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TravelRe: How Do I Do This!! Urgent by brendawine(op): 12:27pm On Oct 05, 2015
Pronmix:
They don't do in-bank transaction for Western union, they'll tell you to activate the Internet banking platform and do it from there.
Ok thanks
TravelRe: How Do I Do This!! Urgent by brendawine(op): 12:16pm On Oct 05, 2015
Pronmix:
If you have GTB account you can use the Internet banking platform to withdraw, it goes into your account. I think there's another way to withdraw with quickteller. Google it and find out. Best of luck.
I don't have account in Gtb

But if I can go open account there now

U mean they can carry out the transaction for me in the bank?
TravelRe: How Do I Do This!! Urgent by brendawine(op): 12:05pm On Oct 05, 2015
adedayourt:
let d money kip yeilding interest while u work on new driv licence
btw
dont u av national id
or voters card
No I don't have them sad
Like I need the money urgently



Can any bank do that transaction for me apart from my bank
TravelHow Do I Do This!! Urgent by brendawine(op): 12:00pm On Oct 05, 2015
They sent me money via western Union from Australia

I just have my last year drivers license expired though and my school I.d card I just graduated
I went to my main bank to withdraw the money they said no they can't accept that I.d card that's the only I.d cards I have for now



Please what can I do and can other banks I have no account with do that transaction for me?
RomanceRe: If As A Lady by brendawine(f): 2:41pm On Oct 04, 2015
cheesy
RomanceRe: Why Is The Size Of A Guy's Dick So Important To Ladies? by brendawine(f): 2:30pm On Oct 04, 2015
buygala:
Because the girls of these days have deeper and wider 'boreholes' sad


*in my grandmother's voice...

















"Hmmmm...shudren of nowadays sad sad
Funny guy cheesy
RomanceRe: Romancelanders!! Matured Minds Pls by brendawine(op): 2:19pm On Oct 04, 2015
agabaI23:
Possibly you are beautiful and he likes to flaunt you.
If you do not maintain communication in between hang outs, then it that he does not really care. He probably does not save at all.

Here's what you can do
1. Tell him frankly that you do not eat because you have other needs. Ask him to give you just 10-20% of what he is ready to spend.
2. You have sex with him. If he refuses, move on. He will get another. Already, he has others not just you. You are just a side chick
If he likes you, he will give you if not he will forget about you.
3. Does he get broke between contracts? Help save some of the money for him. This is if you want him to be serious with you. He will forever remember you.

SUMMARY
if you just want money from him, stop keeping your own side of the bargain. if he gives you money good. if he does not, you have nothing to lose because it means you are no different from the other friends who come eat the same stuff and go home while you complete his fun evening by gracing his bed. In the morning you go home to your problem.

5. If you're secretly in love with him, it may be difficult but you need to muster courage.


6. Make sure you are not obtaining money from another brother who you are forming St. Cecelia Hardtoget for.
Thanks
RomanceRe: Romancelanders!! Matured Minds Pls by brendawine(op): 2:16pm On Oct 04, 2015
younghartz:
Have u heard abt juju b4?
Lolz grin
I Neva reach to go match tortoise bro
RomanceRe: Romancelanders!! Matured Minds Pls by brendawine(op): 1:35pm On Oct 04, 2015
agabaI23:
I will talk more if you answer this question..

Do you gain anything from him apart from food and drinks which his other friends get?
@ brendawine
Nop
Like wen he takes me out am kinda boring not consuming more drinks with him or eating a lot he calls those his male friends to join him there and spend the cash

Mostly wenevr he makes much money for contract or agency
He spends like mad moving to high profile hangouts for just belly sad
RomanceRe: Romancelanders!! Matured Minds Pls by brendawine(op): 1:17pm On Oct 04, 2015
PunkyVeer:
Bleep buddies. Sex with no strings attached

I don't know what she wants because she gave him what he gave her, which is sex. Why she needs money baffles me because so far she's been "benefitting" from him-food, drinks & sex.

OP, what else have you given him besides an average vagina? Seriously, girls need to stop this mentality of thinking they're doing a person a huge favour by having sex with them. What's so special about your sex to think you deserve drinks, food & money from a guy that's not even your man? That coochie better whistle or hum some country's national anthem for it to be deserving of such luxury.

