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Education › Re: . by brocode: 2:25am On Dec 08, 2015

I feel your pain brother. It is a very sad situation from the scholarship board and the federal ministry of education.

I hope you have been paid now. We got for 5 months only too.

Only God knows when they will pay the rest. It was a very difficult year particularly for students who came in newly.

Keep this topic updated lets know what's going on

Family › Re: fgd by brocode(op): 10:43am On Oct 05, 2015

janejive:
If what u narrated is true, its likely she conned u into sleeping with her after she missed her period few days prior to d act. Or she got pregnant after d act but isn't sure who d father is as she has unprotected sex with men. Don't send her any money till u're certain d child is urs, get a frd to send u d child's samples. Ur frd shld even be there when she's swapping d samples n send it to u. If she refuses to send d child's sample, its certain she is afraid dt she'll soon be caught n might refuse d test. If she refuses, cut her off ur life, d baby then isn't yours.

Thanks

Family › Re: fgd by brocode(op): 1:11am On Sep 30, 2015

cococandy:
Is this a poem?

Poem: a piece of writing in which the expression of feelings and ideas is given intensity by particular attention to diction (sometimes involving rhyme), rhythm, and imagery.

I needed to make it sink in you dear. But am glad all you figure is "Is this a poem"
If it makes you feel better, yes it is cheesy

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Family › Re: fgd by brocode(op): 12:45am On Sep 30, 2015

cococandy:
Mumu

Yeah am Mumu,

First statement:
Okay, first of all I know lots of people talk crap just to sound funny here. I get that, its good for the forum but this is a serious situation and am seeking real conversations and advice, possibly legal on this issue.
You are still commenting and...
Yeah am Mumu.

...took me from a nobody to a "fairly" recognised person across the atlantic.
Its called been humble, that is what happens to Mumu and...
Yeah am Mumu.

Read the whole story and all you can take is "This your topic title self"
Yeah am Mumu.

You wrote: [s]"From his story, he doesn't want anything to do with the girl. From day one.
She was just a fling that pushed herself on him.

Yet he's surprised she kept the child from him.
Doesn't it make sense if she thought that he would reject the baby hence her not telling him"[/s]

Everybody has something to offer yall. That is why am responding to you and that is why I kept in touch with my "fling" several months even when I know I dont want nothing but to motivate her to attain her personal goals and I wouldnt even be back for at least four years from when I left.
Yeah [s]"he would reject the baby"[/s]. Listen she was going to bring it up anyways someday when he was fixed and probably returned. You talk with somebody all the time and still refuse tell him you are with his baby for nine months of pregnancy and more for child birth and didnt until he mysteriously mentioned it and you got scared and had to say something. He didnt even have an input on his childs name and you are hoping on getting in a relationship with him in future. I believe you guys think alike... Yeah am Mumu.

Excellent7 wrote:
@All
I think the OP has fire on his hands and is asking for help and not an analysis of his person or his error.
If someone does not have an advice or suggestion, not commenting on a topic is not a bad idea.

And you(@cococandy) are still commenting... Yeah am Mumu.

Your topic "My Most Secret Thoughts" is simply laughable... but no am not judging. Yeah, am Mumu.

Checking you out, I noticed the only thing that excites you are negative comments. You got to check yourself out girl. You are still responding and Yeah, am Mumu!

Do you do anything but try to put others down. This is not the worst thing on earth and this guy who knows who he is and is a success story, instead of judging you thinks you deserve a response and Yeah he is Mumu for helping you with your(@cococandy and @bukatyne) negativities.

Lov yall and its the last am saying it for you two and Yeah, am Mumu.

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Family › Re: fgd by brocode(op): 11:25pm On Sep 29, 2015

5minsmadness:

Family › Re: fgd by brocode(op): 10:37pm On Sep 29, 2015

@All the other shit heads here: Thanks anyways, I was expecting you all to respond. I cannot be what Dr. Carson called 'politically correct' for you all here. I know if you search deep in your hearts you would know and understand what am trying to say. I just laid it bear skin for you all and all you can do is pour your negativity on the situation just to make you feel good. You wont. I am old enough and financially capable by His grace of taking care of my baby.
If I was street enough to match all her capabilities I wouldnt probably be in this part of the world now. The idea of my story is for your input like @Excellent7, @5minsmadness ... had done and also so lessons are learnt. If I was on the other side, my take away from this story would be When things are crumbling around you, dont loss it and do the "Am going to do this and Damn the consequences, afterall everything else is falling apart anyways" kind of feeling because something beyond Good might be coming your way real soon. Lov yall

Family › Re: fgd by brocode(op): 9:53pm On Sep 29, 2015*

Excellent7:
@All
I think the OP has fire on his hands and is asking for help and not an analysis of his person or his error.
If someone does not have an advice or suggestion, not commenting on a topic is not a bad idea.
@OP
Take things easy. I think the babe is way beyond your league streetwise.
First things first! Do not discuss this with your Mum yet.
First thing, establish that the child is yours before getting yourself worried.
The chances are high the child is not yours, before you find yourself squatting on another guy's shit.
The babe's motive in keeping this info from you, if she was sure you are responsible is a very grey area.
Secondly, no matter what, do not accept any responsibility until you have proof the child is your own.
Now to a possible solution:
You mentioned you are in Europe and this can make it easy for you to get a DNA proof.
You may buy a DNA pack with service on ebay. You can get this for about 100 Euros.
Send it to her to collect the samples from the child's ear, mouth or a few stands of hair with the follicle.
She sends it back to you, then you send it to the lab, and they send the result straight to you.
"Trust but verify"
Do not assume or presume when you can know.
Do not allow yourself to be blackmailed emotionally or otherwise.
With proof the child is yours you can talk with your family and step up to the plate with respect to the child's welfare.

