Have been in a relationship with this particular guy for 3years to 4yrs he was the one that disvirgined me those yrs in college

So our love grew I loved him then cos hav never met anoda man until he had money like 5mil,he fight me, womanize,and find it difficult doin something for me like little biz since he had such money I won't deny the fact he contributed to my university tuition and fares cos we were living together but before I could get that I cry and beg him.

At last he went for Nysc I graduated months after he went to camp then he started inviting girls that were my friends to come visit him there after much dramas


I was in lag were I started working I met a guy in the same organization like 10yrs older than me not married interested in me he told me about his past and all I asked people abt him I heard all abt the lifestyle he lived like he'v been wit lot of girls but what got me attracted to him its

He's very caring,loving,can lavish me with money hence he have without thinking, he cooks for me wen I tell him am not fine,he kneels down and apologises to me wen he'v wronged me,always want to take risk just to make me hapi and again very hardworking and industrious guy unlike my real guy

The day I had sex with him I felt on top of the world like its something have never had before I was high wanting more unlike my guy


BUT :He's O'level holder but ok with he's pay were he's working

Don't misquote me I gave him that chance 2months I had issues with my guy cos we were fond of quarreling,

NOW

He knew am living with my boyfrnd he went and rented a self contain for me to stay and feel free and happy.


Pls wat do I do?? And who do I stick wit

slut is what you are

Stick to your bf cos you won't respect the other guy even if he gives u heaven and earth.

cheap sl#t . keep opening ur leg about dis one self go chop i run

OP u r just a commodity. Cheap one at that. I just pray u don't come here crying

hbpeze:
slut is what you are

Don't misquote me I did that due to financial fam situation don't judge me only seeked for ur advice.

This is glaring na...

Leave d 1st guy, he doesn't love yhu!

hbpeze:
slut is what you are

PapiDShipCapt:
OP u r just a commodity. Cheap one at that. I just pray u don't come here crying

panachuku:
cheap sl#t . keep opening ur leg about dis one self go chop i run

How is she a slut

Dumb guys everywhere.. smh

Let me advice u as I would my kid sister

first of, the first guy is an a$$hole so forget about him

give the second guy a chance, observe him very well
he can be a wolf in sheep's clothing

& please stop opening ur legs for every guy u just met
learn to give ur kitten some dignity

What is the suitable title for this ooooooooo

Why can't you stick with the first... He didn't love you but he have been catering for you when you are in school.. Paying for your school fees and fares, now you looking for an excuse to leave him, i dey look you with one eye...
abeg next patient pls.

brendawine:



Don't misquote me I did that due to financial fam situation don't judge me only seemed for ur advice.

Did what?
Sex?

I tot u had sex with becos u like him

brendawine:



Don't misquote me I did that due to financial fam situation don't judge me only seemed for ur advice.

you done need to open your legs for money my friend.and since you have opened you are a slut.simple and plain.

afolwalex20:


Did what?
Sex?

I tot u had sex with becos u like him

I mean staying with him cos I had no place to stay and due to he was my bf willing to hep.

afolwalex20:
This is glaring na...

Leave d 1st guy, he doesn't love yhu!




How is she a slut

Dumb guys everywhere.. smh

a lady living with a guy shes not married to for money in exchange for sex. is a slut/ashi. any she gets she deserves it

you are a servant to the first guy, you are a master to the second.

the first guy won't change(at least, he's not ready to)..

the second guy seem to be perfect for u, but he is not so rich and also an O'level holder..

whatever decision u make, don't be a gold digger, it doesn't pay.

ur main guy was blinded with money, if u marry him, he'll either divorce or cheat on you to ur face, and make life unbearable for u.

choose wisely!

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So anytime there's no money you'll go down with another guy. You are eating O level money

afolwalex20:


How is she a slut

Dumb guys everywhere.. smh

Guy it doesn't cost a penny to use ur brain. Ur girl go dey live with u dey bang other guys n u ll be feeling like a defender abi?

Why didn't she leave before lashing d other dude

PapiDShipCapt:

Guy it doesn't cost a penny to use ur brain. Ur girl go dey live with u dey bang other guys n be feeling like a defender abi?

Why didn't she leave before lashing d other dude

and because she's staying wit u, u have d right to lash oda babes too abi!
The guy made her lash anoda guy

panachuku:
a lady living with a guy shes not married to for money in exchange for sex. is a slut/ashi. any she gets she deserves it

Are u 4 real?




#am outta here..

afolwalex20:


Are u 4 real?




#am outta here..

shes FU(kin two guys, wat advise does she need again. if both go broke tomrw. if i offer her 10k she wud open leg. she shud gerrahere mehn

HMMMM, NAWA FOR SOME NAIRALAND GUYS OO.

afolwalex20:



and because she's staying wit u, u have d right to lash oda babes too abi!
The guy made her lash anoda guy

If u don't have a human brain at least acquire a mosquito brain oga. Am not speaking in that light.
If she's not comfortable with it, why is she still living there

Well let me just give her a word of advice: OP stop living at the mercy of any guy because u'll end up becoming their commodity... Since u r now working try go get urself an apartment ( a face me I slap u apartment) is not a hell hole for starters. That way u will give urself respect n dignity not d one u'll b fvvcking sporadically just because u need a place to lay

If you truly love the first guy then you wouldn't have given the second guy a chance.

What you ought to do is already glaring to you...am sure you just need confirmation

Ride on with the second guy if you are truly sure of him

Ashewo girl

Hmmm......am full of thoughts

brendawine:



Don't misquote me I did that due to financial fam situation don't judge me only seeked for ur advice.

And so? It does not Stop u from being a slut.









It is not always about what he can offer, it is also about what u can offer.

What if all of us are looking for someone who can offer something meaningful and not the other way round I bet none of us will be dating by now.


The truth is, u can always see someone that will still offer more than this current guy, u have already stated his flaws ,1 being that he is an O'level holder, meaning that if u see a B.sc holder that can treat u as the O'level holder that u will jejely dump the O'level guy, haven said this, it does not in anyway stop u from being a slut that u were called.



Why didn't u leave the 1st guy when u knew he was stingy? Yet you allowed him to cater for u skuling,now u know he is stingy,
U also work, take care of ur responsibilities and stop being a parasite to men.

Cheap Slut

hbpeze:
slut is what you are

You are a baby, Quote me anywhere.

Sorry op but are you really a graduate?


Well since you need advice , here's what I'll say, your bf no longer have any iota of respect for you so I'll prefer you go with the present one but this time with sense and self-respect intact . Don't live with any man you're not married to, it breeds the highest form of disrespect .

Go with the second guy that adore and respect you, if you aren't comfortable with his academics level, advice him(with all humility) to go for a part-time degree course.

hbpeze:
slut is what you are

Mtcheeww psycho...u just jumped and typed without reading very well

hbpeze:
slut is what you are

Guy those words no heavy for your mouth talk. Take am easy. Nobody is perfect.