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Fatty27 I am not speaking about the men who frequent Nairaland! I speak from my own experience and those of friends. Emotionally unavailable men seem to be a common feature among Black men in Western societies. Emotionally stunted men who seem unable to express healthy loving interactions with good women, those who play mind games, thoes who seek to control women, thoes who are stuck in the past regarding past failed loves. Thoes who have difficulties in acknowledging a good women, it is these men I speak about, and there are plenty of them.

These questions are really aimed at those who reside in western societies as I do not find this issue with the men back home! However, I urge you all to provide your opinions if  you have any to share.

Why are there so many emotionally unavailable men in the Black community?

Why do so many Black men find it hard to be consistent and communicate their desires to good Black women?

Why is it so hard for a man to be consistently respectful to good women?

So,  what is it about western society that has deemed Black men and Black women virtually impossible love matchs to make these days?