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Femsyn:
Not angry. Just pained, cos i went through something similar with my wife, though not up to 4years, and i understand the trauma that goes with it. Experienced it? Yes i have. If he understands what i mean, i expect him to have changed that evil word already!

Update:
Thanks OP.

I didn't see it that way, I want the best for her and that's why I'm here seeking solutions. I might have used a wrong word, but i consider it "error" not "evil" as you stated. Thanks.

Remimadrid:
Maybe she had an abortion that prove fatal to her womb. Scold her, she will confess.

Oh! Ok, thanks.

Nigga44:
May God Almighty hear her cries and answer her prayers.

No one knows what the root of the problem is, but I can imagine she's going through a whole lot right now.

The best she can do is continue praying and bracing herself for the bad (divorce).

All I know is that she's still young at 26 and the God of Sarah will hear her prayers soon with this man or a new husband.

Amen. You've said it all. Thank you.

lestat:
You welcome.bro extend my sincere well.wishes to her
Will keep her in my prayers

Thanks sir. God bless.

madridguy:
If this is the case, I would suggest anyone " elders " from your side too to move into action. Let them have a round table discussion with the husband and his people too.

Well, I pray it works out again this time around. Note the word "again". Thanks so much.

Femsyn:
@topic,
It is clear the man doesnt care because he has two children already. Unfortunately for him, the fact that he has two children does not mean he cant develop fertility issues along the way, or perhaps, the children are not even his! My point is, the man needs to get himself tested too. We are so quick to put the blame on the woman. What your sister needs now is support, especially from her husband. There's little you can do.

Infertility does not necessarily mean the couple has been promiscuous in the past. What they need is to forge an alliance as one big family and attack what wants to destroy their home.

The husband needs to accept this challenge and i'm certain they will laugh in the end, like i did!

Thanks sir. He's not ready to co-operate, like I said in the first post, he threatened no one can stop him, because that's what his Alfas, Pastors or whatever told him to do, that until he gets another wife, my sister(in his own mind not our portion) will never have babies. Hmm, I laugh in Spanish.

lestat:
No she shouldn't ask for it, she should just be prepared.

But if his attitude gets so negative to the point she gets depressed she should leave !

No marriage is worth her life, life is a journey not a destination.

No one had the right to break another down to the point of depression, this shalt not kill doesn't just mean physical murder

Yes,I told her this morning that if something goes wrong with her, the man would live his life, thus he does not worth her death, tears and depression. Thanks so much.

madridguy:
I hope someone is not there fueling the husband. I guess your sister lack the support of her inlaw if not 4 years is still young to be thinking of getting another woman.

GOD that answer SARAH will surely hear her cry.

Brother, may God multiply your wisdom. Your first and second points are absolutely right. And Amen to the prayers. Thanks.

GloriaNinja:
WHAT IF HER HUSBAND IS IMPOTENT?

He has two children already,from his ex- wife.

lestat:
Yes she did bro. When I first discovered my ex had fertility issues I was devastated but the thought of being without her just didn't seem logical .. so we started looking at adoption as an option after marriage

But like insaod other issues ended the relationship

This is why it's important to marry that person who really sees us, despite our flaws and imperfections

She shouldn't despaire relationships and marriages end all the time , the thing is for her to remember, it's not her fault.

She will move on and find the right one. What say she had a child then this same man tomorrow will raise hell saying she can't give birth to a second child ?

Or if she had a girl he will do same claiming he wants a son?

She should thank the Lord this is happening now, I am not saying it's going 5o be easy, she will be brokem if it comes to a divorce but she will move on, she will pick up the pieces and smile again

Thanks so much. I told her some of these things whenever I'm consoling her, just that I can't tell her to divorce, i have to apply wisdom in dealing with the issue.

lestat:
Hey relax , though you raised a good point but you need to realize this is an emotional issue not an auto correct contest

Thank you for this input sir. He doesn't understand. He should have just corrected me, maybe I used a wrong word, and I will simply correct it.

lestat:
She married the wrong one. My ex had fertility issues and inwas ready to marry her, what broe us up was other issues

She has visited several fertility clinic right ?

Yes, she has been to different clinics for check-ups. Your first sentence hit me, because I have also thought about it, maybe she married the wrong one...

