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FamilyRe: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by boraborababy: 8:58am On Dec 16, 2014
Kikikikikikiki so if a man spends his finances and youth on strange women, and now returns to his faithful wife wife when he is old, grey, sick and poor, he expects her to worship him right? That man will know what suffering is . Stupid men that won't act right, expecting their fallback plan to put up with their stupidity. author=Ilekokonit post=28889877]

Once an educated African woman starts earning more than you, forget it. She now genuinely believes that she is doing you a favour by being with you. And this refers to ALL diaspora Nigerians and most Nigerians back home.

The single ones will feign submissiveness "to an extent" during courtship but once you wife them and the first inevitable authority asserting arguments start, ALL of them will directly or indirectly let you know that they are doing you a favour by staying married to you.

If you now inevitably lose your job and she still has hers, then you are a dead man walking and you might as well file for pre-emptive divorce to save your self esteem from being ground to powder.

I've got a friend whose Uncle (a Prof in his mid sixties) is daily ridiculed and dragged in the mud by his wife in front of his grown kids in London simply because the erstwhile financially bouyant man is unable to work for health reasons and he is in too deep that they can't just sell their property and split the profit. I pity the man for the amount of verbal abuse he receives every day from his wife (all bordering on his finances and his lack of "complete" willingness to submit to her as the "new" breadwinner).

I'll rather live in an old peoples home surrounded by strangers than stay and receive such ridicule from a woman in front of my kids. My own policy is death before dishonour.

Reminds me of a friend whose Mum waited until his Dad (age = late 70's) went blind due to old age before she started unleashing her suppressed anger and venom on her blind husband. The woman started flogging the old blind man such that the uncomfortable neighbours would at times have to break down the door to rescue the blind old man from the flogging and take him to a relatives house. And this happened in Nigeria to tell you the amount of angst some Nigerian women can bottle up for long periods patiently waiting for you to have a financial or health setback before unleashing their hidden venom on you. The amount of bitterness Nigerian women harbour is mindboggling.[/quote]
FamilyRe: Will You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? Men Speak by boraborababy: 8:52am On Dec 16, 2014
If i build my house and my family still lives in a rented apartment, i will convince my husband to rent my house and he will never know. Won't allow my husband freeload off me, real men carry their responsibility.
FashionRe: Reviews Of The Best Skin Lightening Products You Have Ever Used. by boraborababy: 1:00pm On Nov 23, 2014
Buttergrey, extreme glow gave me horrible stretchmarks. Please what can i use? Im using shea butter but its fading really slowly. Im using cosmetics from bismid on my face, arms and legs and back, while, i use a sheabutter amd olive oil mix on my bum and waist and upper arms and thighs, where the marks are more prevalent. I read somewhere that retin a works really well, what do you suggest?
CareerRe: Challenges Of Being A Male Nurse. by boraborababy: 12:21pm On Nov 23, 2014
boraborababy:
I understand how it would be a stoopid question to a smallminded idioot like you.
CareerRe: Challenges Of Being A Male Nurse. by boraborababy: 12:20pm On Nov 23, 2014
new2020:
That's a very stu$pid question.
I understand how it would be a stupid question to a smallminded idiot like you.
CareerRe: Challenges Of Being A Male Nurse. by boraborababy: 8:20pm On Nov 17, 2014
new2020:
If you want to be emasculated, then be a Male Nurse. Why not put the same effort and a little more to be a Doctor?
You are quite ignorant. Do you think doctors are more important than nurses?
Technology MarketRe: California(Los Angeles),pickup services..Online purchase..(Ebay/Amazon,walmart) by boraborababy: 9:58pm On Nov 16, 2014
Hi mikkyangel, i would like to order an iPhone6, how can i go about it?
NYSCRe: Nassarawa State B14 Let's Meet Here by boraborababy: 9:07am On Aug 07, 2014
Scionic: are u in d camp now?...Hav u registered?...wen wil registration stophuh?cos I wil b on my way frm Thursday... angryare u in d camp now?...Hav u registered?...wen wil registration stophuh?cos I wil b on my way frm Thursday...
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Yes I am. I hate this place. Im still so sleepy Registration ended at 12am this morning.
Kentnickole: Tell driver make him drop u after bridge... No enter park o.... Just stand along road side wave ur hand... Shout keffi....
FashionRe: Reviews Of The Best Skin Lightening Products You Have Ever Used. by boraborababy: 10:04pm On Aug 05, 2014
I use extreme glow glycerine and serum at night and qei+ mixed with extreme glow serum in the morning. I also use the soap. Its lovely on me. Pricey but worth it.
NYSCRe: Nassarawa State B14 Let's Meet Here by boraborababy: 9:40pm On Aug 05, 2014
Il be coming to nassarawa camp tomorrow as well. I hope Its fun.

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