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Technology Market / Re: Iphone X For Sale by brian91(m): 11:18am On Jul 30, 2023
kinibigdeal:


90k

Nice offer from you.

I can give it for 105k
Technology Market / Iphone X For Sale by brian91(m): 11:05am On Jul 30, 2023
Clean Iphone X with a battery health of 100%.
Reason for selling is I've got phone before it's arrival.
Face ID - disabled


Price: 110k - slightly negotiable - SOLD
Kindly note that am giving it with it's leather, water-resistant back pouch

Location: Lagos

Business / Re: BREAKING!!! FG Bans Sycamore Loan App, Others From Operating In Nigeria by brian91(m): 8:48am On Jul 22, 2023
IconicR:
Faber will not like this, which loan app will Faber now patronize

Should you not be concerned about your mental health with this level of trolling an unknown face undecided
Health / Re: Early Signs Of Sexually Transmitted Disease You Should Not Ignore by brian91(m): 5:35pm On Jul 09, 2023
Informative and Insightful.
What baffles me is the boldness of both gender toward reckless, unprotected sexual intercourse. Knowing that the younger ones are so exposed to sex and don't know it goes beyond the pleasure of ejaculation/orgasm undecided

Those who are more prone to this STI are the female gender cos their body system could harbor it for long without knowing angry remember the ones with cute/pretty face, firm body(male/female) might be a carrier of STI by concealing their identity to order/pick their meds.

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by brian91(m): 5:17pm On Jul 06, 2023
Iyenogie30:
70k for everything or for one ?

grin grin grin

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Politics / Re: Speaker Abbas's Two Wives Jostle For Recognition During Swearing-In Ceremony by brian91(m): 7:36am On Jun 14, 2023
I doubt anyone would wanna subscribe to your channel with this grumpy voice ovet sad with native intonation.

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Romance / Re: What Is The Best Way To Irritate And Annoy A Girl? by brian91(m): 11:04pm On Apr 15, 2023
Samantha124:
I'd rather book a session with a therapist and vent everything out there rather than be going back and forth with people who'd only bring toxicity into life... grin grin grin

What's your nationality?
Romance / Re: What Is The Best Way To Irritate And Annoy A Girl? by brian91(m): 9:47pm On Apr 15, 2023
Samantha124:
I'm not the kind of a girl that easily gets irritated because I know how and when to keep my emotions in check.

I'm too stubborn to allow people think that they can emotionally put me down.. grin grin grin

I could be hurt by something or someone, but still pretend to be fine until I finally let go of the pain and move on without saying anything.

If you sleep with my best friend trying to get back at me, I'll probably just cut the both of you out of my life in silence.

You speak intelligence and maturity!
Politics / Re: Tinubu Should Bring The Likes Of Owen Omogiafo Into His Government - Ikirodah by brian91(m): 10:44am On Apr 02, 2023
And what made you think your opinion matters or perhaps your false narration based on self adoration and edited Wikipedia!
No be only Owen angry
I expected this junk will explain her policies and what way it would better impact instead oga just dey type titles/positions. Shallow reportage sad

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Family / Re: Can this be done without her knowledge? by brian91(m): 11:50am On Mar 16, 2023
onumadu:


This flag is so red, but I'm afraid that you are already making excuses for her, by saying "she ain't aggressive to fight me ..."
A cousin of mine divorced his wife merely two months after marriage because she jumped on his car's bumper in a fit of rage after he walked out on her during a misunderstanding.
That was it for my cousin. The whole world begged him to take her back, but he wouldn't. Till date. He remarried.
A wise man can smell a violent woman from years ahead.
Any man who hates beating up a woman would mostly develop that keen and sharp instincts to avoid cantankerous women.
You are in Nigeria, and she is already pulling knife on herself. Overseas, she will find her natural habitat.
Run while you can.
Travel alone.

