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Properties / Re: Where Is The Best Place To Buy Land? Ibeju-lekki Or Ikorodu? by busar(m): 12:53am On May 06, 2020
2m can't get you a good land in ibeju Lekki (I'm an indigen) except you want a land in extreme of ibeju like Folu, otolu etc... . But you can get a full plot of land in ikorodu and still have change left. Mind you, I live in ikorodu
Family / Re: Help: My Father Is Killing My Mom Gradually by busar(m): 12:34pm On May 05, 2020
Lekan239:
My parents got married 27years ago, since then it has been hell for my mom. It's as if my mom was forced on him or did the love just seize to exit, this I need advice on, from my brothers and sisters here on what to do next.

It all began in 1993, two years later I was born (1995), then we reside in Lagos but my dad later moved to pH in search of greener pastures. He only comes back home (Lagos) once in a while. My mom tried all her best to cater for her kids during all those period with no help or whatsoever coming from my Dad. It wasn't easy at all.

Fast forward to early 2003, my dad came visiting after two years without hearing from him and then my mom decided we are going with him to pH, he opposed but my mom Insisted. To cut the long story short, after we get to pH we found out my dad was living carelessly, womanizing, his social life is zero because he doesn't drink or smoke but he lavished all his money outside and Care less about his family.

My mom strived and engaged in little business which we managed to survive on. My dad only comes home when he is Short of money and acted low and submissive but as soon as he got some money, he changed immediately.

So 2010 I left pH to the village, was writing waec, looking for admission and so on, later going to lag to hustle around 2013 as I'm the one to foot my education expenses.

2015 I gained admission in a polytechnic, after my OND in 2017 I went back to lag to begin the hustle as I have to further my education, all this period I did not visit my family in Port Harcourt. I went back for HND in 2018 but had to withdraw because of lack of funds, I went back again in 2019 because a family member advised he will foot the bills which he later didn't do.

So because of this covid 19 I visited my parents in pH. My mom was very ill, she can't move nor stand and she has been the one taking care of the family, my father inclusive. My father has been a lazy man who depends solely on his wife for survival. He does not work, he does not stay at home with his sick wife. 6am he will enter the kitchen and eat any food he finds he won't even ask if four of his kids and my mom will eat. He will go and sit down in people's shops around the streets discussing with people's wife's. 10am he will be back home, straight to the kitchen to check if there's any food if my mom had drop money for us to prepare food, he will eat it without even talking to anybody, in fact he owns the kitchen now. He repeats same 2pm, 5pm and night meal also. I'm just so angry right now I don't even know what I am typing again.

After seeing all this behavior i advised my mother to give him some space, she gave birth to four children for him and three of us can survive on our own as we are no longer kids, but she won't obliged it's just as if maybe she is okay with suffering.

Today this morning, my dad did the most outrageous thing, he woke up and started ranting, saying does my mom think he is not going to be rich later, and he won't stay here forever. I got the message he was passing that he is going to leave my Mom if he stumbles upon some money. And I exactly told my mom this statement yesternight too.

Please you guys should advise me on what to do because at this junction, it hurts me a lot having the knowledge that my mom is with man who doesnt care or love her, even at her sick bed, he never for once visited the doctor nor the man of God taking care of my Mom.
Have you spoken with your dad? Call him perhaps in the middle of the night. Have a father to son conversation in a respectful manner. And let's see the outcome..

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Politics / Re: ABACHA LOOT: How Much Did The Late Head Of State Steal (see Details) by busar(m): 8:21am On May 05, 2020
So, during OBJ's tenure $2bn was recovered. What did he do with the money?

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Family / Re: How Safe Is Ikorodu In Recent Times by busar(m): 8:26pm On May 04, 2020
Indigbo:


Ok thanks. But how far is Ewu-Elepe to Ikeja, Oshodi?
I only passed through that side once.. Kind of far though
Technology Market / Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by busar(m): 5:19pm On May 04, 2020
supaflex:


no response to my above post..since morning..nawa o
buy something higher
Family / Re: How Safe Is Ikorodu In Recent Times by busar(m): 5:18pm On May 04, 2020
Indigbo:


Please how is life especially security and amenities in Ewu-Elepe extremely close to uncle bayus?
I think ewu is a great place with nice and good people... But kind of far for me
Technology Market / Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by busar(m): 2:52pm On May 04, 2020
ubiplanet:
Prof! Please how many KVA is this gen?
9.0KVA
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 2:47pm On May 04, 2020
mitchyy:
Chest freezer for sale! Working perfectly. Stays cool for days! Has never been repaired! Brand: Indesit Location: Ajah, Lagos Price: N45,000
Contact via WhatsApp only: 07039796890
interested.... 30k?
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 12:29am On May 02, 2020
Pimples:

I have lenovo a388t 6k Meiran lagos
I'm in ikorodu.. Kind of far
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 8:06am On May 01, 2020
walkwithgod:
I have the following items for sale in Lagos.