My baby sister will be 26 in two weeks. Her marriage will be 4 yrs this month, but she has pregnancy issues. They have tried several means (medicals, prayers, and herbals etc) to solve the problem but all to no avail. She would cry and get depressed on many occassions and I always try to calm and tell her words of hope... Fastforward, the poor girl called me on phone this morning, crying, I was so scared. She told me her hubby said he's set to marry another wife,as he has always threatened, and he vowed nothing is gonna stop him this time. I felt so bad but I managed to consoled her and let us meet today after work. My people, what do you think I should do? I don't wanna interfere into her marriage but then she's my immediate younger sister, she's gone through alot already, what if somethin unpleasant happens to her as a result of depressn or even rivalry clash? Pls, experienced ones should advise.

otokx:
This is handled by Ashgroove Academy and they have long started lectures it appears.

Ok. Thank you.

Abdulmalik052:
#2,700. It's really interesting. It contains solved questions from WAEC,NECO and JAMB. Best of luck.

Thank you very much.

LaiveNg:
No... I am not a malabite... You can reach me on 07014509524 (calls only)

Thanks bro. But I want to ask questions concerning the school.

LaiveNg:
You will definitely be admitted. Let me welcome you in advance to the stress zone called UNICAL...

Hi bro, are you a Malabite? Please let me have your contact, thanks

eaddyboy:
177

Thanks bro.

Somebody help, 86113204AD. Post only the scores please. My phone wouldn't view the screenshot picture...

Colemanz:
off mark and Registration UNIPORT 2018/2019 cut off mark UNIPORT 2018/2019 Post UTME Guideline Candidates who chose University of Port Harcourt in the 2017 Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination (UTME), with a score of 180 and above, are invited to a Screening Exercise as indicated below. Details of the ....
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Hello. Please is there any hope for someone who chose Uniport in 2018 UTME but score below 180, 177 to be precise? Thanks

Abdulmalik052:
thanks I got the textbook on Monday
PS: I'm sorry for replying late.

Hi bro. Please how much did you buy the textbook? And are you really finding it interesting? Thanks.

otokx:
Yes Uniport does part time for undergraduate program but not in core specialized courses.

Ok. Thanks sir. But please can you give me info about Uniport A LEVEL program? I've searched for infos online but no good results came up. Thanks once again.

Hello guys. Please can someone help me with the details about UI DLC programe? Thanks.

otokx:
Yes

Good Morning sir. Now that I've known my FATE with JAMB that it's not a path for me to follow this year to enter Uniport. Please I would love you to enlighten me if there's any other program(s) that someone can run. Or better still does Uniport do Part-time program for undergraduate courses? Thank you.

[quote author=Castleberry post=66014929][/quote]Thank you.

babyjoy92:
Wait ooo, y is the result poor unlike the previous one, candidates had better recheck their results

Like seriously, I can't believe this is my result! So poor!

Castleberry:
You're welcome

Please help me check. 86113204AD

Rachealoduah:
ha!you are very strong oo,you scored 283 and you ALMOST cried me that scored 240 I cried my eyeballs out that they were even begging me that the one cried is enough,that I tried .but on a more serious note are you sure its not your post utme that bleeped things up cause that score should get you medicine even if its the last batch or do they do tribalism in the school you chose anyway you guys should pray for me I'm writing tommorrow if not the cry I'll cry this time around will flood the whole of Nigeria more than last years flood,see you guyz tomorrow after I breathe the last jamb air

LOL. Don't worry, the case shall be the opposite. You shall not cry this year but laugh,laugh and laugh. Good luck to us all. Mine is on Tuesday.

incredible70:
Yeap, hope so. Cause I totally went solo today

It is well man. I heard JAMB did not re-set past questions this year.

incredible70:
Thought I was the only one that noticed. Worst still, alI the topics I read nothing came out.

Sad. This is one of the discouraging sides of external exams. But worry not brother. God shall crown your efforts with success.

Godhead4:
These questions were different from today's (Saturday)
own

Please did you come across questions from the previous years?

Deckline:
I guess we all answered the same questions. I'm an art student though. I waited till when it remained 7minutes before i submitted. I Had headache immediately after the exam.

Sorry bro. Success.