It's well. It's just peeps marital stories i read, seen even here make strong man fizzle grin
Family / Re: Can this be done without her knowledge? by brian91(m): 11:48am On Mar 16, 2023
frozen70:


Listen to your heart and follow his direction
Your intuition can't be wrong

Yes and well advised.
Am really unto that just that have got deadline.
Thank you.
Family / Re: Can this be done without her knowledge? by brian91(m): 11:46am On Mar 16, 2023
Kobojunkie:
1. Why are you marrying this woman if you obviously have reservations about her and her intentions? undecided

2. undecided Marriage is an agreement between a man and a woman. If you cannot both agree to the terms and conditions stated in your prenup, then your marriage cannot have one. it is as simple as that. undecided

Like i pointed earlier, have got my imperfection too else everyone of us is working toward being better. See eh, where person wan start from since majority out there are just lust, infatuation. If you don follow woman and mehn you go fear their attitude and priority on the latter end. Some dont reveal flags but we see the marriage scandal here.
To the second, we both have priorities we defined. But you know humans are prone to sliding it off on the long run.
Family / Re: Can this be done without her knowledge? by brian91(m): 11:39am On Mar 16, 2023
Foodqueen:
That incident u narrated up there is enough red flag.

She will put u in a deep shit when u marry her.

Even saint among them changes.

Exactly my fear!
But am at cross road and gone way deeper wish i could tell.
Family / Re: Can this be done without her knowledge? by brian91(m): 11:34am On Mar 16, 2023
Romanoff:
The first thing you should address is if she's level headed and well brought up with strong values. How do you treat her, do you treat her as an equal or do you treat her as a subordinate?

Cause the cases of wives "becoming something else" after relocating abroad with their husband that I've seen, I've realized that these women were just enduring the men in Nigeria. They got abroad and found their voice that poverty and "what people will say" (if they divorce or leave their marriage) kept hidden.

What type of woman is she, what kind of family does she come from, what are her values? (practical values that you've seen her demonstrate). Does she respect you, are you two Christians (not just the church going or the form filling type). I'm asking if you're christians cause if you both are, it means you share the same values as regards marriage.

Are you secure in the marriage/relationship, either you relocate abroad or not, does she respect your role in her life?

Are you ready for the culture shock that awaits you abroad? In the abroad, marriage is a partnership, not a "I'm the man of the house, you must obey me" type of marriage.

She works, you work, you two contribute to running your home, you two must work together to achieve tasks and goals for the family. You two will have conflicting work schedules, you two must learn to manage expectations abroad, the things that you use to do in Nigeria might not work abroad and if not managed properly, it can impact your marriage.

Be ready to cook, clean and look after the kids while she works and you are at home cause in the abroad, these tasks are not just for women, na two of una go do am.

So if your marriage will will stand the cultural shock awaiting you, please be prepared to face these realities. If you're an African man to the core, kindly stay back in Nigeria and have an African Marriage.

PS: it's obvious you don't even trust this woman, please leave her alone.

Sliding in a prenup without her knowledge is fraudulent and will cost you more in a developed country.

You better save yourself the trouble and do the needful.

I no know why una dey always need advice for wetin dey obvious.

To give further answers to your questions;
Yes she was groomed in a morally inclined, home as we met and fell in love in church. She graduated from one of those church private university in Nigeria. She is modest to say the least and I TREAT HER AS AN EQUAL and respect/give room to her views/opinions cos my mother trained her boy even though she wasn't rich. I ain't a religious guy since i hardly go to church but i have a good standing with my creator in prayer and supplication.
My just fear is the cultural evolution over there knowing fully well it does not favor men. I only wanted to be on a safer option perhaps else i am considering prenup!
Family / Can this be done without her knowledge? by brian91(m): 12:30pm On Mar 15, 2023
Hello guys. I tried not to create a new moniker for this and swallow the pride else i use this.
Am in my early thirties, with a good career(Network Security) else i should be relocating soon by God's grace for further knowledge. I am in a serious relationship(dated 2 years) already proposed. She's a newly graduate and tryna push a career too. Our intention and plan is to relocate together but i FEAR for my sanity and emotion as i had read so many life stories of women turning to become something different upon arrival, some imperfection she portray although i ain't perfect either. I am never for divorce else i took my time up to this age before i decide to propose.
One of it is, she is naive that i saw how guys disturb her and i be like why do you give number in the first place; secondly, she is a bit stubborn not that i can't put her in place but my fear is it's a woman world that any little thing they call the cops. All of this she had promised not to ever happen again and ask i give her second warning to prove herself. I am still scared cos have read, heard and seen how wives turned against their sweet heart to the extent of tarnishing and disrupting the husband/partner life and pursuit.
I need your further view on this, I AM LOOKING INTO DOING A PRENUP but don't know if it can be slided into our marriage document without she, her family or my family knowing about the contents?

