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Beauty only helps the gold digging female

OK yes women abuse in south Africa is taken seriously but power in government or the economy is largely masculine. Women still play a very small role. The fact is that south African men don't know how to treat their women its a generational thing based on a history of violent retaliation against the vulnerable in society

Who said woman in south Africa have more power than men. Hahahaha what a joke. South African men are violent in nature and violent people always attack weak people who can't physically defend themselves that's the only way to describe this.

Girls do this all the time I just didn't want to say the obvious

When Jesus was driven into the wilderness by god so that Satan can test him, it wasn't just to make the bible interesting to read. Its an example to all of us that Satans promises are the kind that are only meant for our harm.... Many today are in jail because Satan tempted by promising a life of everlasting wealth after commiting a crime... Same way he promised to give Jesus earth. Why did he tempt him? Because he was hungry..
He comes when we are suffering not just because we hungry for food but for sex for money for love for many other things through our suffering Satan sees an opportunity to make us join him in hell. So that passage of scripture is probably the most important passage in the entire bible. Lives have been destroyed and so many have perished because they didn't know that passage. Read it and put it forever in your heart in Jesus holy name I pray amen

A woman likes you a lot but you are not finding her attractive, she happens to be wealthy, you on the other hand are broke and jobless, what do you do? She doesn't turn you on, one bit not even close to bit. But you know that she can help you financially. The sex won't be amazing because her looks don't arouse you at all. How do you pretend to be aroused as a man? How do you even get it up when it just doesn't want to? She has the money that you need though. And she can make your life a little bit easier. Set you up with a business or just give money to you wherever and whenever you need it. But you aren't feeling her at all. She doesn't do anything to your emotions. What would you do? How do you pretend to be in love as a man?

A woman likes you a lot but you are not finding her attractive, she happens to be wealthy, you on the other hand are broke and jobless, what do you do? She doesn't turn you on one bit not even close to bit. But you know that she can help you financially. The sex won't be amazing because her looks don't arouse you at all. How do you pretend to be aroused as a man? How do you even get it up when it just doesn't want to? She has the money that you need though. And she can make your life a little bit easier. Set you up with a business or just give it to you wherever and whenever you need it. But you aren't feeling her at all. She doesn't do anything to your emotions. What would you do?

Google her name...... That's what Google is for

Belinda effah is such a gorgeous Nigerian woman. She is the prettiest I've seen from Nigeria. Her look is not typically Nigerian. Almost exotic in a way kind of south african mhhhhhhh yummy. She is the hottest girl on any Nollywood film she stars in. Mhhh Belinda Belinda you are my nollywood crush all day everyday. Mwaaaah

Travelling around west africa has made me realise how people in africa view south africans. Xenophobic. Arrogant. Ignorant and don't consider ourselves africans. All these views have shocked me and saddened me in many ways. Xenophobia is not only a south african problem it's a world wide thing. But not all south africans are xenophobic infact we are some of the most tolerable people in Africa. I mean we have pretty much neglected our borders so that african people can just come in easily and enjoy whatever south africa has to offer. If we were xenophobic we would have made our borders have electric fences or build a wall. We are humble and not arrogant, the reason why our pride and knowledge of being african is because of apartheid, it has driven our mentality away from being one with africa. Same thing has happened to the african Americans with slavery. But as the years go on we are becoming more and more enthused about being one with Africa. So all these views are just wrong

Love is not something that can happen in an instant. There is no such thing as love at first sight. That kind of love is not really love but lust..... It's a lust at first sight. Love takes time to grow, it is natured by friendship, that's why most people who have had long happy marriages always say that they have managed to be together for a long time because they are best friends, it's rare to find them saying we have been together this long because we found each other attractive or we had money. It's all about getting along with your partner. About enjoying his or her company before you even jump in to sex. These days marriages are all based on material lust and not the solid foundation of friendship hence the ridiculous divorce rates. When you seek for a wife, first seek a friend in her. Can you confide in her, is her company what you enjoy? Ask yourself those questions, don't just look at her looks. Those things fade, don't rush into marriage without having laid a foundation of friendship.

What your girl doesn't do for you another girl out there can do. That's why we guys cheat most of the time. Not because we are greedy but because we are wired to have a desire for a different taste, to be honest a main woman in a guys life is the one who turns his house into a home, and then there is the other lady who is the guys escape from that home...... this escape is the kind of escape that every man needs just to feel free.... Ladies need to understand that a man is not really the type of dog that likes to be on a leash. But the type of dog that loves to be free to bite who ever it wants to bite in this case a different woman from time to time lol

These days it seems as though the idea of love being a natural feeling is non existent. Love has become a commodity in order to afford it you need to have certain material privileges. What happened to I love him because he treats me good? Treating me good has gone from...he never abuses me to.....he abuses me but he supports me financially so he treats me good. Women of this generation are no longer human beings but products same as that we find in stores across malls. In order to afford their interest you must have a certain size of financial muscle. Yes respecting a woman and being faithful to her doesn't pay her bills, but I believe that a woman can work for herself and be indipendent therefore it is baffling to see woman remaining in abusive relationships because of what is done for them instead of what is done to them. Ladies stop being commodities and be human beings. Be priceless and love a man for how he treats you and not what he does for you.

No I don't want to sleep with prostitutes. I want a woman to love not just to have casual sex

I am from south africa here on business. I've realised that Nigerian women have very firm bodies. It's sexy I really should get me some Nigerian lady for a relationship. Is there any lady interested to be my woman please leave me your whatsapp number

I am a south african guy in nigeria for business looking for a single Nigerian lady to keep me company please leave your number for me if you are interested

What a weak lack of confidence kind of performance as expected by the south African girls. They looked clueless from the first to the last whistle. With all the infrastructure we have in south Africa we should be ashamed that we barely dominate any African tournament. We are shameful and embarrassing sis

Why is data so expensive in Nigeria I thought your economy was the leading economy in Africa Yet a simple thing like being connected to the internet is highly expensive than in South Africa or maybe its the south African mtn network punishing you over the fine that it received at the hands of your harsh government by increasing data charges
..shame shame shame how sad it is for a so called giant of africa

Nigerian women in tonites game are out to torment south African women cause they generally don't like them since south African women always take their Nigerian men lol

Approaching that girl you really like is the biggest challenge when you are a broke guy. Public opinion that all the attractive women out there just can't deal with a man who has a shamefull bank balance. No car and own place is a hurdle that is hard to overcome as a broke guy. Gone are the days where a girl will only date you because you make her laugh with your charismatic personality. Now its about what material things can u do for her. That's the modern relationship for you girls just don't do unemployed guys anymore unless they met them whilst they were financially well of and suddenly things went wrong. Its very rare for a successful and attractive girl to go for a guy who can barely afford to buy a deodorant for himself. Yeah broke guys we do have it tough when it comes to getting a gf I tell u. Crying crying crying

Who is going to destroy who in that match? I know s.a has a ratchet record against Nigeria in both women's and mans football. But things do change