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And you rushed here to tell us?

Maamin:
Evegran at it again, hmmm!...pls we want a nation with decent and modest women, sisters, mothers, aunties. is that too much to ask?

Lols.


That girl matter tire me.

evegran:
And you think you sound reasonable or even educated?
Not realising as an educated or "reasonable adult", you should respect the views and decisions of others?
It is in Nigeria you'd see so called educated persons who act uncivil, then you'd wonder what cave they're from. 0_o

Can't blame you though, it is Nigeria where even villagers accuse highly educated individuals of being illiterate because one doesn't agree with your ancient ways of thinking.

I'll resist the urge to attend a conversation with you again. I'm not a fan of guys with incredibly low IQs.

Tata!

Low IQ?

Oh really?

So all you could make out from the entire story is that I disrespect women.

Even with all the IQs you have?

It is only a person with zero IQ that will attack the messenger instead of addressing the message.

The best thing to when you come across a post that is far beyond your comprehension is to pass.

I never said that you're illiterate, read my comment again, or do you have incurable problem with comprehension?

I said that you don't sound like a reasonable adult. And just so you know, every living person on earth is in one way or the other an illiterate.

Let me tell you what my post is about, hopefully you will make sense in your next comment.

Do you watch music videos?

Do you notice how ladies expose their body and dance half unclad so that the music will market?

Do you know that those who make all the money are the well dressed gentlemen that are with the ladies?

Doesn't this tell you that those ladies present women as something to be used?

Now how does this amount to me disrespecting women or being a coward?


For the last time, you don't reason like a responsible adult and it has nothing to do with your literacy.


Miss Book.

APCeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!

evegran:
Op continue disrespecting them okay?

One day, they will show you pepper!

I bet you disrespect em in your mind, I doubt you actually voice any feelings towards em in person- because you sound like a coward. 0_o.

It is their body, they're not your daughters. Smh!

You don't sound like a reasonable adult truly

bitchcrafts:
So, we should just throw caution and modesty to the winds and leave the naive youths to continue razing in craze?

Lols.


My brother, whoever doesn't consider the effect his or her action has on the society needs to have his or her brain checked.

dauntless15:
lol you're very right, but am not contradicting myself at all, am with you on that thought about what your attire says about you to the society, dressing ungodly doesn't speak good of anyone but what am saying is correct them in an appropriate manner with RESPECT, that respect will increase your chances of being listened to. But without respect they wont like to hear what you're saying at all, do you get me now

My other point is, if you finish advising them, Dont force them to take it, that should totally be thier Choice to take your advice or not, your work is done, just allow them choose wether to listen or not, if they choose to continue dressing that way let them be, its thier life, if they listened to you fine you've saved a life, dont force them in anyway and don't try to embarrass them most times you end up embarrassing yourself, such girls dressing this ways mostly come from loose families and they can make you wish to disappear with only thier words, they have this corrosive tongue and you'd do well not to piss them of.

Sorry, I misunderstood you

The same way you feel about the devaluation(no benefit) is the way we feel about your one year in office.

foolinlove:
So you believe clothes make the person.

That's fine, but in the case where a man tells his wife wat to wear?

Either bedsheets like in Saudi Arabia, or "dress up hot for me so I can show you off".

Woman is supposed to respect her husband wishes. I know I did.

Also clothes never show you the HEART and SOUL of a person. Rhianna dresses like a slag, but she might be really nice person who cares a lot about injured animals. Michelle Obama dresses nice, but she might be a complete freak that likes cutting herself? I'm not saying that's the case, just examples because who can tell what's inside?

I don't believe in judging books by their cover that's all.

Rihanna dresses like a slag. Judgement passed already.

But maybe, just maybe, she may be good inside.

Is alright.

If our looks doesn't define us then how can we have the attire of a slug?

How can you say that she dresses like one?




Well, the cover of a book speaks a volume about the content.

Good morning sir@Lalasticlala

foolinlove:
Oh come on.

If it wasn't the way women dress you'd be finding anothet reason to disrespect women.

Look at what happens in Saudi Arabia. Women there cover up in bed sheets and still get raped. Women are wholly disrespected for no explicable reason.

Once upon a time, swimsuits for women were head-to-toe because knees were considered rude and offensive.

Now it's individuals who determine what offends them, a knee or a breast or what. So it's impossible for women to dress to please everyone and earn their respect.

Maybe treat every woman as an individual and don't go painting all of them with the same brush, look inside instead of at the clothes.

How would you like it if someone judged your ENTIRE character by your clothing choice?

Morning dear.


Well, I firmly believe that my decisions define me. When I go shopping for instance, I only buy what I like, and when I wear it, I advertise that fact. So I show off my personality and reveal my character to those who see me.

