sgtponzihater1:


Tramadol delays ejaculation, and ladies enjoy the thrill of being sexed for hours with no end. Could this be the reason he is taking it? And could this be the reason you don't want to leave him? Think again

Hours? Hehehehehehe...
I don't see the effect on him sexually as people claim. We stay days, weeks, sometimes months without sex. And when we do, it's within mins like normal people do.

Amen.
Thank you

[quote author=slickycee post=111080216]But why did you still decide to date him after everything.
Now you've seen the bloody red flags and you're still confused .

My dear , you're not a therapist, you're not Jesus Christ, you can't save him.

The only way to help him is to tell him the consequences of his addiction and report it to necessary authorities.
(Parents, church leaders, even the government )
From what you've typed , you're already on the road to becoming his co addict.

The person that unconsciously motivates him to use tramadol.

Stop trying to control his life,
Have no reaction to his addictions, if he takes it, he's an adult, he knows what he's doing, if he doesn't take it, he also knows what he's doing.
Quit trying to save people, you can't.

The more you try to exercise control over him, the more he continues the addiction to keep you dedicated to him
.

He unconsciously knows that his addiction, makes you more closer to him
Like you feel he needs you now than never, so you would be more caring, loving and supportive now.
Which enables the addiction


The best thing you can do, is not to give the addiction any attention,
If you want to help him, report him to the agency in charge of drug abuse, involve his parents and religious leader.
Keeping and addiction a secret, makes it more powerful.

The more you tell people about your addiction, the more others are aware of your addiction, the more control the addict would have over it.

So he needs to stop hiding that part of his life and publicly tell his loved ones.


I want to advise you but then again isn't it futile to advise someone in love.

So do as you please, may God see you through

Sammy101111:
My sister hold that man tight and change is life if that is the only issues he as addiction can be chased away he as to pick one you or the addiction

I'm trying not to make him feel bad about it. I know he wants to stop, but he feels he can't.
I'm just tired of this. If I threaten him, he might start trying to hide it more. I don't want to feel he has changed whereas he hasn't

Danibonk:
Aunty just say the truth you are dickmatise. I believe with my experience those guys that take tramadol Bleep like a IndecentStar

I don't agree with you on this

Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you