buy House

You noticed that I said not the everyone will get lucky. That by extension means not every one is gonna start from scratch.
What I'm trying to say that while waiting for big money. Start making small money.

Jackossky:
Funny enough, life doesn't have a manual.

Yeah. But that's why mathematics exist , you'll still try to find patterns in randomness. You can't leave everything to fate.

Raymond0008:
I hope you are a billionaire smh.

We are trying not be poor and broke, afford basic things and have a good time, not becoming billionaires.

Being a billionaire is almost unachievable bro. How many billionaires do you think are in this world? Like 0.00004 % of the people in the world.
I don't care about being a billionaire.

I care about having a decent life.

One reason you're still broke as young person is because you think you can make it overnight. That has very low likelihood of working out. Stop waiting for dream jobs and instant millions. Only a few people will have the luck to make it overnight.

Face reality, start stacking up your bread from scratch. Making small money is better than not making money at all. Get busy. No matter how small it is. You can build from there. Money is hardly made overnight.

You gotta start from those small pennies and stop comparing your life to others. You need start learning how to make money small small. With the experience you can make more money. Making money is a sport, practice makes perfect. It will be easier for you to make 1million naira, if you know how to make 100 thousand naira. Experience is the best teacher. The time way use dey use dey wait for 1 million your mate dey make 10,000 dey add up dey go.

Nothing can override experience. Doing something over and over and over again.

This shouldn't be our business sha.
People have beef everyday. Is it because they're popular?

Me. I no understand Una sef o. With this money thing o. Judging my from other thread. You wan seriously deprive yourself of the basic human need of love and affection because you never get money yet? Money is good. But there is no guarantee that will become rich in this life. You better try enjoy little things as you dey find the money. Life is all about balance. You don't need to gather all the money in this world before you enjoy some things abeg.

Not being in a relationship is not gonna even improve your chances of becoming rich. You just dey punish yourself.


Keep improving yourself men! Nevertheless.