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idnoble135: what about your friends?

I have good friends however most of them are in relationships.. I don't want to sound like a loser but sometimes i just wish I had someone who genuinely cares about me..Like is it because I'm surrounded by people who are all boo'd up & in love or Is it normal to be 23 & been single all your life?? with no real love interests?

I don't like to talk about being lonely with people cos I'll look weak but it really bothers me

segunjowo: Relax babe. At 23 you're still young. You are a Christian, have faith. Tell God your hearth desires and very soon, your husband will show. Have faith in guys your age, and define what you want at the onset of your relationship and I can assure you, the issue of sex won't happen except you both want it. God help you.

I just hate feeling lonely. thanks anyway

I'm not desperate neither am I a loser, I'm not here to look for a boyfriend I just really need to vent some of my frustrations and share my feelings without being judged hence why I to opened an account.

I live in London,I'm 23, educated with a good job and I've never had a boyfriend,I'm not picky when it comes to men, realistically I'm not that bad looking I rate myself a 7/10 and most people describe me as sweet and easy going.Its not that I don't get Male attention but its always from the wrong type of guys, I assume that all the guys that approach me just want to smash which in most cases I'm right .

I don't believe in sex before marriage, am I being unrealistic with myself?, I don't go clubbing and party all the time so its not that I always surround myself with the wrong kind of guys. my close friends tell me everyday that its not possible to find a guy that will wait till marriage before sex but I don't want to settle for any old school guy at my church just because of my belief . BTW I'm not looking down on 'church guys' but I'm wondering Is it possible to come across young Christians who are considered 'new generation' and have same thinking and upbringing as I do.

please I need some advise and encouragement. Is this normal or am I being too hard on myself?.

I've tried so much to focus on myself and my relationship with God and making Busola (Me) a better person but I'm just really tired and fed up of waiting on Mr right