Complete home theatre set - (35K)

LG LED TV - 32 inch (45K)

100 litre freezer century (50K)

6 x 6 bedframe (20K)

Calls / WhatsApp - 0.7.0.8.8.3.1.3.4.4.9
30k for the freezer? .. Serious buyer
Celebrities / Re: White Nigerian Man Wears Nigerian Jersey And Nose Masks With His Family (photos) by busar(m): 11:53pm On Apr 29, 2020
Randy100:
If he so much love Nigeria, he should come down to Nigeria with his family. I hate fake love.
He lives in Nigeria.. Born and grew up in Jos... He lives in Abuja presently I think

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 11:38am On Apr 28, 2020
Tamp2017:
Will you buy Samsung j5 for 20k
no, I need a smaller phone at a give away price. Not necessarily android. It can be Java
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 9:46pm On Apr 27, 2020
Bluevy:
I have Huawei Honor 5x, call or whatsapp 09061175027, if you are interested
post pics and price
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 5:08pm On Apr 27, 2020
Small phone needed.. If you have please quote me
Islam for Muslims / Re: Help Needed, I Have An Exam – The GRE – To Write At VI. by busar(m): 1:03am On Apr 27, 2020
Alhamdu lillah

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 3:09pm On Apr 26, 2020
Please is there anyone who has a small phone that he/she is not using again for a small amount or giveaway? My phone got spoilt. Please if you have any you want to sell or giveaway. Location is lagos, Ikorodu..... Thanks in advance
Phones / Re: Which Data Plan Are You Using On This Lockdown? by busar(m): 5:09am On Apr 26, 2020
Currently using free data from my iptv decoder named pipul tv
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 9:26am On Apr 16, 2020
haywhy17:

How much be new firman...30k for this haggard looking thing
grin grin
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 12:04am On Apr 16, 2020
ubcandid:

yeah that's micro farads. Lol. I don forget those things small.
×10¯6 grin

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Help Needed, I Have An Exam – The GRE – To Write At VI. by busar(m): 12:01am On Apr 16, 2020
Wa alaykumus salaam wa rahmatullah wa barakaatuh... Were you able to write the test?
Religion / Re: Shocker: Dead Boy Raised To Life After Prayer Meeting! by busar(m): 11:33pm On Apr 15, 2020
Christians are so so gullible and they lack knowledge... Sheepies cheesy

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 11:05am On Apr 08, 2020
This Nnekai2 guy is a clown. I figured out his motive the moment he started mentioning one yeye Jame stores as being the best while pulling down the other guy's... Na God go punish you if you are lying in order to pull him down

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 11:32pm On Mar 22, 2020
adedejis2:




Hi, please how can i get to arena from yaba, any idea?
take a straight bus to oshodi from yaba

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 11:45pm On Mar 21, 2020
holysaint1:
If you live in Lagos and need a very good fridge, deep freezer or A/C repairer, just contact me on 08162679930. Or whatsapp on 08087346987.

A trial will definitely convince you. . Thanks in anticipation.
post pics of deep freezer and prices please
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 9:06pm On Mar 21, 2020
Neat and working perfect deep freezer needed please. If you have please quote me
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 5:16pm On Mar 15, 2020
Neatly used Deep freezer needed. Must be lagos. Quote me if you got
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 11:31pm On Mar 12, 2020
pateffy:
Sitting room chairs for sale at a discount price 1 3 sitter and 2 single sitter
pictures
Technology Market / Re: Mint Samsung Gear VR For Sale by busar(m): 1:58pm On Mar 08, 2020
Sold please....
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 10:25am On Mar 05, 2020
sempeman:
Neatly used full set of graco baby bed 65k
Fairly used Tiger generator TIG3000..50k
Location: ikotun
Call or whatsapp 07088255257
nawa oo

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Autos / Re: N1,200,000 or Less Tokunbo Cars by busar(m): 6:31am On Mar 03, 2020
sicily4u:

That hips am seeing there is it snow or white sand ?
you won buy am?

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 3:12pm On Feb 29, 2020
It seems there's a new definition for the word "giveaway"

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by busar(m): 11:32am On Feb 26, 2020
So many of you guys are finding it hard to sell your stuffs due to the high price tag.....

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