Politics › Re: One Party State: The Opposition Should Put Their House In Order - Tinubu by Boyooosa(m): 7:41am On Jun 13, 2025 |
“For me, I would say try your best to put your house in order. I will not help you do so. It is, indeed, a pleasure to witness you in such disarray,” Tinubu said during his State of the Nation address at a joint session of the National Assembly in Abuja on Thursday, held to commemorate Democracy Day.
That is the best truth from his mouth since emergence |
Car Talk › Re: The Snake That Lives In My Mazda Is Giving Me Saucy Looks This Morning by Boyooosa(m): 9:19pm On Jun 12, 2025 |
Heffalump: Lala is mo longer a snake man. He has been transformed by his new wife. Hmmm, that one too dey. But still, he's supposed to be checking on us once in a while. One of our fantastic MoDs |
Car Talk › Re: The Snake That Lives In My Mazda Is Giving Me Saucy Looks This Morning by Boyooosa(m): 3:59pm On Jun 12, 2025 |
It's bn a while I heard from Lala, hope he's fine |
Politics › Re: Wike Dances At Inauguration Of Tinubu International Conference Centre (Video) by Boyooosa(m): 6:17am On Jun 11, 2025 |
His dancing colleague in osun should also be showcasing achievements like dis, at least, nobody go blame am for being happy on his achievement |
Politics › Re: Petrol Not Expensive In Nigeria – Dangote by Boyooosa(m): 6:15am On Jun 06, 2025*. Modified: 6:31am On Jun 06, 2025 |
This is the kind of comment I hate reading from these wealthy guys, it dashes the 'little' hope I'm trying to rekindle. Which one is ' fuel price is not expensive in Nigeria' when you know quite well that all the economic activities of Nigeria rely on fuel, both revenue and expenditure. Even if they sell fuel in Saudi a thousand dollar per litre and it's sold in Nigeria half of that, the question is, what is the purchasing power of Nigerian market force? How much does that affect average commodity in Nigeria, transport fare, iru, ila, red oil, egg, sachet water and even water leaf that grows for free by the roadside....water leaf seller will tell you that she used alot of naira to transport her wares to the market for your accessibility. So, how does that kind of economic activity reflect that fuel is cheap in Nigeria? Make dangote no whine us this morning o, make everybody go chop available ram jeje and drink ogogoro then go sleep abeg  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Are Our Men Shy?: Ruto Jokingly Laments As 'Daughter' Marries Nigerian by Boyooosa(m): 1:16pm On Jun 05, 2025 |
Una never she shumtin |
Sports › Re: CAF Men’s Player Of The Year 2025: Ranking The Top Four African Contenders by Boyooosa(m): 10:22pm On Jun 03, 2025 |
Hakimi |
Career › Re: British Airways Flight Attendant Dancing Naked In Business Class by Boyooosa(m): 5:15pm On Jun 02, 2025*. Modified: 5:55pm On Jun 02, 2025 |
Unclad? How? |
Family › Re: Nigeria's Youngest Couple Shares Their Pre-wedding Photos by Boyooosa(m): 5:07pm On Jun 02, 2025 |
This should be a prank ...
Hope they are not hiding camera somewhere |
Education › Re: Patience Jonathan Graduates With A PhD From Ignatius Ajuru University Education by Boyooosa(m): 3:56pm On Jun 02, 2025 |
Dr. Mrs. Dame....damnnnn! |
Properties › Re: Can Structural Engineers On This Forum Help Explain This(video) by Boyooosa(m): 1:26pm On May 30, 2025 |
Immatex: This picture can’t tell the complete story.
But this is does not look like a mistake.
I would assume this is an old structure undergoing a makeover and the contractor believes knocking down the existing stairs will weaken the the structural integrity of the building and so prefers this design that looks like attempt to retain structural stability.
It’s also possible that the under stairs will get knocked down later.
So this photograph can’t make for an informed opinion. They may not need to even knock it off later because it will definitely affect the building as u rightly suggested earlier. And looking at the new stairs, the pillars/beam were stood on the pillar of the older one...so knocking it off will mean you are knocking the newer one off too |
Career › Re: This Is Not For Civil Servants: A Mockery Masquerading As Marketing by Boyooosa(m): 12:33pm On May 27, 2025 |
God bless this author
We are laughing at our nurses. At our teachers....
and hailing the fraudsters and their senior colleagues in power |
Celebrities › Re: Korra Obidi Nearly Kicked Out Of An Airplane Over Her Outfit by Boyooosa(m): 10:18am On May 27, 2025 |
May be they should have seen her as someone that needs help, probably drop her off at the nearest care giving home or what do you think? |
TV/Movies › Re: What Exactly Is The FCCPC’s Role In A Free Market? by Boyooosa(m): 5:27pm On May 13, 2025 |
The author only mentioned market, he did not remember to mention the killing prepaid payment system where you need to fund your subscription before service while being charged either used or not used. The system was supposed to be pay as you go, a situation where you only pay for the service you enjoyed....you may pay more or less than the fixed crazy rate charged as at date.