YOU GAVE HIM WHAT HE GAVE YOU AS FAR AS SEX IS CONCERNED, SO GET OVER YOURSELF & HAVE A SEAT. Dude even thrown in a few crumbs your way but you still want more for half the job-it takes two to get laid, boo. Unless you're his woman, you deserve nothing. No shut your mouth or close your legs if you don't like it. Tough.
And who told u is sex
Nop that's not my kinda friendship with him but yes as a male he wants that from me.
RomanceRe: Romancelanders!! Matured Minds Pls by brendawine(op): 12:59pm On Oct 04, 2015
sweetorgasms:
D guy realise dat ure just like any other girls so he knows ure only afta his money, so he is free to do what he likes with his money, he just want u to be by his side till he finds a wife material, so its up to u to stick with the friends with benefit as uve termed it to be and look 4 a job or u get the fvck out of his life, u are going to loose anyway.
Even if he proposes I wouldn't accept

Am just corncened why he spends much on that food and drinks not my problem
But got needs on wat to Carter for on what's being spent
RomanceRe: Romancelanders!! Matured Minds Pls by brendawine(op): 12:57pm On Oct 04, 2015
I would appreciate getting tips on how to handle this kinda guy

Romancelanders tell me o
Abi is it cos he's a guy I need clips
RomanceRe: Romancelanders!! Matured Minds Pls by brendawine(op): 12:51pm On Oct 04, 2015
Harbosede02:
So u are saying u dont want food and drinks....u want Ferrari or bugati ryt??
cheesy
Nah I got other needs not food or drinks
RomanceRomancelanders!! Matured Minds Pls by brendawine(op): 12:42pm On Oct 04, 2015
Lolz


Please am here to seek advice/rather clue on how to handle such guy.

I happen to have a guy who is ok with his finances and have rich high profile friends he's not married though

So this dude always want me to be around him for fun like clubs,outing just say anything fun
He can spend #200k or more on outings like hangouts or clubs on what to eat,drink and all just say fun

But I need cash to carter for my needs I don't smoke neither do I drink wen we go for all these outings he spends forcing me to drink and eat whatever I like despite the cost hence its something to be downloaded in the belly he can spend any amount even to an extent he invites those his friends to join him in those hangouts

Please how do i move this guy in taking care of my needs not drinks or foods ,I have split wit him so many times he keeps calling me back.

Note: Nothing much serious with him not as a lover just friends with benefit but I don't seem to get my own benefit wink



MATURED MINDS PLS!!
PoliticsRe: Emir Sanusi Bags Award In Bahrain (Photos) by brendawine(f): 9:08am On Sep 30, 2015
huh he's life not me
FashionRe: Reviews Of The Best Skin Lightening Products You Have Ever Used. by brendawine(f): 5:38am On Sep 30, 2015
Buttergrey:
We've been away for a while. Just thought we should come back here and answer a few frequently asked questions:

A---I have pimples/ acne: Go for retin A & burnout sunscreem. Start from the lowest dose 0.025% and work your way up (if need be). Make sure you wear your burnout sunscreen every morning. This is very mandatory.

B---I have stretch marks, what can remove them: ABSOLUTELY NOTHING can permanently remove stretch marks aside from laser surgery. No cream/ oil etc will fix it like laser surgery. If you must use something to minimize the harsh look, we suggest
1) Exercise and eat your fruits & vegetables
2) Dietary supplements (MSM, Biotin, Omega fish oil, and vit D)
3) Oils (vit e oil, emu oil or the shea butter)
4) moisturizing Creams (Vaseline even tone, strivectin for existing stretchmarks, cetaphil for dry skin cream)
5) Exfoliants (Retin A, LA peel, GA peel, YPO)

C---I have a bad sunburn on my face, how do I remove it: HEAL-PEEL-LIGHTEN
1) Allow the burn to heal until you feel no tingly/ burning sensation when you wash/ feel on it
2) Peel the affected area carefully with an exfoliant of your choice (Retin A, LA etc)
3) Begin lightening the area with any face lightening product of your choice (Vicco turmeric for those who want natural brightening, precious/ lemonvate gel/ gel cream/ cream, Carotein gel cream or Demelan cream (contain kojic acid, arbutin and glycolic acid).

