blowjohn: Means ur not a millionaire in dollars who can afford to buy a house far above the bidding price
You misunderstood my post... The parole I'm talking about ain't about BIDDING but STALKING an Ex. A whole lot of fishes in the ocean, why die on a community pussy?
No cause for alarm.... According to the lifeless vegetable and cohorts, Bandits are HARMLESS BUSINESS MEN!..... Useless govt of self serving THIEVES AND BLOODTHIRSTY TERRORISTS
MiddleDimension: I am very happy it has come down to this: that you no longer have anything else to say apart from insults. In psychology, your behaviour is called cognitive dissonance.
By the way, have you watched the videos i provided here? I think you should spend more time doing research so you don't speak like someone who has never been in the four walls of a school!!!
Bullocks for Brainless buffoons! No time for nonsense!
MiddleDimension: Good to see you do not have anyother point to contribute to the discussion
You see, there three people in this thread: those who believe polygamy is bad and will never see things from a different perspective no matter the superior position presented before you; then we have those who think polygamy is good not because they are good people on their own, but because they have warped minds and think it is an avenue for them to treat women the way they feel like. These are the ones who we who see polygamy as an equal and valid marital institution of real social function and benefit, should be careful about. Then we have the third group who are by far the majority of people in the world. These people may not be aware of some facts; but that does not mean they are stupid; they can see, when light is shone before them. These are the people I am more concerned about and I am doing this for, not you nor the second group of people, even though they seem to be on my side.
Bullocks ... Check yourself before you wreck yourself!
MiddleDimension: Here lies the problem. You think Polygamy is about sex. You perverts should never be haboured in a civilization! There are countless reserch done into monogamy that states the social, emotional and psychological benefits of polygamy amd you are here saying nonsense! You think polygamy is just polygyny, a man having more than one wife? You do not know there is polyandry too, a woman having more than one husband? If polygamy is all about woman's genetilia, what would you say about polyandry? Just because you wish for it to be bad does not mean it will ever become bad. You call polygamy evil, but monogamy is the biggest evil that ever exists for pretending it understands human psychology and it alone can fulfil societies needs.
Deep thinkers will see no sense in what you are saying. Deep thinkers will actually do a study before they come up with any opinion, a study you obviously did not do and no.wonder.you have the warpest opinion that ever existed on the face of our planet. First of all, they have the warped idea that when polygamy is mentioned, that it is war all the way. But as this thread progressed, you saw examples and then you shifted your goal post. The reason I am not tired of this thread is because I am not trying to convince you, but i am presenting a different perspective which is superior to yours so that you do not have monopoly of the airwaves and shape minds the way your mind have been shaped. Its not like your thoughts originally was this way; it was only shaped by those who know nothing and the fact that we allowed them the monopoly of the airwaves. Take this video and enlighten yourself again
@HigherEd @joagbeje @donnie @righteousness2 (even though i feel you are the most unreasonable here), @anas09 @ubenedictus and all the other pastors here. I am mentioning you because you are pastors and when i have this conversations with you, your mind changes and then you go and change the minds of your congregation for the better, because obviously, they have a very terrible mind from what I have been battling here. That they have a very terrible mind means they are not good christians. Good christians do not have terrible minds, only children of the devil do.
MiddleDimension: I like the fact you said YOU HATE POLYGAMY. and like you said, you are entitled to your opinion. That does not mean polygamy is bad and that no one should not do it. If you hate polygamy, then don't do it. It is that simple!!! Oprah doesn't go with any type of marriage, did you see her get married? She stayed away! If you do not like polygamy, then you not doing it should be the only consequence of you not liking it. If you do not want others to do it, or you want the society to ban it, you are going to come up with another reason better than you not liking it. You said you are a realist. Are the examples that I and many other have given here fictional? We are not real entities with real life experiences? And why do you want me not to belive that you have actually seen glorious polygamous homes before but your passionate hate, as you put it, blinded you.from seeing and recording it in your mind that there are beautiful polygamous homes? Since you said one woman is already enough, are you not going to get married, then? Since you said you.believe in first hand experience, there are those who have got first hand bad experiences with monogamy like we see everyday in the divorce courts, do we now say monogamy is bad?
Quit sugar coating evil!.... I won't even admonish an enemy to venture into that nonsense! You don't love women / pussy more than I do, but I've seen it's other side and so dammmmmmmmnnnn catastrophic!
There's a reason deep thinkers and opinion leaders came up with the word AVERAGE
On the AVERAGE, the probability of at least 5 out of 10 monogamy succeeding is high while 1 out of 10 POLYGAMY MAY scale through,
In Essence, make your choice WISELY! #PLAY SAFE via taking CALCULATED RISK!
GetMeRight: Fake personal experience, lol. Fake love, back bitting, hatred, jealousy, etc exist anywhere there's group of human beings: polygamous family, monogamous family, work place, schools, extended family, nuclear family, etc.
GetMeRight: You are entitled to your opinions , so are the others. The problem arise when monogamous apologists with numerous side chicks decide to paint polygamy evil, something they never experienced or understand.
MiddleDimension: Your personal.experience.does not and cannot nullify an institution which I and many other people here have good experiences of. There is famous monogamous where alll the things you mentioned here were the order of the day: FAKE LOVE, BACK BITTING, HATRED, JEALOUSLY, etc... Guess which monogamous home was that....Isaac's, the son of Abraham. While the polygamous home Lamech had produced people who went on ahead to become captains of their respective industries as the bible mentioned. 19 And Lamech took unto him two wives: the name of the one [was] Adah, and the name of the other Zillah. 20 And Adah bare Jabal: he was the father of such as dwell in tents, and [of such as have] cattle. 21 And his brother's name [was] Jubal: he was the father of all such as handle the harp and organ. Gen 4: 20 - 22. The had successful careers. This means they had good homes. Also, read here how 'hatred' and fake love so exists in monogamous homes that a younger brother beats elder sister to pulp and she disowns him. https://ynaija.com/tinsel-actress-disowns-kid-brother-beats-pulp-photos/
I'm a realist and believe in 1st hand experiences! One woman is enough trouble, how much more 2, 3,4 or more... I hate polygamy with a burning passion and I'm entitled to my opion and stance.