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Well since your friend is so generous, he wouldn't mind if you bring your girl!

i feel for you poster that is one difficult situation you are in and it seems you are handling it very well as most ladies have said try to move on we are all learning man never fail to amaze us Be strong, you sound like a brave lady so hats off to you. it may take time as you must have loved this man but time is a healer all the best to you my dear. i feel sorry for the wife as she will wake up one day and realise she is a mug poor women

@eiregirl, thank you so much you really re getting my drift i appreciate your advise and i needed to hear views from other people to really confirm my decision it is hard when you are where i am to think clearly and some man see opportunity and manipulate the situation, i didnt think this man was like that until last week when he started to mesntion his stress for money and borrowing my car and moving in which didnt sit well with me

@jay bee i am ready to enter a relatioship but not at this high speed this man seem to be wanting i just wantto date and take things slow with no strings attached and i have been making this pecfectly clear to him but he seem to ignore me howver i will have to be firm and just let him know i am not ready for this much commitment

@basildon if you are tired of women moaning about their man it is simple dont get involved, this is my fisrt post and genuine concern fisrt of all my son is 5months old i met this man when i was three months pregnat but didnt start to date him until my son was 3months and i have not slept with him nor let him into my flat i have met him in public places few times so please getyour facts straight (i have no intention of being intimate until he leave his wife as he say he has given reasons why he want to leave his wife and i have spoken to this man sister who confirmed all this so it is not that straight foward)
as for the man who left me pregant i think you dont need me to tell you that man is a loser and he is my loser he made a choice that he was not raedy to be a dad and i made a choice that i will have a baby and dont let him bully me to arbotion and you must know that that man i was with for almost six years the fault i made is not insisting on him making a commitment as you know you cannot force someone to commit i dont regret having that relationship and having a lovely son out of it becuase it was no one night stand i will have loads of stories to tell my son about his dad because i know him well so dont punish me for the sins of other women on this forum take each post as it comes dont generalise please, all i needed to hear is a aview from the outsider and if you dont wish to give any views shut up and move away from posts like this

Pls my dear op run 4 your lyf oh. L8er u gals will come on this forum nd start generalizing abt 9ja men, dont say we didnt warn u, its so surprising hw dis oyibo women fall 4 this 2nd class 9ja men

thankx i am warned

thanks kelz need to wise up and u who said he insist has he got fully loaded gun u re being childish ofcourse he has no gun u muppet he insist with words his listening ears on mute mode

seedard who told u i was illegal? Assumptions huh? Do u wanna c ma passport now? Mrbrownjay thank u 4 ur insight he told me this women is a cheat he has slept with 20diff man and she is not white by the way by bombarding i meant with stories and promises he has not bought me or my sòn anything actually

tellwisdom get a life im bored already

sandy jo most man re the same nigerian man re nor better no worse! I have friends all over the world who re dating diff nationalities all the same any relationship with anyman is at ur own risk!

Coogar, you will find i have told him in his face but the man insist! The only thing im yet to address with him is moving in busness! This is my busness too and i dont recall mentioning any1 s name

ofcourse i do y?

LMAO! What now? Name and shame that loser! Most nigerian man are good looking where do u find these ugly ones

na waaa tellwisdom whats ur problem dont u think the women have enough to deal with do one matey!

coogar i dont think u read my post properly im no paris hilton and i wouldnt want to b but i can support myself and dont need sponge of a man who has a nerve to borrow money and car from a single mother i admire a man who can stand on his two feet i havent ask him 4money why should he?

thank you Eiregirl really appreciate your imput this is madness, pure madness i need to put all my energy into raising my lovely son it is not easy but, david u re entitled to ur opinion

MrbrownJay, thank u i do need to think things through he is bombarding me with too much stuff already and today he asked if my baby daddy has been intouch when i told him no and asked him nicely not to raise that topic unless i do he said i love him too much i didnt deny it i just said six yrs is a long time to just get over he was not happy tellwisdom u re not serious

pendo89 yes i am on maternity leave my son is five months now i am due to return to work in Feb and to be honest i am still hurt by my ex leavin me maybe i need to allow those emotions to runs its cause but i do feel lonely depsite having goodfriends around so confusing

thank you guys i hear you well and i will take this on board and seriously reconsider- i will not give him anything and i ahve made that clear to him now i need to approach this moving in busness

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jeez! dd u say you are on maternity leave? This is Nov and the dude sure has BIG PLANS for u in Jan.Having  BIG stomach by mid of next year is part his big plan.
Doesnt he have a job?  you are two vulnerable people building castles in the air, why not just take time away from each other and think?
You are both confused.



cocoa - what make u say we are not serious? i am confused i think??

Pendo89- thanks i think you are very right but i feel if i let him go i will never find anyone i know it sound sad but i am sad and trying to haang on to this and it does not feel 100% right but if he can slow things downs i t may work who knows? he does work full time but i doubt if this job of his pays well but he is keen and hardworking the reason he has no money he just came back from Nigerai a week ago

I feel he is fake & he wants in 4 all he can get 4rm u.refuse giving him things 4 a while &c if he'll still stay.u really need time

**i hear u thanks i will do so

who is Sean now?

we have only been dating for few months, he claims he loves me and want to to marry me despite that he met me when i was pregnat, he seems genuine; he is open about his past but lately he has been stressed as he needed money to register his daughter in college and he attempted to borrow money from me i was shocked as i am still on maternity leave, he also attempted to borrow my car as i hadly use it at the moment maybe i am a bit too critical but if he neeed a car why dont he buy his own i dont like man who 'borrow'. he said he is moving in with me in january and he wants us marry and have a BABY - this is all too much and i keep telling him to take things slowly but he insists he has big plans !!

he is currently married to this old british women , he married for papers so he is finaly getting his british passport next month and planning to leave her and come and live with me LMAO, he says he is gonna tell this women he has a baby with me hey this man has everything planned and i am thinking oooh oooh im not sure>>>> i have also have my own issues being dumped by my baby father and this man is here ready to wipe that pain off me but i am thinking this all too much
i know some of you will curse me bring it on maybe i need a bit of cursing but seriously what should i do dont tell me only me knows what to do cause i dont i like him
fyi- i havent done a deed with this man as i insist he has to leave his 'wife' first cant say i am not tempted but its a principle of mine and i will stand by it no matter what and i think he respect me for that

black re the best on earth period there is no argument there! Anyway you look at it they still come up no1 thats 4me though