xcolanto:
@Op am happy you never told her to leave and even after your pleas she was adamant and left.
This means you have a clear conscience on that part of her leaving your house.
To make matters more difficult she broke your locks all in a bid to get away from house, this means her mind was made up.

Am happy you stood your ground as a man and asked her to come back home the same way she left. Her families shame is helping her bring her things just the way they took it. Its good you offered to pay for a cab that would bring all her stuff back and with that you have provided a means for her to come back home. Its now left for her to take that offer and stop being silly.
All she is doing now is stalling due to her and her families shame. They want you to beg extra while conditioning you in such a way that if it happens again you will be the one to come and get her.
Trust me she is not comfortable there and there is pressure for her to go back to her house especially from her sister's husband.

I feel for you based on you eating out but if you want any respect from the family you must stand your ground and continue to offer the cab service to her. If you go and pick her up she might do this again and again and you will have to keeping going to get her.
Your the man! Stand your ground!
Peace..

I have similar story, my wife people came and carry her things from my house, and I stood my ground not going to bring her/her things back. I told her plain that I ll not step my foot in her father's compound. At the end she begged to come back and the blame was on her. The truth is that she can never be comfortable staying outside her matrimonial home. I advise he stand on his ground of not going to carry her things. Cuz if he do otherwise, he ll only reduce the respect he has and such a thing will repeat again. My wife now respect me and peace in my home. Also you need to give your wife a serious warning not to get her people involve in her family issues. How many times has her sister discuss her family issue with her? Why is her sister not leaving her matrimonial home? These are some questions you need to ask her when her eyes becomes clear. As for her sister money, he needs to find a way and pay her asap.

OboOlora:
Op, can’t soeak for the other examples you wrote up there but do you know you must believe in a supreme being to be a FM? I have been a Mason for 8years and I read my bible.

I know a grandmaster that’s a born again Christian too.

Can I have a private chat with you?

olaoyinloye:
Accepting Jesus Christ doesn't qualify you to be a born again Christian. so many church goers are not born again.

Church goers who are not born again, have not accepted Christ. You cannot accept Christ and not be a born again

solasoulmusic:
I think they are two different things because you could accept Christ and not necessarily change your way of living to reflect that. There has to be a sacrifice something you used to do as a man or woman in the world that you drop entirely and seek Christ.

I am not perfect o but I dropped Alcohol I’m in church now I will add more later

My dear when you have accepted Christ you are born again. Both work hand in hand. When you accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and personal saviour, you are bound to live a Christ kind of life, which is a holy life. Being born again means you have accepted Christ. You can not accept Christ and it will not reflect in your ways.

PSTEMMA1960:
and how are u sure that nobody forced him？many rev fathers a commiting immorality every day, i know of one that was friending one in my compound..

the bible never asked anyone to be single, the only thing the bible said is that u want to be a bishop u must nt have more than one wife..1timothy 3:2

They are so many men of God who were single in the Bible. What apostle Paul advises is that, if you cannot stay single serving the Lord, is better you get married (this is due to the temptation of staying single). Another portion of the Bible said blessed is he who abandon everything (EVERYTHING) and follow me (CHRIST).

Am still trying to understand why an Ex governor or deputy, in fact political positions should be entitled for pension, why long serving civil servant will be finding it hard to get his or her pension. Nigeria my country.

Lionessza:




I would move a guy into my house lol. But if we get married then , we would have to get a prenup ( whatever you came with into the marriage , it's yours and upon divorce we won't touch there . But whatever we achieve during the union we should share) I think that's fair enough for both sides.

Pls my lovely sister. When going into married life, don't ever put divorce as an option. Is one reason we have so many split marriage in the country [color=#006600][/ always have the mentality that my marriage will work greatly and I ll grow old with my man. Just an advise thoughcolor]

I dn't knw wre u get ur info frm, but d truth is dat Rochas is owin imo state workers
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Lying is bad my dear. Okorocha is the best Governor in the East and no lies and propaganda can change that. He is not owing anybody.[/quote]