I got some link for the test kit with processing fees included:
http://www.ebay.ie/itm/DNA-Paternity-Test-/281800379341?hash=item419c9c8bcd
http://www.ebay.ie/itm/PRIVATE-DNA-PATERNITY-LAB-LABORATORY-TEST-KIT-99-99-ACCURACY-FATHER-CHILD-/220369462712?hash=item334f0b25b8

@Excellent7 Thanks alot. Am really glad about your response so am going to sound like a typical Nigerian: "May God bless you and anything you lay your hands on my friend. Holy Ghost Fire! on whoever go temper with your destiny" Its indeed a breath of fresh air to hear someone who understands and can read behind the expressions.

I will buy one, and I hope I can convince her to it. But I should or maybe get a friend back home that doesnt know my family at least involved.

Thanks again

Family › Re: fgd by brocode(op): 4:42pm On Sep 28, 2015

bukatyne:
Response or not,

I am not the one stuck with a baby from a woman who is immoral.

Good day

haha, we could make a good couple

Family › Re: fgd by brocode(op): 4:23pm On Sep 28, 2015

bukatyne:
@Bold:

Shows you are a very serious joker

You said you couldn't have a serious relationship with the girl because she is 'bad' yet you can dip your dick inside her

AND you are saying people are judging you?

Rich

A history of your topics and comments shows I dont require a response to this.

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Family › Re: fgd by brocode(op): 3:56pm On Sep 28, 2015

bukatyne:
Hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe!

You laying a girl less than three hours means you are man enough..
The girl you laid less than three hours is bad

Hehehehehe!

You definitely have very poor taste if you go about dipping your 'good' dick into bad girls and you are one with whoever you lay so...

You become a bad boy by the virtue of laying a bad girl

and a hypocrite because you cannot see you are bad

And I thought you were serious self.

My point exactly, instead of giving advice where necessary, you are condemning! It is sad that all the criticism are coming from females.
I threw slime at those two comments because they werent here to give advice by to judge and condemn.

"Okay, first of all I know lots of people talk crap just to sound funny here. I get that, its good for the forum but this is a serious situation and am seeking real conversations and advice, possibly legal on this issue"

That was how I started the narration.

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Family › Re: fgd by brocode(op): 3:19pm On Sep 28, 2015

EfemenaXY:
He even solicited for a kiss on the very first day they met at a Molue bus park.

What does that say about his person? Yet he claims to be the "good" guy and victim in all of this.

If you gat your game up, you can get laid in less than 3hours of conversation. That doesnt mean u re bad, it means you are man enough. BAD would have been going one round at least when we got to our destinations before we part ways.

Family › Re: fgd by brocode(op): 3:14pm On Sep 28, 2015

MrsPhyno:
Oga, this your story is sooo long and I haven't finished.

But from the beginning it seems you lied or something. You absolutely don't want a relationship but you always "value friendships with females" and you could tell she liked you.....? Does that add up to you. Honestly.

You dont make much sense here...

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Politics › Re: At Last, President Buhari’s Cabinet List Out Wednesday - ThisDay by brocode: 3:49pm On Sep 27, 2015

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Politics › Re: Emir Sanusi's Wife, Sa’adatu Barkindo-Musdafa, Revealed (Photo) by brocode: 3:18pm On Sep 27, 2015

https://www.nairaland.com/2627585/wicked-girl-carrying-good-guys

Family › Re: fgd by brocode(op): 3:11pm On Sep 27, 2015

SAMBARRY:
Ok..

The story was sweet

Its hard to believe I know but this is a real situation.

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Family › Re: fgd by brocode(op): 3:10pm On Sep 27, 2015

5minsmadness:
Steps to take:

1. Demand for a DNA TEST. it costs N75,000. Results will be out in 2weeks. If the child isn't yours you're free to go.

2. If the child is yours visit the child, offer financial assistance BUT DO NOT LET THE MOTHER GET INVOLOVED IN YOUR LIKE. She tricked you into this mess and even though u want to do the noble thing, you will still hold that hurt in your heart and will be resentful towards her. If you marry her that resentment will come out and will make your life and hers miserable.

3. You made a mistake but we all make mistakes. Realise that you are not alone. Others have fallen into the same trap. However they have found that they could move on with thier lives and have done so.

Good luck.

Thanks.

I am in Europe now, and I am probably going to be here for another two years or more. If I was in Nigeria, I would probably go and give my ex-boss a good punch and then Man up to my new situation. But how can I do the DNA in proxy: Challenge No. 1.

There is no way am getting involved with her. Even without a child with me and situations werent like they were, I wouldnt go into a relationship with her (I guess its a little late to cry now).

Am trying to concentrate but the worst part is not been able to bring it to your family as it might break my poor mum's heart knowing how much I have tried hard to pull through live without mistakes.

Family › fgd by brocode(op): 12:29pm On Sep 27, 2015*

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