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Stycon:
Bro, I think what you really need in a big mind shift/re-orientation!

So having sex at 25 is now a goal to be achieved

...trust me, sex is highly overrated! and it takes more than it to be a man.

From you narrative above I can deduce that you have self-esteem issue; you wanna act in a way that others will not disapprove of or better still, you are kinda pressured by peers opinion of your action or inaction. You may wanna work on this!

It will interest you to note that in a normal world, being a virgin at 25 (when you are not yet married) is not a big deal - it's a norm. Unfortunately, the reverse is now the case

My candid advice to you my friend is to deal with you mind set- channel your drive towards more productive venture rather than seeking how to

Btw, you may wanna seek counselling on how to deal with masturbation and the other bad habit you claim you have...these might form clog in your wheel if not dealt with.

Good luck dude!

thank u...kindly noted.

kingxsamz:
Get a girlfriend..
Don't give ur virginity to one olosho...
Because through out ur life you'll live with the fact that the first person u had sex with on earth was a prostitute

thank you..not easy though

coolestofall:
Dude u shld b proud of urself, but I guess peer pressure is getting 2 u. Xo here is my advice b4 u start thinking of rape. Go do u hooker cos ur frame of mind is not stable enough 2 wait 4 d cause of things 2 run naturally. Plus u cnt turn 2 a pro all of a sudden. Go get laid.

thank you

IamKashyBaby:


Hold on there..

Giving ur virginity to a prostitute is such a waste..

If i were u...Give it to a person that u fantasised the most.. And apply all those erotica u had in ur mind since day 1..trust me its worth it.

Yes I do fantasize abt someone but what about the fact that am a virgin...Don't u understand that? What will I do to it?

Am a guy. I was 25yrs last month. Pls I need a real and matured advice! Am still a virgin, I don't have a girlfriend and am ashamed to tell my female friends cos I always brag of being the best in sex. The issue is, I want to have sex, its really disturbing me and am masturbating a lot. I feel the first sex is important and that I should give it to someone I love but its been years I fall in love. All I have is numerous female friends who would not believe am a virgin. I don't care anymore about love I want to do it with anybody but I can't tell my female friends, no I can't tell. I will be the talk of the town. Now my guy advised me to get a prostitute. In fact he has narrated my story to a prostitute who felt sorry for me and offered to treat me well when I come and my friend has promised to pay for me. One of my friend, a Lady who happens to be one of two people on earth that knew my status as a virgin told me that my virginity would be important in getting my love life back again, that I should just find the right person. But really I don't feel like that anymore, I think about sex everywhere even at the church or at school. Pls advice, my first sex, should I go to a prostitute? I can't wait anymore. Apart from masturbation am doing all sorts of bad things which I won't like to tell u here. pls advice. I think am a bit afraid of going to a prostitute. Thanks