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Uncle96:
I hope sey no be one yellow calabar girl ?

No

Nyamuri:
Don't block her pls, she would see you as weak man, she intentionally did all that to hurt u emotionally and make u look weak, and if u block her, she has won!!

Just lock up and ignore her too, in fact ghost her like she doesn't exist.. she will definitely come back

Okay

SPAMBOX7:
You need to go out and meet more girls. You seem like a guy who's doing OK but lacks game

Thanks

HRHQueenPhil:
She will come back
But u must be matured, friendly and focused on wat u want..

I will never accept. I rather die single.

PerfectStranger:
Simp. You’re chasing a liability for 8weeks, she billed you for 8 good weeks, y’all simps must learn the hard way.

I saw the red flag during the first date. I was careful not to fall a victim. So, I rejected her billing of over #200k. I only paid for the 2 dates.

Between the 5th to 8th weeks, everything remains the same. She kept on stylishly demanding money for hair, data, fees, etc, in which I didn't give her a dime. I decided to lock up and also stop calling or texting; she also did call or text. By the 12th week, she called me and apologized. She continued by saying she was ready to give me an answer. She said, "I am nice, but her mind is with someone else, that I should be her friend, bla..bla...bla..." I only replied with "okay" to all she said, even though she kept mute, expecting me to say something else.

I told my friends that I would block and delete her contacts, but they kept telling me not to do that, that there might be payback time one day.

Do you think I shouldn't delete and block her?

Cc: Lalasticlala Mynd44 OAM4J And Seun

I met a lady some months back, I knew her before, but there was nothing serious between us. When we talked, I asked her about her relationship, and she said her BF broke up with her recently. I told her straight that I was interested in her. She said she loved my boldness, but I had to give some time to think about it. I agreed and requested to know how long. She told me she couldn't predict. She requested for the first date, and I told her to pick a venue. To my greatest surprise, she picked one of the most expensive Restaurants. On the date day, I became worried that something wasn't right. This was supposed to be a serious relationship.

During the date, she told me about many things that are personal to her. The most important ones were how I must promise to marry her within 6 months and how her parent was religious intolerant, and how that might affect us if we eventually ended up dating. I told her I couldn't promise to marry her in the next 6 months since I didn't know her personality.

To cut a long story short, for the first 4 weeks, she used her work as an excuse for not picking up my call or replying to my messages promptly, even though I see her online. I decided to see her for the 2nd time physically. I made a lot of sacrifices to be able to see her and spent some money on the 2nd date. I told her that we needed to conclude, but she kept on telling me to give her more time.