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assalamu alaikum to all muslim brothers and sisters on nairaland

TooNoisy:
Mr, what happened to you phone? No credit? You couldn't send text? I don't trust you too.

And what was in this chat with your "female friend"

i told her

Souljeezy:
Your waiting to get fuel till 12am doesnt sound genuine,i wouldnt believe u either if i were in her shoe...if u aren't cheating,then u jxt have to sit her down nd talk tinz through.make her undastand where her distrust is leading to..try ntin suspectful ,always give her a call to let her know wer u are.

i told her.

tearoses:
Honestly you men should just stop it already!

I am fed up of hearing about "innocent chats" with female friends. Ive seen a number of threads saying this.

What is it? Shouldnt your wives be your best female friends and shouldnt you be chatting with her instead?

Look at what you are saying . .. You have time to have innocent chats with female friends, but you didnt chat with your wife between 4pm and midnight when you were at the station?
If you had been in contact with her throughtout that period, she wouldnt accuse you of sleeping out.

Sir, if you leave room for mistrust, your relationship will just gradually go downhill until there is nothing left.
Be open to your wife, let her know what you are up to. No one is saying dont have female friends, but keep her in the loop and respect her. Your female freinds should be family friends anyway and vice versa and drop any female friend that insists on only communicating with you and not with your family.

You have to learn to keep certain people away from you. you are a married man.
Respect yourself and respect her. . . .respect your marriage

Give your wife time to calm down and go and talk to her.
All the best.

Not every female around you

i called her number to inform but her line was switched off because her battery run down. she later called me after charging her phone and i told her am still at the station, but she didnt believe me even telling me that she didnt hear any noise of being at the station.

Rexceedo:
Find another

how?

Yesterday, I left home around 4 in the evening to buy fuel and I didnt get the fuel until 12 midnight at NNPC Mega station. This morning, she unleashed all manners of allegations and insults on me that I went out to sleep with a prostitute in a hotel.
This really baffles me. She doesnt trust me at all now.
Do you think relationship that there is no trust can continue.

Please your matured response.

Cc: RoyalRoy

bewla:
Got one like that in my family aftre about 17years of carefully plan hypnotizing my bros she clam my ma was the reason for my bros not getting rich at the end our once belove family is now the shadow of its self .ma miss her child that she did not kill at infant now when is man. one womanc now witch

still confused.

THEY WILL NOT STOP THIS TREKKING UNTIL SOMEONE DIES AMONG THEM

parzdor:
op there are two things involved hia

what and what?

bewla:
tro her out when u can or it will hunt u after long time.
experience is the best teacher

u mean?

Because of nagging problem between my wife, her family, my mum and siblings, She told me my mum does not love me becauses she(my mum) puts me into discomfort by wanting me to part with her.

This her statement has really upset me. Person I just met 4 years ago telling me this.

Please advice.