Let multichoice wait small, they will get race MTN got way back mid 2000s when Nigeria government and NBC get itself |
Christianity Etc › Re: Throwback Of Pope Leo Visit To Nigeria (Photo) by Boyooosa(m): 5:22am On May 10, 2025 |
He looks young tho |
Celebrities › Re: MC Oluomo’s Daughter, Nofisat, Engaged On Her 30th Birthday by Boyooosa(m): 10:06pm On May 08, 2025 |
Ah |
Family › Re: Why I Want To Separate From My Wife by Boyooosa(m): 12:26pm On Apr 22, 2025 |
busariabeyx24: Why I Want to Separate from My Wife
Our relationship has become emotionally unsustainable for me, and after long periods of silence, inner conflict, and attempts to make things work, I have come to the difficult conclusion that separation is the healthiest path forward—for both of us. There are several deeply rooted issues that have contributed to this decision, and I believe it’s important to lay them out clearly.
1. Lack of Intimacy and Weaponization of Sex Intimacy has all but vanished in our relationship. What’s more painful is that she uses sex as a tool—to control, punish, or manipulate. This has left me feeling undesired, unwanted, and emotionally abandoned. Intimacy is not just physical, it's also about connection, vulnerability, and shared closeness—and we have none of that left.
2. Emotional Abandonment and Loneliness While she often chooses to go out and spend hours with her friends, I’m left alone in the house, feeling isolated and neglected. Even when we’re in the same space, we’re disconnected. Her priorities have shifted away from our relationship and family, and I feel like a ghost in my own home.
3. Neglect of Parental Responsibilities Despite being a trained teacher, she makes no effort to support the children academically. Their homework, school needs, and learning challenges fall entirely on me, even though I’m also the primary provider. It hurts to watch our children miss out on guidance that she’s perfectly capable of giving.
4. Communication Breakdown We barely talk. When we do, it's either transactional or tense. There's no emotional sharing, no joint planning, no meaningful conversation. We exist like two strangers under the same roof.
5. Disregard for My Input and Support Time and again, I’ve offered her advice that could have helped her avoid unnecessary stress or mistakes, but she disregards me—only to later face the exact consequences I warned about. It feels like my voice has no value in her life.
6. Encouraging Poor Habits in the Kids She not only neglects the kids’ school work, but she also encourages them to go to the next neighborhood to play or hang out—at times when they should be studying or resting. It undermines my efforts to instill discipline and focus in our children.
7. Lack of Respect for My Hustle She shows no interest or concern in how I make money, the pressure I’m under, or the sacrifices I make to keep the family going. There’s no appreciation, no empathy, just entitlement and expectation. I feel invisible, like a machine that’s supposed to produce without rest or recognition.
8. Misplaced Priorities Her life seems to revolve around eating, watching TV, and spending hours gossiping with friends. There’s little to no effort toward improving our household, our relationship, or our children’s future. That kind of passivity is damaging, not just for our marriage but for our family as a whole.
9. Manipulation by Friends She allows her so-called friends to influence how she treats me, even to the point of disrespect. Rather than defending or standing by me as a partner, she lets their words shape her actions against me. This betrayal by proxy is incredibly painful.
10. Ongoing Emotional Disregard As I write this, she has been outside gossiping with a friend for over three hours—leaving me inside, emotionally abandoned once again. This isn’t an isolated event; it’s a pattern. I’ve begged for her time, attention, and partnership, but she chooses others over and over again. Hmmm.... 'She' in ten places, no single 'I'....u na Jesus? I don't need an oracle or other part to inform me that this your account is bias |
Nairaland General › Re: What Does Nairaland Need Right Now? by Boyooosa(m): 5:37am On Apr 15, 2025 |
Samogbo1: Lots of things bruh...
Functional APP.
Strict on cyber-bullies
Strict on tribalists/ethnic profiling
Dislike button
More enlightening hot topics (skill-wise) as it were back in the days before the sudden tsunami on your Database breach.
NL should start competing with other contemporary SM platforms like Twiter.
Easy to navigate ad space/breakdown of procedure
Let me seize this opportunity to appreciate you for this platform, it has been an awesome platform to me (think am addicted to it). Way back 2010 as a 200L student. It has imparted me beyond tertiary education. Thanks Seun. Nice contribution @seun, ps capture this, 100 Then, prioritize DISLIKE button...to replace SHARE button, its irrelevant. Improvement on the email buzz to fellow members will also make sense, the feature is not effective as it s |
Politics › Re: NERC Fines Eight Discos ₦628 Million For Flouting Estimated Billing Rules by Boyooosa(m): 9:13am On Apr 11, 2025 |
Kelklein: I'm sure they are not worried about this fine..