When I make a conscious decision to put an article of clothing or something of the sort on myself, I always ask myself how people will see me because choice of my clothing speaks Louder than the talk.

The motives of my character is always seen by what I wear. People will always judge me by the looks.

I believe What we wear is a true reflection of the heart. Because it is from out of the abundance of the heart that the mouth speaks.

We always sell ourselves by our looks, hence the saying that seeing is believing and actions speak louder than words.

When a person dresses himself or herself, then their character is expressed by their choice of clothing. Anytime a person puts on clothes, they are expressing something about themselves.

How do you recognise a madman? First by his rag attire and then actions.

So you see? Our dress makes all the difference. A person's choice in all things reflect their character, even down to the details of their clothing

herbie27:
Until you answer that question urself, u will keep generalising things.

Talking abt jst passing, why will i wen you're standing on a narrow lane. Leave ppl to their choices.

First thing first, the question isn't necessary because I didn't generalize.

The heading of the article says why men degrade most ladies. This shows that there are exceptions.

The focus of the article itself is on women on media and the ladies that copy from them.

So what are you saying?

Are all women on media?

Does every lady copy from them?

I really don't you when you talk about generalization.

We have no problem leaving people to their choices, our major problem is their inability to accept the consequences of their choice.

You can't disrespect yourself and other women and still clamour for respect because you're a woman, this has always been my main point.

If you wish to be respected then make choices that will earn you respect.

Hipsofagoddess:
Op just wanted to show us some firm breast not that slippers type we saw some days ago.

Lols.


Is that what you can deduce from the whole article?

dauntless15:
she totally gets it

Don't you think you contradict yourself a bit bro?

Earlier, you said that should be corrected in the appropriate manner now you're saying that they should be left to their choices.

Let me state that my post not in anyway denying people their freedom of whatever they they wish but they should equally accept the consequences of the choice they made.

Are you away that every wrong choice we make affects the society? Too much freedom of choice is crippling us, trust me because choice can also foster selfishness and a lack of empathy because it can focus people on their own preferences and on themselves at the expense of what is good for society as a whole.

These people that I am talking about in my main post do not ask themselves who am I in this attire, how do I present women and how will all the people that see me respond?.

If they feel ok after giving themselves honest answers to this questions then should gladly accept the few consequences that comes with indecent exposure, which are disrespect and degrading.

Good morning sir

herbie27:
Until you answer that question urself, u will keep generalising things.

Talking abt jst passing, why will i wen you're standing on a narrow lane. Leave ppl to their choices.

cc dauntless15

herbie27:
Does your mother or sister dress so indecently?, if "No" then stop generalising things.

Do I look like someone you can blackmail emotionally?

That trick of using someone's mom or sister to shut him or her up online doesn't work on Me.

The heading of the posts says some ladies.

The body focused on women on media and people that copy them so where exactly is the generalization?

Please just pass.

dauntless15:
ok lets get this straight

Not everyone listens to advice no matter your manner of aproach i get it, but most people listen because of your manner of aproach, imagine seeing a girl wearing a see through dress, you just dont say, hey you look slutty, you say hey can i talk to you? You're asking for her consent, she says yes and you say your outfit is kinda showing whats beneath, i dont think it looks good on you, but if you're comfy in it fine. If she isn't crazy she wont blow you off and don't impose your ideas on people its annoying and no one listens to people who tries to control them.

If they are comfy in it fine its thier life, Dont force people to be like you. Like me for instance i hate deeper life members way of dressing but you can't see me laughing at them or making fun of them or forcing them to dress my way, because its thier life, they are comfy in it so be it.

Dont address her that way brazenly it amounts to disrespect, if you can't call her and address her in a gentlemanly manner then let it be, someone wears trousers and a short top and you see her and say hi slut what does it say about you and your upbringing?

For her to step out in public with such dress means she has disrespected her parents already.

I get your point alright but some will not even pay attention to your hi.

Anti Plastic Chair

dauntless15:
you just don't say it like that openly, you advise her based on who shes to you, if shes your sister you talk to her like your sis, if its your lover you know how to, if its a random stranger you also aproach her differently but make sure its done with RESPECT thats all and they'll listen. They don't listen because of wrong manner of aproach

Ready the comment you quoted again.

Not everyone listens to advice no matter your manner of approach. Many will tell you that a woman is free to express herself the way she feels.

Some claim that they dress that way because they feel comfortable in it, you get?

But if you try to(I never said that I do) address her as whom she expressed herself to be they would say you disrespect women.

Triczchic:
U are predictable. Did u also read my personal message?

