Ennychoc019:
Instead of paying 5k to be added to a telegram group, Cambridge 10-17 and Makkar on Speaking for 5k. Send me a mail and I will add you for free and even share my drive on a paid videos on writing task 1 and 2 for free. We are here to help one another and not ripped each other apart.

Fadd2:
Vita foam orthopedic bed 4by6 with free frame  60k

Radof refrigerator 135L

Syinix water dispenser  30k

Glass tv stand 15k

Century 32 inches flatscreen tv SOLD

George food processor  SOLD

Scanfrost gas cooker with oven 35k

Scanfrost washing/dryer machine 70k (good as new)

Morpilot juicer 10k

Breville Air fryer 15k

LG microwave 25k

Brand new century electric oven/grill (30litres) 27k

Brand new table top gas SOLD

Chigo 1.5 hpc AC 35k

Window blinds  15k

Tall kitchen standing shelf (Orange and green color) 25k

Wall shelf both same color as above(one side has two doors the second size can take microwave and a space above for kitchen items (15k)

Big Danaplast black big drum (10k

1000 liters drum 15k


Baby section

Rocking chair and stool 60k(still as brand new)

Baby bed and side drawer 40k

Tv side baby shelf 10k

4mom mamaroo baby swing 80k (Neatly used and packed back in carton)

Ford baby car walker (in carton) 20k

Fisher price lullaby swing 7k

2 Medela Electric Breast pump( all accessories intact with extra storage bottles 40k

Avent baby sterilizer 15k

Munchkin bottle hanger 5k

Graco baby stroller 20k

Infantino baby carrier (very neat) 7k

Baby shark body support  5k

Car seat baby support  7k

Breast feeding pillow 4k

Haers water flask 10k

Dragon stainless flask (brand new)10k


N:B pls note all baby items are very neat and packed back in carton immediately after use and some are brand new in carton.

Also, some of the baby things will come with free items

fuckboys:
I've sent you an email twice, how can you be stressing me like this cos I want to buy an item from you? Can't you just drop your number for those who are interested to call you?

fuckboys:
post your phone number bro, I need this.

fuckboys:
post your phone number bro, I need this.

Kmartt:


NFID 90k

Baamivic:
your contact number pls

brian91:
Clean Iphone X with a battery health of 100%.
Reason for selling is I've got phone before it's arrival.
Face ID - disabled


Price: 110k - slightly negotiable
Kindly note that am giving it with it's leather, water-resistant back pouch

Location: Lagos

wittywriter:

I'm buying for a client.
Contact details?

Drop email....I no longer get NL pms
Ull be duly contacted..thnx


Wittyness

wittywriter:

I'm buying for a client.
Contact details?


Wittyness

brian91:
Clean Iphone X with a battery health of 100%.
Reason for selling is I've got phone before it's arrival.
Face ID - disabled


Price: 110k - slightly negotiable
Kindly note that am giving it with it's leather, water-resistant back pouch

Location: Lagos

Romanoff:


I'm happy for you.

wunmi590:


Bless up bro...

May God continue to bless your union with wisdom and more money 💰 🙏

pocohantas:


I said what I said. Stop disturbing us.
No be you first go abroad.

pocohantas:


Emotions is part of our daily life, so I don't understand this noise Naija men make about emotions. I bet I would have let my emotions be if I was on your side. If you no wan marry her, shift and let us hear word abeg.

frozen70:


Listen to your heart and follow his direction
Your intuition can't be wrong

JeffreyJunior:
Based on all you wrote down, you don't trust her and if you don't, don't do that which you have planned to do.

It can only be red flag, not pink flag or horseblood flag and in your case, there are lots of red flags already.

Nothing guides a man more than his instinct, follow it. If it tells you not to do something, don't push it any further.

Kobojunkie:
WIll you also include details of what your brother did to give his wife leverage over him after he brought his wife over? Or do you intend to conveniently leave that part out of the story in order to demonize the woman?

wunmi590:


I don't know why you people are always afraid to take your wife along with you abroad, yes some might be bad, but not all..

Don't let what you read online put fear on you, do your due diligence and move with your wife...

On my own end, I'm married to a very good woman from a reputable background, I can't travel out to stay for long without bringing her along with me, she's a blessing to me generally....

Lawalemi:
How many gb storage?

Romanoff:


The reason you think it doesn't favour men abroad is cause you're use to the privilege that patriarchy gives to African men, especially in marriage.

No sane woman will treat a man who loves and respects her badly.

This is what I know.

If you're already seeing red flags now, I'll suggest you don't go any further.

Romanoff:
The first thing you should address is if she's level headed and well brought up with strong values. How do you treat her, do you treat her as an equal or do you treat her as a subordinate?

Cause the cases of wives "becoming something else" after relocating abroad with their husband that I've seen, I've realized that these women were just enduring the men in Nigeria. They got abroad and found their voice that poverty and "what people will say" (if they divorce or leave their marriage) kept hidden.

What type of woman is she, what kind of family does she come from, what are her values? (practical values that you've seen her demonstrate). Does she respect you, are you two Christians (not just the church going or the form filling type). I'm asking if you're christians cause if you both are, it means you share the same values as regards marriage.

Are you secure in the marriage/relationship, either you relocate abroad or not, does she respect your role in her life?

Are you ready for the culture shock that awaits you abroad? In the abroad, marriage is a partnership, not a "I'm the man of the house, you must obey me" type of marriage.

She works, you work, you two contribute to running your home, you two must work together to achieve tasks and goals for the family. You two will have conflicting work schedules, you two must learn to manage expectations abroad, the things that you use to do in Nigeria might not work abroad and if not managed properly, it can impact your marriage.

Be ready to cook, clean and look after the kids while she works and you are at home cause in the abroad, these tasks are not just for women, na two of una go do am.

So if your marriage will will stand the cultural shock awaiting you, please be prepared to face these realities. If you're an African man to the core, kindly stay back in Nigeria and have an African Marriage.

PS: it's obvious you don't even trust this woman, please leave her alone.

Sliding in a prenup without her knowledge is fraudulent and will cost you more in a developed country.

You better save yourself the trouble and do the needful.

I no know why una dey always need advice for wetin dey obvious.

kinibigdeal:


Capacity?

Mindlog:


Have you relocated?

Kobojunkie:
1. My issue isn't that of your individual imperfections but the fact that you are already creeping around behind her back Eben before marriage to her out of disrespect for her intelligence as a human. Try to imagine if she were the one trying to take insurance against you in your relationship and maybe you get an idea of how preposterous your situation right now really is. You are literally planning to put up walls against her before you both even say your I Dos. What bigger red flag is there?


2. Humans are prone to sliding it off in the long run? That is why a 50-50/partnership marriage agreement is commonsense or at least an arrangement where both agree to and sign the prenuptial together, which is not your plan.

pocohantas:


They should stay with those ones, make we fit drink water keep cup. At least those ones are not with them for papers. If you talk, wahala. If you no talk, e go be say you dey pretend make e fit carry you abroad. Abegi! He should go marry abroad. I won’t be surprised he is the one turning her into a mad woman. 😀

kinibigdeal:


90k