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Telltruth123:
I want you to thank God that your job can foot your bills and as somebody said earlier shift your attention to taking care of yourself and your children. I will use myself as an example, my marriage is 18 years plus and I have 4 children the only thing my husband take is feeding which is N2,500 daily , it was N1,500 before cooking meat and taking milk or tea is luxury in my house because I use my salary to pay school fees and other bills I changed two of my children school to public before, after a year I saw the difference between private and public school, I had to change the one in science class to private school the other one who is in humanitarian class I can teach her at home.
I am a graduate but I am not fortunate to earn a reasonable salary, I don't have savings and I am 42 years now and no family members to assist, please my sister you don't have a problem so far your job can take care of you and your children.

Caaz:
How possible is it that a father has never bought single shirts for his kids?
Madam easy with the lies.


Marriage is not easy ...if you have chosen to stay and continue fine..but you ve option(s) of walking away.



Peace

amili66:
I really wish I had never married this man. I dont know what is keeping me in the union but oh no, I dont have any happy time with him.

He is not committed at allllllllllllll, am in pain, deeply sad and sorrowful. He is promiscuous, have speech issues and maybe memory issues. Very had to please and make this difficult always.

He'd rather please outsider than me making me and the kids happy. When I got pregnant, I only received 100k from him to buy infants items as I had twins, I funded every other things and not that he doesnt have money. We build our house together but his family sees him as their Lord and this man train his cousins, nieces, and now had the mind to tell me again that he has adopted another child of his cousin to sponsor. He never pays our kids school fees 100%, I'll always have to balance the rest cos I do not want embarrassment from their school.

We moved abroad some years ago and no he says he'll drive my kids out of the house once they clock 14, but he is training his family children who are over 25 years old. Well, I don't have many, I can train them but I truly regret this marriage,

I am never going to advise anyone ot marry.

Coming abroad, this man would sit and call those in Nigeria for hours daily, he is never serious with his work and will chose to work form home until he got sacked and since then he's being struggling to get a job and I am getting blammed daily. He said his friends called him to warn him never to give me a smiling face, they dont know I have never had a smiling face from him and this man has gone from bad to worst.

You all who it to read social media comments over men who cry woes abroad, if I leave this one now and he comes on social media, you all will start to condemn the woman without listening to her. Am in pain, it has gone from worse while in Nigeria to worst here abroad. Everyday he says marriages dont work abroad, regret coming but go back he is refusing saying we must all go back with him. I cant, I rather remain here and cut off from all my friends and family.

Maybe I remained in the marriage because of shame from people around. And I am not from that loving family so they'll laugh me.

Am so sad; at times, I just feel I never said yes to him, I had many other suitors. but I considered him because he was nice then, things changed the very first day we got married, he started telling me all the evil advise his family had advised him.

I regret building with him; I should have invested on my own.

He has never bought even a shirt for his kids, shoes, toys, christmas cloths, nothing, i Mean notihng, never. when their school asked they buy laptops, he said they are not of the age, nothing. But this man dishes out money to others. I have been supportive enough, but still not appreciated. All i get is name calling, I have never since our marriage of 16 years received a gift, I dont know what it looks like. They have never owrn christmas dress bought by their father.

princepee:
Israel and Us go beat Iran ..
Iran go beat him younger brother.


face the person wey beat you.
Coward!!!!!

how about bombing Us in their soil

Righteousness2:

Bro keep these TERRORISTS ANTHEM to your belly.

Your TERRORISTS Fathers have been murdering Iranians without measure. Women, kids, men, murdered and wasted for nothing. All because they stood against a Terror regime.

ratcock:
She’s representing us well.
The best minister to ever serve in Nigeria.

Haters will say otherwise.

QuinQQ:
True, but it also happens to be 100% true what he said. US learnt a lesson - if you wipe out the leaders of a country there'd be no one left to reach a firm agreement with. Especially IRGC many of whose members actually WANT to die and go relax with their 72 virgins!

BlocksNG:
Say no to terrorism. Isreal doesn't romance with terrorists and that's why they are winning in all fronts.

Tenses:
Isreal just don't depends on missiles. They depend also on intelligence.

Iran major warfare strategy is "spray and pray".

Spray and pray is a warfare strategy where you indiscriminately shot missiles and hope (pray) that one or two cause major damage on the targeted area.

But Isreal depends on precision warfare whose anchor is intelligence gathering.

That's why you have the ayotollah gone, Iranian military chiefs gone, naval gone, airforce gone, and they have a president that will probably spend the rest of his life in a bunker.

Pootle:
the terrorist sympathizer

Righteousness2:
[i][color=#99000]Bible prophecy is not concerned with international affairs except a[/color]s they [color=#00l0099]relate to Israel - its people and its land. [/color] In other words, [color=#99l0000]the nations of the world matter prophetically only in the role[/color] they play within [color=#00099]God’s plan for Israel.[/color]

That is why whatever nations say or do concerning the people or the land of Israel will ultimately be met with God’s response.

If you love your country, pray that it will never turn against Israel. Otherwise, it will not merely find itself opposing Israel, [color=#00099]but the GOD of ISRAEL.[/color]

This is exactly why I am so concerned about the United States of America. I can understand anti-Israel rhetoric coming from the political left, but when it comes from the highest ranks of the conservative movement, it reveals just how late the hour is and how grave the situation has become.

Yes, Israel will stand alone. And yes, NO NATION will come to her aid during the Ezekiel war.

It is one thing to study these truths in the pages of Scripture ( Thr HOLY BIBLE). It is another to witness them unfolding before our very eyes.

Shabbat Shalom![/]

Drsnives:
Whether Isreal sees the deal or not it doesn't matter..
What matters is once you attack Isreal we'll strike back harder and no WMD for Iran period

Mattswaggz:
Are you saying that Trump is lying?.

President Donald Trump and mediator Pakistan said on Saturday an initial deal to end the war in the Middle East would be signed on Sunday, although Iran denied the signing would take place so soon.

Are you actually DAFT or just pretending?

Mattswaggz:
And as for those bragging and claiming Iran wouldn't destroy or hand over their enriched Uranium despite constantly telling them that Trump has made it clear that they must have to do that for any deal to materialize......well you've been proven wrong.....life isn't all about talking tough and projecting fake strength because at the end you'll have to face reality and that reality in this case was that Iran has been poked in a corner and is in a desperate state....and the desperation was only getting higher as the days go by.

SmartPolician:
Tell your neighbour to explain the text you quoted because you clearly didn't understand it. The point is simple - the society failed because families failed. If you have to apportion the blame, it must go round.

BTW, for men to even accept to pay whatever they are asked to on non-virgins means they have accepted their fate. If you go ranting from today to the end of the world, it will change absolutely nothing.

More importantly, teach your boys to start learning willpower and self-control instead of watching porns just to learn skills for becoming professionals in sexual activities, then women will be forced to remain virgins. Those ones don't have a choice because we go to them.

SmartPolician:
Be prepared to keep spilling this nonsense for the rest of your life. The society just enjoys shaming women for having sex as if they had sex with themselves. It didn't even start today - there are several accounts in the Bible.

If men weren't sleeping around like people who weren't raised by parents, most women would still be virgins today. Prostitution is a lucrative business today because men of low-esteem pay a lot of money just to cum, and women are gladly taking advantage of it. Fathers are failing in raising good boys because good fathers rarely exist; women cannot raise boys.