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Jayhome24:
It is a good news but pls Nigeria army ain't you ashamed of yourself that a dangerous bandit who has killed over 30 people came out boldly in Katsina 2 days ago in blue babariiga like Emperor to sit in a peace deal and you can't lay an ambush with a surprise attack and destroy him and his boys but coming here to tell me one ipob with some yeye ammunition is arrested and you are jubilating.

Pls I'm seriously pussed off abeg.

BadNews:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2025/09/16/nigerian-army-captures-notorious-esn-ipob-commander-gentle-de-yahoo/

Odewaleadesoye:
"It is better to know your status so that you can guide yourself and save others too”

DAILY POST see

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! You no dey watch all the men wey dey give testimonies about finding wives after their 40s too?

Islie:
https://saharareporters.com/2025/09/16/breaking-dss-files-criminal-charges-against-sowore-abuja-federal-high-court-calling

Morbeta11:
Source:
https://x.com/ChuksEricE/status/1966784511959593418?s=08[/quote]He has committed no offense. It takes one be to jobless to notice him.

Bobloco:
https://dailytrust.com/fact-check-is-borgu-lga-bigger-than-the-entire-south-east-as-gov-bago-claimed/

BlackViper:
He is the new Yaya Bello

Passionate888:
So Borgu is bigger than Lagos state?

CodeTemplarr:
What are they producing with the 11,000 hectares? Always using money for religion and looking for new ways to collect more money. What are they producing? If they say food, how cone they also have the tag of hunger prone region? If what they lack to utilize the land is funds, why prioritize religion above productivity?
At the end, it is matter of priority for both the masses and the leaders in that region. Leader tell obvious lies for peraonal reasons and the followers believe it too for personal reasons.

TruthHurts1:
https://saharareporters.com/2025/09/15/controversial-islamic-cleric-gumi-warns-nigerian-army-other-security-operatives-against

Warns Nigeria Army

Omoh! E be like say to find man don hard pass wetin we think oo! See as women dey pray with full passion, wear wedding gown go church just to pray for husband! 🧎🏿‍♂️ pic.twitter.com/YkgemeWIKh

— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) September 15, 2025

God1000:
https://saharareporters.com/2025/09/14/over-4000-noun-law-graduates-petition-attorney-general-over-exclusion-nigerian-law#:~:text=More%20than%204%2C000%20law%20graduates,Bar%20Part%20II%20vocational%20training

Gerrard59:
Angolans aren't skilled enough to earn higher wages. The birth rate is too high to entice employers to pay higher. Angola suffered a civil war which has resulted in absent infrastructure. Angola is no Vietnam or Thailand.

I do agree that Chinese should either partner with the locals before they participate in retail economy.

DiamondsAreFore:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/uk-doctor-leaves-patient-in-the-middle-of-surgery-to-have-s3x-with-nurse/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

Islie:
https://punchng.com/dangote-petrol-n65-cheaper-in-togo-importers/?amp

dre11:
https://www.thecable.ng/report-how-nigerian-asylum-seeker-spent-21-years-sleeping-on-london-buses

RevenuesBoost:
How do people do this gentle parenting thing?🤦
Because honestly, I haven’t even started and I’m already raising my voice!🙆

I’ve had to stop Baby Light so many times from unintentionally hurting her cat.
Sometimes I’m screaming for the cat’s safety, other times, for my daughter’s.

Wherever you find Baby Light and Kitty together, just know that some rough play is about to begin.
They’re inseparable—even when I try to keep them apart.
But Light can get a bit too rough, and I often find myself yelling—not out of anger, but from panic.
I have a fearless daughter who sees loud noises as music.
Sounds that should startle most kids? Baby Light hears them and starts dancing, smiling wide like it's a celebration.

Some people say I share stories about my family for attention.
That made me laugh.
The truth? I use Nairaland as an archive.
I've even recovered lost images from it before.

I still wonder why some people are so quick to judge and downgrade others.
But I guess that's how they are.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KpbafVmjSSA

alphonsojaybaz:
https://eyesoflagos.com/heaps-of-refuse-take-over-abuja-as-residents-raise-alarm-over-health-risks/

Poccetino1:
CONTINUATION

How do you expect me to go home around 12:30am, even police station closes by 11pm because of security reasons. How do you expect me to walk home that late when Fulani herdsmen Dey on rampage. I told her that I was comfortable in the closet (I no Dey go anywhere)

I no get ransom money and I no get strength to argue with herdsmen wey carry gun. I could hear her laugh after reading my response.

I couldn’t sleep that night because I know I will snore and move around in that wardrobe like giant rat. Around 8am her mom went to the toilet to shower and get ready for work.

