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TheSonOfMark:
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Well my initial comment was not about virginity, I simply stated that sex should only be after marriage, whatever form of sex it is.

TheSonOfMark:
Yeah, just like your celibate claims.

Yea they are because I never made such claims.

andromida:
I don't get why you think he needs your forgiveness, he did not string you along, he was never your boyfriend and he explicitly told you he cannot do long distance. The way I see it you have difficulty taking his NO, you want to understand why he is not in a relationship with you even though he has already told you why.

Would it have been ok if he said yes just not to let you down then go ahead to dish shabby treatment? Accept his NO and set yourself free find something else to fill that void in your heart, this is a beautiful time to discover what lifts your soul. Looks like you are bored.

I am sorry if I sound too firm I just want you to set yourself free.

Hmmmmm, you're very correct, Thanks a lot.

TheSonOfMark:

I bet the last four guys who screwed you would be chuckling in fits if they happen to come across your celibate claims.

I'm so glad that those guys are chimerical.

TheSonOfMark:

Yeah right! I knew I'd find one pseudo-celibate here.

Yea right! I knew one debauchee was going to quote me.

Tobiee:
alright! We know your story, you a virgin, now clap for your self

Where did I say that?

Cutehector:
coupled wit my personality, I guess yeah...

PleeaaAse

OK

None, should only be after marriage .

Cutehector:
meeeeeee. Pleeeease

If everyone nominates you does it make you more eligible ?

Who will I nominate self?

Obinovictor:
If he claims he feels the same way buy does not want a relationship, have you tried asking him why.

I have, he kept mentioning the distance but I made it clear that he shouldn't bother about that, I know there are other reasons he's refusing to tell me

Rexnegro:
Be my girl pls, I need a girl like u in my life. Please don't doubt me/us .

If it was that easy, I won't be single by now .

Daseed4:
He likes you. His problem (like mine) is that he thinks 'the higher you go, the cooler you become'. I.e, the more you ascend the societal rung of hierarchy, the more sophisticated or wealthy women you get chance to marry. That's when a man rates sophistication above beauty or virtues. Like getting married to a president's daughter. And as men who might have never been shown love during our hustling years, we justify doing this as a revenge against women folk.

Hun

He can't do this to me on purpose.

okedafe:
Lol... I love that last part, pleading the blood.
But to be serious, have been there before only that I didn't take people's advise, so I spent 3years hurting. So, how did I get over it? My sister I sought refuge in another. Trust me that's the only way

Believe me, I've tried that.

Crieff:
Ok.
Take it
Step by step
Day by day
Time will jade memories of him until it becomes obscure...like a frosted glass.
Your heart will love again.

I hope so.

Crieff:
Burningstar, are you the guilty lady?

lol , nope I'm not.

Some girls and their fish mentality.

Muslims and their hijab , I wonder why its so important.

CONFESSION OF A LADY
I ate 3 plates of beans (which I
know I shouldn't). When I got to
my fiance's place for dinner,he
seemed excited to see me &
exclaimed delightedly Darling I
have a surprise for you tonight.
He then blindfolded me and led
me to my chair at the dinning
table. I took a seat and just as he
was about to remove my
blindfold, the telephone rang. He
made me promise not to touch
the blindfold until he returned &
went to answer the call. The
beans I had consumed was still
affecting me and the pressure
was becoming unbearable, so
while my
fiance was out of the room I
seized the opportunity, shifted
my weight to one leg and let
one go. It was not only loud, but
it smelled like a fertiliser truck
running over a skunk in front of
a garbage dump! I took my
napkin from my lap & fanned the
air around me vigorously. Then,
shifting to the other leg, I ripped
off three more. The stink was
worse than cooked cabbage.
Keeping my ears carefully tuned
to the conversation in the other
room,I went on releasing atomic
bombs like this for another few
minutes. The preasure was
indescribable. Eventually the
telephone farewells signalled the
end of my freedom, so I quickly
fanned the air a few more times
with my napkin, placed it on my
lap & folded my hands back on it
feeling very relieved and pleased
with myself. My face must have
been the picture of innocence
when my fiance returned,
apologising for taking so long.
He asked me if I had peeped
through the blindfold, and I
assured him I had not. At this
point, he removed the blindfold.
To my utmost surprise, twelve
dinner guests including his Mum
& Dad were seated around the
table, with hand holding their
noses...
If you were in her shoes, what
will you do?

heartbreak is far more than money or sex

Crieff:
Burningstar, which continent are you in?

Africa

Next time you won't dig into every hole you come across

That can't be someone's boyfriend .

Poor girl .


Please break her heart now than to break her hymen and still break her heart.


She just in love and very timid , don't allow make a mistake that will break her pls.

idu1:
I presume he's facing some kind of stress over there. That he want to be alone to get things fixed.

I advise u give him more time....

Then he should just tell me

Daseed4:
The reason why u re unable to forget him is that, you will be thinking he may come back to you when you least expect him. That thought is deadly. What you should do is that: give yourself some time like a year before thinking of relationship again. If he doesn't come, dnt hate him; like him more. That will give you a sense that helped a weak soul with forgiveness and see it as a kind gesture to somone in need of 4giveness. Then, open ur heart again 4 another man. I did that for a very beautiful girl. She is still, til today, surprised about why I dont hate her. Her child recently died. Without knowing anything, when she saw me on a bike in town, she fixed her gaze on me for minutes. I then asked a friend why stil feel somtin for me. Then, I was told her child died. I went to her fabric store to console her. She loved it and wished I could be hers again.

From your first statement its as if you entered my thoughts Funny enough we didn't date, we were just good friend who were in love with each other, it was at the point we should start dating that everything crumble and that was three months ago.

I don't have any problem forgiving him, infact I don't even see any wrong, All I wish is just that we could be together or at least explain to me why he can't date so I'll just understand .


I guess I'll follow your advise and just get the thought out of my head.

Many are mad but few are roaming.

Emodeee:
I av the right to quote anybody dat I like, I'm a nairalander. I raised a germane issue, u r trying hard to ignore it. How old are u? are u a virgin?

I'm not obligated to answer your question so believe or think whatever you wish.

Unibenstudent:
who told u stalker?

Why should I stalk you?

Who you help?

Emodeee:
If u r nt a virgin, keep quiet.


he asked u ur age, u couldn't tell him. Isn't it obvious dat u r nt a virgin?

I didn't quote you mister

Daseed4:
Hmmm. So, we can find women that truly love their men? This comment shows you truly love him. The problem we hav is that you women don't reveal your longing for us while we are dying to have you.

A lady gat to keep her pride

missbehave247:
Imagine that u are my sister now, and I told you that "am in love with somebody I have never met" won't u say that am possess. Have u every dated any guy apart from online dating? If yes what ur experience like?

This is the very first time I'm considering online dating and its even something I frown at and used to consider as fake.


My first relationship was with my best friend then, I just said yes to him not to let him down and along the line we got really fond of each other , our relationship slacked when I got admission and he didn't and after few months he confessed he cheated and that was it.