NB: I shouldn't have said this but let me. An incident happened that she was at fault but in a way to persuade and beg, she seized my phone, locked the door at me and promise to pick a knife at herself. Although she ain't aggressive to fight me but i fear she might frustrate me to do what i detest so much.

RoyalRoy
Seun

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Romance / Re: The Latest Young Couple That Got People Talking by brian91(m): 12:11pm On Jan 07, 2023
LincolnOnyeabor:
Something ain't right here.


Either the boy is her younger brother, or he's standing in place for someone.

You are wise!
Politics / Re: Kashim Shettima Puts On South Eastern Attire (Pictures) by brian91(m): 7:42pm On Aug 29, 2022
oikirodah:

Source iReporteronline.
https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/odogwu-kashim-shettima-tears-the-internet-with-latest-south-east-attire-photos/

Stale and unintelligible reporting grin
I bet shettima who you hyped never knew you doing this.
Am a thoroughly Yoruba male before you hit yourself with the ipob tag

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by brian91(m): 7:39pm On Aug 27, 2022
DenreleDave:
Four sets of beautiful and quality chairs available


Very cheap, Just 40k (Bonus price)

Location is lagos..

Escrow allowed
Jeez grin
The look though lipsrsealed
Food / Re: My Special Unripe Plantain Porridge With Oil And Vegetable Blend (pics & Video) by brian91(m): 7:53am On Aug 23, 2022
DiomaKitchen:


Pls desist from making nasty comments in public spaces. If you don't like the meal say so, no need to drag my husband into it.

You see what our dearly faceless forum breeds! Immoral and unintelligible persons out there. No courtesy at all.
He could even be a toddler...
Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by brian91(m): 6:11pm On Aug 22, 2022
Speedaf is misbehaving nowadays as per prompt delivery. May i know if this reason mean there's no specific day to receive my item?

Romance / Re: Oya Drop Any Funny Picture From Your Status Saver by brian91(m): 1:27pm On Aug 14, 2022
I don laugh my nerve grin grin grin out on a cold Sunday grin

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Family / Re: 21st Century Parenting Dos And Don'ts - Sure Home Seminar by brian91(m): 6:52pm On Jul 31, 2022
VeryWickedGoat:



If their seminar no work on their son, it won't work on me.
grin grin
Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by brian91(m): 8:31pm On Jul 14, 2022
Gjackzy:
Please how did you source for dollar from the bank

A friend of a friend did thesourcing while i pay the naira equivalent.
Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by brian91(m): 3:10pm On Jul 14, 2022
I received my order this day, hours ago after two weeks of long waiting. Anyway its worth the wait. unique, stylish and well packaged phone. No defects at all. The speedaf home delivery was fast and prompt. No extra charges incurred on my part aside the delivery fee(less than 20 dollars) i paid with the device.

I source for the dollar directly from bank .

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Romance / Re: Simp 101 (check..pics..am Ashamed)>thread by brian91(m): 10:23am On Jul 05, 2022
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SeekerofTruth1:
And this is The End goal of Feminism
Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by brian91(m): 7:21pm On Jun 24, 2022
burner44:
barter

OK
I observed barter give a higher exchange at 610 per $. You observed same right
Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by brian91(m): 7:14pm On Jun 24, 2022
burner44:
barter

OK. Any other channel aside Barter. They gave an exchange rate of 610
Technology Market / Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by brian91(m): 7:00pm On Jun 24, 2022
burner44:
My phone that entered Nigeria on the 19th ha successfully been cleared and arrived at sorting centre already. I wish you all good news like mine

Hello. Please may I know how you made payment. Am tryna make payment over $150 from access visa debit card but declined

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