Omo na so I carry my property comot from the wardrobe o. My GF asked me to give her her gifts, which gift? The one wey I don chop ?

My girl opened the door led and I left in one piece. The rest is history. 🫡🫡

treesun:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/09/porous-borders-insufficient-patrols-police-cant-end-vip-protection-igp-egbetokun/

Rapmoney:
The last photo Tupac took before his death. The other guy in the car was Surge Knight.

May1st:
Na who for help am wash the pot?
Hope that Ekiti copycat is getting ready to chase after Hilda

RevenuesBoost:
Marriage Is Not for the Weak, Selfish, or Irresponsible Man

Let’s speak truth:

You can marry beauty.
You can marry loyalty.
You can marry a woman with a heart of gold.

But if you’re immature, emotionally lazy, or careless with her trust—
You didn’t marry a wife. You took advantage of a gift you weren’t ready to receive.

Because most marriages don’t fall apart from the outside—
They fall when the man inside the house stops showing up fully.


1. WEAK MEN AVOID HARD THINGS

A weak man shuts down in conflict.
Avoids tough conversations.
Runs from responsibility.

He calls her “emotional” when she just wants clarity.
He calls her “too much” when she just needs effort.

A real man leads with humility, not ego.
He doesn’t just provide—he protects emotionally, spiritually, and mentally.

If pressure makes you disappear, you’re not leading—you’re escaping.



2. SELFISH MEN DRAIN THEIR WIVES

Marriage is not a one-way street.

If you expect peace but bring chaos…
If you demand respect but give none…
If you want her to submit while you do nothing worth following—
You’re not a husband. You’re a tyrant in disguise.

A selfish man wants a servant, not a soulmate.
But a great man? He lifts, leads, and listens.

Marriage requires sacrifice. If you're not ready to give, don’t expect to receive.




3. IRRESPONSIBILITY KILLS SECURITY

A woman can handle tough seasons.
She can handle less money, long hours, even failure.

What she can’t handle is instability—
– Financial recklessness
– Broken promises
– No vision, no plan, no consistency

Her respect dies the moment she realizes she has to carry what you keep dropping.

Responsibility isn’t glamorous—but it’s godly.
If you can't be trusted with pressure, don’t ask her to follow your lead.




4. MARRIAGE REQUIRES CHARACTER—NOT JUST CHARM

Being good to her when things are easy is the bare minimum.

Real character shows when: – She’s struggling
– You’re frustrated
– Life gets hard

If your first instinct is to withdraw, blame, or cheat—
You're not ready to lead. You're not even ready to love.

Marriage isn’t about control. It’s about commitment.
And that takes more than a smooth tongue and good intentions.




Final Thought: Women Don’t Leave Because They’re Cold—They Leave Because They’re Exhausted

Fellas:
If you think love is maintenance-free,
If you treat submission like superiority,
If you demand loyalty but give instability—
You’re not ready for marriage.

Because a woman doesn’t need a perfect man.
She needs a consistent one.
One who protects, provides, and pursues—with humility and honor.

If leadership to you means dominance—not service—
You don’t want a wife.
You want a servant.

And that’s not marriage—it’s manipulation.



Marriage is for men—not boys in grown-up clothes.
Show up.
Take responsibility.
Lead in love.
And build something worth keeping.

Have a blessed day.



Note: This write-up focuses primarily on men. Check out my thread for the perspective on women.

https://www.nairaland.com/8516244/wwww-marriage-not-unteachable-combative

OKOATA:
Everyone isn't fulani herdsman that will invest in cows and anyone who uses these luxuries suites it for himself for whatever purpose he chooses to use it for. Me as a content creator personally wouldn't mind using this gadget since it can even give me 100 times more income with a sharp and quality recording that will propel my video.

Emvicprints1:
Benin sapele warri road don turn jungle u are there speaking gramma

ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=llMB6E9YFng?si=w0qQY_XRdBcdudTi

In a bold revelation, Rev. Uma Ukpai recounted how he experienced heaven two different times, leaving many reflecting on faith and spirituality.

Fiscus105:
I guess the same goes to men too? Abi u never see 40+ guys men who are still single and didn't even know year they will marry?


Meanwhile, go to your own family, there are several single ladies, who are supposed to marry but yet unmarried, you are free to do your own findings, if all lack good character.

Toruibestate:
I saw the video late.
I would be posting the picture of the stupid boy making these 3 evil ladies disgracing my Honourable State Bayelsa.
The last picture I posted here that say 1 million reward is trying to do business so if person fast give him the information he will give the other million to the person and keep one.
And

@General Ditari.