I met a lady some months back, I knew her before, but there was nothing serious between us. When we talked, I asked her about her relationship, and she said her BF broke up with her recently. I told her straight that I was interested in her. She said she loved my boldness, but I had to give some time to think about it. I agreed and requested to know how long. She told me she couldn't predict. She requested for the first date, and I told her to pick a venue. To my greatest surprise, she picked one of the most expensive Restaurants. On the date day, I became worried that something wasn't right. This was supposed to be a serious relationship.

During the date, she told me about many things that are personal to her. The most important ones were how I must promise to marry her within 6 months and how her parent was religious intolerant, and how that might affect us if we eventually ended up dating. I told her I couldn't promise to marry her in the next 6 months since I didn't know her personality.

To cut a long story short, for the first 4 weeks, she used her work as an excuse for not picking up my call or replying to my messages promptly, even though I see her online. I decided to see her for the 2nd time physically. I made a lot of sacrifices to be able to see her and spent some money on the 2nd date. I told her that we needed to conclude, but she kept on telling me to give her more time.

Between the 5th to 8th weeks, everything remains the same. She kept on stylishly demanding money for hair, data, fees, etc, in which I didn't give her a dime. I decided to lock up and also stop calling or texting; she also did call or text. By the 12th week, she called me and apologized. She continued by saying she was ready to give me an answer. She said, "I am nice, but her mind is with someone else, that I should be her friend, bla..bla...bla..." I only replied with "okay" to all she said, even though she kept mute, expecting me to say something else.

I told my friends that I would block and delete her contacts, but they kept telling me not to do that, that there might be payback time one day.

Do you think I shouldn't delete and block her?

Cc: Lalasticlala Mynd44 OAM4J And Seun

That one sounds like gold digger abeg.
Chop and runaway,so if to say you looseguard give am money she for still dey yarn this opata.

Na why that Chinese man vex kill that gal.

Bolubrenda:
Between the 5th to 8th weeks, everything remains the same. She kept on stylishly demanding money for hair, data, fees, etc,[/b]

Simp. You’re chasing a liability for 8weeks, she billed you for 8 good weeks, y’all simps must learn the hard way.

Mufakirnaqdiun:
That one sounds like gold digger abeg.
Chop and runaway,so if to say you looseguard give am money she for still dey yarn this opata.

Na why that Chinese man vex kill that gal.

Munafukin shatap

Run bro!
infact don't look back.. Lastly run without your slippers..Thank your stays you see the red too early,wish girls can change their stupid mentality.. I've since cut off unnecessary friendship both male/female..Do with only peeps who are concerned about you and are contributing positively to yr life.Gudday

You better move on to someone that's serious with her life.

Don't block her. Don't delete her. skip her whatsapp status. And don't send her messages again.

Build your mind to be strong and you will learn to move on in no time

PerfectStranger:

Simp. You’re chasing a liability for 8weeks, she billed you for 8 good weeks, y’all simps must learn the hard way.

I saw the red flag during the first date. I was careful not to fall a victim. So, I rejected her billing of over #200k. I only paid for the 2 dates.

tayewomi:
Run bro!
infact don't look back.. Lastly run without your slippers..Thank your stays you see the red too early,wish girls can change their stupid mentality.. I've since cut off unnecessary friendship both male/female..Do with only peeps who are concerned about you and are contributing positively to yr life.Gudday

well said!!

HRHQueenPhil:
She will come back
But u must be matured, friendly and focused on wat u want..

I will never accept. I rather die single.

Bolubrenda:
I saw the red flag during the first date. I was careful not to fall a victim. So, I rejected her billing of over #200k. I only paid for the 2 dates.

You are a bit smart and dodged a bullet, I will advise you don't block her but delete her number and chat history.. It's obvious she doesn't rate you enough to date you and possibly a leech.

Bolubrenda:
I saw the red flag during the first date. I was careful not to fall a victim. So, I rejected her billing of over #200k. I only paid for the 2 dates.

Yo fish, so if it was below 100k, you gonna pay. theredpiller

Damnnn!!!! Brother!

Possibly, she might come back some other time. Girls don’t like Nice Guys. Lmao

They’re so confused. Funniest thing, the guy she’s into might not like her at all.

You are just wasting your time

Bolubrenda:
I met a lady some months back, I knew her before, but there was nothing serious between us. When we talked, I asked her about her relationship, and she said her BF broke up with her recently. I told her straight that I was interested in her. She said she loved my boldness, but I had to give some time to think about it. I agreed and requested to know how long. She told me she couldn't predict. She requested for the first date, and I told her to pick a venue. To my greatest surprise, she picked one of the most expensive Restaurants. On the date day, I became worried that something wasn't right. This was supposed to be a serious relationship.