Is there anything you own that is truly personal?

Triczchic:
Ur topic should have been as specific as ur focus then..

One look at your dp revealed why you're being over all defensive.

Florblu:
Did you called those ones woman?Not everyone with a hole at their middle part of the body, perforated ear or answers to the pronoun "SHE" is a woman.There are some xteristics that differentiate us biko.

Well, they are most times the ones who clamour to be respected as women.

Triczchic:
I'm not pained. Just tired of ur desire to generalize this issue. Some guys just don't understand that all women cannot be labelled same.

And you didn't notice that story focused mainly on women on media and those who copy from them?

dauntless15:

Op, its very simple, dress the way you want to be addressed,

too baring ur slutty, too tight your deeper life, too quirky you're a bookworm, too simple you're eccentric, too old school your a granny, too formal you're over serious

When you say that a woman's dress is wrong, women will say that she's free to express herself the way she likes.

But when you address her as whom she expressed herself to be, they would say you disrespect women.

Triczchic:
Disrespect and downgrade those who give u reasons to do so and respect every other woman who stays decent. Stop with your generalization already!

Chill sister, I am not here to attack or disrespect women.

If you feel pained then talk to your sisters.

tchijay:
boob's everywhere... guess d guys love it dat way...

Do their lives revolve around guys and what they want? Do they live their lives to please guys? If yes then that's exactly what I am saying and it is pathetic.

Ever since the creation of the world, men have always seen and treated women As something to be used for sexual satisfaction.

Though there were, still is a few men who know the true value of women but they were and have been in minority since time immemorial.

Now, there was a time some learned women looked into this and realised that the way men treat Women is very wrong so they organized themselves and challenged men.

They fought hard to see that every woman gets the respects she deserves, that every woman should be treated as a human being first before gender.

fortunately their mission was successful but today's women actually want that old treatment.

It is clear from all indication that they wish to be treated like sex Objects. At least, that is what everything about them says.

Just take a look at these pictures.

https://i2.wp.com/www.gltrends.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/souti2.jpg?w=750&ssl=1

https://i0.wp.com/www.gltrends.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/souti3.jpg?w=820&ssl=1

[img]http://1.bp..com/-A_xq5281fE0/U7CeuDGFbqI/AAAAAAAA9Ik/_QiF-oRTJks/s1600/1.jpg[/img]


What do you see?

The problem with these people isn't that they exposed their body[at least they wore it to an event which we all know is a place for indecent exposure] but that they are people's role models.

The reason I stopped watching Nigeria music videos is because what they show there is unclad senseless dancers who do not know that they can influence how people view women.

Who do not know that they portray how women are viewed, how they view themselves, and turning women into sex objects.

The New Women in the media are responsible for the degrading of women in our society because when their fans see them and copy from them, they present themselves as something to be used.

The funniest thing is that these women on media are the ones who always scream that women should be respected.

For what? Having breast?

They are the same people who not refer to women's beauty as intelligence, how good of a mother or a wife they are but how big their breasts and butt is.

Any attempt to correct them will get you responses like "Only God can judge me, you can’t”, “Leave them alone”,
“Everyone is entitled to his or her opinion”;
“Mind your business”.

I will mind my business truly but I cannot respect you.

Good dressing is good business. It will elicit respect from your fellow female folks and male folks.

Now Look at this picture.


[img]http://1.bp..com/-nTYb52_m6m4/V3EDLFlO_JI/AAAAAAAJs_c/vJZUzXje6TkhscCwcImU214Dpb3q5rxswCLcB/s1600/3.jpg[/img]


Who among them deserves respect?

Ijeoma660:
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You go sabi confuse person as I dey see you.


Tele-medicine, Tele-conferencing, Tele-confusion etc.

Sugarhugs:
Lolz

Nah so we dey hear.


Small world, life is short as if they've seen anything that is longer than life.

LordScent:
Summary puleaseeeee

Laniky please give me small change from the 50k. That's it.

doyinisaac:
what about all the money they claimed they recovered from looters??

When a yam eater recovers yam from another yam eater, does he keep it?



The looted funds have been looted already.

All these people saying small world sha, has any of you ever seen something that's bigger than this world?

Unah dey confuse Me walahi.

A conductor ran away with my N80 around 3pm on 14 may 2010. I searched for him for two days and couldn't find him.

I still search him anytime I go Lagos and I am yet to see him.

This is Lagos alone and people tell me it's a small.

People spend their entire life searching for their missing rib, the women are also busy searching for the owner of the rib they carry.

Many of them die without meeting each other and yet it is a small world.

Abeg make unah swerve biko.

Even those that say life is short dey confuse me too, what else is longer than life?