D--- I have dark knuckles. How do I fix it?
1) Wash affected area with carotein exfoliating soap
2) Apply Maxi White kojic acid serum
3) Apply g&g cream+g&g oil mix
4) Optional step--wrap with a cling film wrap to occlude overnight
5) use sunscreen on affected area ALWAYS

E--- I bought "mixed" cream from a vendor on nairaland, do you know about it? is it safe etc
We cannot tell you who to buy from. We only advice you to buy safe products formulated, manufactured, and packaged under lab regulations. This is for your own good.

F--- I bought X cream and it darkened me. Why is that?
Creams alone most time won't do it for you. Most will moisturize you but won't brighten/ lighten you. To get the extra boost, you need serums/ gel tube products. Get the most out of these additives by layering them instead of mixing. A regular full size lotion such as carotein will need 2 to 3 serums to begin lightening.

G--- I'd like to buy XYZ, how long before I see results?
Every skin is different. Stick to your regimen religiously. Give your products time and listen/ pay attention to your skin.

Lastly, whether you're lightening/ brightening/ doing noting--You need a SUNSCREEN.

It is a must-have. We recommend burnout as it has zinc oxide. An ingredient that has been proven to protect your skin from UVA/UVB rays. These rays contribute to aging, cancer, hyperpigmentation, and a whole lotta crazy skin ish. Make it a priority to apply your sunscreen 10-15mins before you step outside and try your best to reapply as advised on the product packaging.

Most of the products mentioned can be found in our online store: www.buttergrey.com

Do have a lovely day everyone kiss
i changed my location mosquitoes and sun flies plus old scars

Please what can i use to remove these little spots on my legs and laps,so I can keep wearing my hot bomb shorts I love my body complexion just those spots am concerned about.


2.on my face what facial cream can I use that would smoothen it without those incured spots showing.
Tanks

FashionRe: Reviews Of The Best Skin Lightening Products You Have Ever Used. by brendawine(f): 5:31am On Sep 30, 2015
FashionRe: I Was Duped By Jennylov (Jennifer C. Ukanwa ogbebor) by brendawine(f): 8:46am On Sep 26, 2015
Nawa o why can't people be trusted
FashionWhat Products Of Spots Removal(GRAPHIC PIX) by brendawine(op):
So i changed my location mosquitoes and sun flies plus old scars sad sad

Please what can i use to remove these little spots on my legs rather laps,so I can keep wearing my hot bomb shorts
RomanceRe: NEED YOUR ADVICE PALS by brendawine(op): 12:46pm On Sep 06, 2015
afolwalex20:
undecided
Did what?
Sex?

I tot u had sex with becos u like him
I mean staying with him cos I had no place to stay and due to he was my bf willing to hep.
RomanceRe: NEED YOUR ADVICE PALS by brendawine(op): 12:37pm On Sep 06, 2015
hbpeze:
slut is what you are
Don't misquote me I did that due to financial fam situation don't judge me only seeked for ur advice.
RomanceNEED YOUR ADVICE PALS by brendawine(op):
Have been in a relationship with this particular guy for 3years to 4yrs he was the one that disvirgined me those yrs in college

So our love grew I loved him then cos hav never met anoda man until he had money like 5mil,he fight me, womanize,and find it difficult doin something for me like little biz since he had such money I won't deny the fact he contributed to my university tuition and fares cos we were living together but before I could get that I cry and beg him.

At last he went for Nysc I graduated months after he went to camp then he started inviting girls that were my friends to come visit him there after much dramas


I was in lag were I started working I met a guy in the same organization like 10yrs older than me not married interested in me he told me about his past and all I asked people abt him I heard all abt the lifestyle he lived like he'v been wit lot of girls but what got me attracted to him its

He's very caring,loving,can lavish me with money hence he have without thinking, he cooks for me wen I tell him am not fine,he kneels down and apologises to me wen he'v wronged me,always want to take risk just to make me hapi and again very hardworking and industrious guy unlike my real guy

The day I had sex with him I felt on top of the world like its something have never had before I was high wanting more unlike my guy


BUT :He's O'level holder but ok with he's pay were he's working

Don't misquote me I gave him that chance 2months I had issues with my guy cos we were fond of quarreling,

NOW

He knew am living with my boyfrnd he went and rented a self contain for me to stay and feel free and happy.


Pls wat do I do?? And who do I stick wit

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