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Ijaey:
Guys pls i need your help, i just passed out from nysc batch c last month and unfortunately nysc put all our pictures and telephone numbers in the magazine and ever since then i have been gettin all sorts of calls mostly from guys wanting to hook up and other weirdos and they are really persistent even tho i am always very rude and hang up, seriously is this the new craze that guys just want to meet up with random ppl they do not know it is also causing problems in my relationship because my guy is begining to think i have been giving out my number,  pls wat should i do and how can i stop these calls , 

CHANGE YOUR NUMBER

[quote author=lady_hard link=topic=346778.msg4869380#msg4869380 date=1257448873]All hail the king of NL!
Welcome! I am your obedient subject.
_{My guy get up and move around like others!
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Welcome, sha and see you around. [/quote]Lady Hard How are you doing and how is your day going

[quote author=lady_hard link=topic=345648.msg4869401#msg4869401 date=1257449002]lol [/quote]Lady hard

Whats up and how is yoru day going ?

YOU just need to stay on your own and get your self together,.
Looks like you are emotionally scared

dakkylove:
Successful is relative to the particular category of persons and couples involved in a relationship and i agree that the idea of being successful to one person might be different to another. the term might be relative but the effect is more or less the same.
i agree as i wrote that some women allow their successes and their money get to their heads but i;m not referring to that scenario.

take this scenario for instance which is actually a true experience from a friend, two people have been dating from school, the guy is reading a 5yr course, so girlfriend graduates before him.soon after gets a job in a new generation Job, soon after gets promoted buys a car, rents a place ,boyfriend finishes service and gets a job.
by that time girlfriend has moved up in her organisation, soon enough boyfriend begins to accuse girlfriend of sleeping around to get promoted, of being ashamed to introduce him to her colleagues(that one i know was not true cos we met them several times). demands to be the one driving her car as it was the Manly thing to do ,at the end of the day the fighting becomes so much that engagement is called off.

Scenario 2 equally very very true, couple are born again christians and have been married for 20 sthing years. one is a Lecturer, the other is  a Director in an institute. Wife is Brilliant and continues to shine at her Job. eventually is made a professor,given a house by her University amongst other benefits.Husband becomes extremely jealous and accuses her of having an affair with her blood cousin(no eveidence to support this simply because she went to pick him from the airport when he came to naija) packs out of her house.

both Scenarios real, both women i know, humble,prayerful and respectful, terms of successful different in both. same effect.

my own case is not even relevant,ol boy had his own issues apart from complex and yes, there is nothing wrong with going to your mother for advise, but allowing your mother to dictate the terms of your relationship? abeg grow some balls.

@ dakkylove

Not sure the guys you hang around, but my friends and I are def are not scared of successful women. If any thing its a big Turn on.
They are much better than all those air heads that have nothing to bring to the relationship apart from looking good and asking you to take care of them.

[@ michelin89

Where in Italy are you ?

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