They would still recover it from ordinary Nigerians in one month through same estimated billings and fines for bypass.
We have entered one-chance with these people.
I even go read the section they quoted and e no make sense. How can they measure fairness in naira? Section 34(1)(d) of the Electricity Act 2023 ("EA 2023"  mandates the Commission to "ensure that prices charged by licensees are fair to consumers and are sufficient to allow the licensees to finance their activities and to allow for reasonable earnings for efficient operations". Section 34(1)(d) of the Electricity Act 2023 states that the Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission (NERC) shall have the power to promote the development of the Nigerian electric power sector. This includes fostering the growth and advancement of the sector as a whole, encouraging investment, and ensuring its effective and efficient operation. The Act also empowers NERC to address issues like overbilling and ensure compliance with energy caps. How do they detect and sanction over billing with fairness here? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Burkina Faso Lawyers And Judges Now Wear African Attire In Court (Photos) by Boyooosa(m): 7:00am On Mar 03, 2025 |
givedemwotowoto: Wear whatever, just stop stealing public funds and using the judges for political gain, like perpetuating stolen mandate and canceling state allocation Abi na, the young chap go comot leadership seat now, u go dey hear how many billions in dollars the guy don steal... |
Forum Games › Re: Can You Identify The Female Here? (Photo) by Boyooosa(m): 10:31pm On Feb 02, 2025 |
Acekidc4: Look at the shoulder of the other two compare to the middle one. Their shoulder bone looks broader than the middle one. No, look at the genital area, the first one has hole, the other two don't have,, they have closed bones right there |
Politics › Re: The Many 'Sins’ That Cost Former Lagos Speaker, Obasa His Seat by Boyooosa(m): 6:31am On Jan 14, 2025 |
Na wa |
Music/Radio › Re: Asake, LUDMILLA - "Whine" (Official Video) by Boyooosa(m): 2:55pm On Jan 13, 2025 |
Ok |
Education › Re: See The Outfit Varsity Lecturer, Who Likened Himself To Slim Don Dazzy Wore by Boyooosa(m): 9:06am On Dec 31, 2024 |
Noted |
Politics › Re: 30 Most Talked About People In Africa 2024 (Full List) by Boyooosa(m): 5:42pm On Dec 24, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: Nigerians Are More Loyal To Their Ethnic Groups Than Nigeria – Goodluck Jonathan by Boyooosa(m): 4:15am On Nov 28, 2024 |
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Travel › Re: Cameroonian Youtuber Ajim Macy Showcases Beautiful Lagos At Night. by Boyooosa(m): 7:20pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
Biodun556: Good 
IPOBss will not appreciate good things Because they developed it  |
Business › Re: Shayi Business Crumbles: Customers Abandon Noodles, Eggs, Milk by Boyooosa(m): 4:42pm On Nov 23, 2024 |
Arobaga: Still baffles me this is the most brilliant leader in Yoruba land
Same Yorubas that claimed to be sophisticated in knowledge
I now see why they’re called cowards
God punish Tinubu Which one are you going for? Lack of knowledge to lead or cowards...they are two different things |
Sports › Re: Give Eguavoen Super Eagles Job – Adepoju Tells NFF by Boyooosa(m): 7:01am On Nov 21, 2024 |
Encourage him or win the trophy? They should allow him if he's qualified by merit not by emotion abeg |
Sports › Re: List Of 24 Teams Set For AFCON 2025 In Morocco by Boyooosa(m): 6:57am On Nov 21, 2024 |
Nigeria with struggling qualification....i.sha wish them best of luck! At least we have lookmam and osimhen |
Fashion › Re: Marianela Ancheta: Miss Universe Cuba 2024 Wore Oshun Costume by Boyooosa(m): 5:40am On Nov 19, 2024 |
vanbonattel: Chronically insecure people.
Very pained that the second in the world is bearing chidinma as her name, they have to find a way to attachee by force the dressing of the first.
What is wrong with us in this part of the country?
They will still claim the second as their daughter, that her surname Adetshina is from Ondo, and claim the 3rd, 4th, 5th and all the contestants as being from their region.
Again,
What is wrong with some of us? You are too conscious of what doesn't concern... How does the way people behave in their own world affect your sanity...pot calling kettle black |
TV/Movies › Re: Multichoice Nigeria Loses 243,000 Dstv, Gotv, Subscribers In Six Months by Boyooosa(m): 10:27pm On Nov 12, 2024 |
Now, we can go to bed two eyes closed |