During the date, she told me about many things that are personal to her. The most important ones were how I must promise to marry her within 6 months and how her parent was religious intolerant, and how that might affect us if we eventually ended up dating. I told her I couldn't promise to marry her in the next 6 months since I didn't know her personality.

To cut a long story short, for the first 4 weeks, she used her work as an excuse for not picking up my call or replying to my messages promptly, even though I see her online. I decided to see her for the 2nd time physically. I made a lot of sacrifices to be able to see her and spent some money on the 2nd date. I told her that we needed to conclude, but she kept on telling me to give her more time.

block her

Bolubrenda:
Between the 5th to 8th weeks, everything remains the same. She kept on stylishly demanding money for hair, data, fees, etc, in which I didn't give her a dime. I decided to lock up and also stop calling or texting; she also did call or text. By the 12th week, she called me and apologized. She continued by saying she was ready to give me an answer. She said, "I am nice, but her mind is with someone else, that I should be her friend, bla..bla...bla..." I only replied with "okay" to all she said, even though she kept mute, expecting me to say something else.

I told my friends that I would block and delete her contacts, but they kept telling me not to do that, that there might be payback time one day.

Do you think I shouldn't delete and block her?

Cc: Lalasticlala Mynd44 OAM4J And Seun

She will come back , don't block or delete her but never you call or text her.

Time waster

Don't block her pls, she would see you as weak man, she intentionally did all that to hurt u emotionally and make u look weak, and if u block her, she has won!!

Just lock up and ignore her too, in fact ghost her like she doesn't exist.. she will definitely come back

Bolubrenda:
Between the 5th to 8th weeks, everything remains the same. She kept on stylishly demanding money for hair, data, fees, etc, in which I didn't give her a dime. I decided to lock up and also stop calling or texting; she also did call or text. By the 12th week, she called me and apologized. She continued by saying she was ready to give me an answer. She said, "I am nice, but her mind is with someone else, that I should be her friend, bla..bla...bla..." I only replied with "okay" to all she said, even though she kept mute, expecting me to say something else.

I told my friends that I would block and delete her contacts, but they kept telling me not to do that, that there might be payback time one day.

Do you think I shouldn't delete and block her?

Cc: Lalasticlala Mynd44 OAM4J And Seun

I think if a girl likes you, she will respond immediately YES or NO. From experience, I will think about is often soft rejection. You can play games with what you want when asked for it. Secondly, relationship is primarily based in attraction and not just asking. If you ask her to date, she will base it in emotions. And if there's nothing special about you to turn her on, but she sees a potential maga in you, she will delay the answer in order to turn you to a friend

Simp.
She was just using you from day one.
How will you confess love to a woman who just broke up.
She's just gonna bleed on you

Op pls forget about women and focus ooo.. chasing women isn't worth it...a lot of them don't know what they want..

I will never reject

Bolubrenda:
I will never accept. I rather die single.

You need to go out and meet more girls. You seem like a guy who's doing OK but lacks game

That one sounds like gold digger abeg.
Chop and runaway,so if to say you looseguard give am money she for still dey yarn this opata.

Na why that Chinese man vex kill that gal.

I swear na why the Chinese dont like taking nonsense. Make the guy try introduce her to a Chinese man.

SPAMBOX7:
You need to go out and meet more girls. You seem like a guy who's doing OK but lacks game

Thanks

Nyamuri:
Don't block her pls, she would see you as weak man, she intentionally did all that to hurt u emotionally and make u look weak, and if u block her, she has won!!

Just lock up and ignore her too, in fact ghost her like she doesn't exist.. she will definitely come back

Okay

Bolubrenda:
I met a lady some months back, I knew her before, but there was nothing serious between us. When we talked, I asked her about her relationship, and she said her BF broke up with her recently. I told her straight that I was interested in her. She said she loved my boldness, but I had to give some time to think about it. I agreed and requested to know how long. She told me she couldn't predict. She requested for the first date, and I told her to pick a venue. To my greatest surprise, she picked one of the most expensive Restaurants. On the date day, I became worried that something wasn't right. This was supposed to be a serious relationship.

During the date, she told me about many things that are personal to her. The most important ones were how I must promise to marry her within 6 months and how her parent was religious intolerant, and how that might affect us if we eventually ended up dating. I told her I couldn't promise to marry her in the next 6 months since I didn't know her personality.

To cut a long story short, for the first 4 weeks, she used her work as an excuse for not picking up my call or replying to my messages promptly, even though I see her online. I decided to see her for the 2nd time physically. I made a lot of sacrifices to be able to see her and spent some money on the 2nd date. I told her that we needed to conclude, but she kept on telling me to give her more time.

I hope sey no be one yellow calabar girl ?