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Skullano:
He has forgiven you and won't reply or text you again, just apologize to him for your short comings may every matter close abeg.

I don’t have anything to say to a liar o. Matter has closed . I’ve moved on.

I888:
okay bro. Thanks. I have deleted her number and also informed her that I have done that so that she does not feel I would contact her again.

We all humans. we will all experienced up and down. What you will never see me do is mock anyone or use their predicament to mock them. I know what I was going through that period when she said those words to broke shame just because she desperately needed something and I could not do it as I had an even BIGGER challenge at that time. This she is very very AWARE OF Despite that, I was being optimistic and promised to fulfill it. I thank God I DIDN'T!

I am grateful I have overcome it and even grown bigger.

There is nothing wrong with rejecting a guy, guys have always been rejected it is nothing new. That was not where I have a problem with her. BUT even if you would turn down a guy, do it respectfully and don't go about saying I can't date you because you have one leg or one eye lol. Do you get it? it wreaks arrogance. Do you know whether you will become someone with one eye or one leg?

Thanks...

Victim now and forever . Thanks for deleting . I will do give away. Since 2019 you kept my number like palliative , begging for peace . Same time you will come defame me with same breath.

You’re so fake and two faced. Your bruised ego that hurt you so much not me. Look at him talking like that’s what happened. If I was after your money why still calling me for peace . Money I asked not to give me again, I don’t need . If I needed your money as you claimed why did I reject your offer to assist me with a new phone .

I leave you to God. Thanks for the bad things you have tarnished me . Both to your friends too. Heaven no go fall, I move on to better things and heights .

I broke shame you , why didn’t you tell them you shamed me economically ? When they tell you word, you will run to judge but your own, you will lie about them. Your ego and lack of insight , impatience will be your downfall in life if you don’t change.

You said you have informed me that you won’t contact me again? Abeg for where ? All your numbers have been blocked so how did you contact me to tell me? Liar liar and always a liar .

Pls note that apart from the text messages, he called me till I had to switched off my phone . Tell him to delete my number from his phone , Biko. I no kill person. Let me have peace of mind .

Skullano:
He just said you sent him an SMS after he commented on your post and now you are saying he sends an SMS after commenting on your post..

The both of you should either ignore each other or sort out this issue like matured people should do please.

He was the one who sent me first and I had to tell him to leave me alone cos he went to report my first moniker and they banned me.

I’m done replying him, he can go to hell. I will be happy if you tell him to leave me alone . I don’t know if I should deactivate my moniker . I’m seriously tired.

I888:
How do you create a thread that hit front page, someone commented... and just because you had issues with him, you singled him out tried to rudely silence him? And in same vein, you cry cos he stood up against taking more of your bullshit. You should have quietly ignored me like I never existed... but you were the one that started quoting me.... then sent me a text to insult me. of course, I already vowed long time ago after that last straw i will never be gentle with you when you move mad. The days I used to that long gone...

Go to hell. You commented and started saying trash later on. Make I sit down dey look you. Get out and go lose your fat weight. I don’t want you as a friend anymore , period.

Skullano:
Nawa ooh, this matter has been way back but I guess the two of you can sort out your differences like matured people should do.

No more names calling or being draggy Biko.

I’ve tried , you have no ideal of that boy. 2019 he brought his friends here to start war but I dogged. But how long will he keep harassing me everywhere ? I want him to leave me alone. I can’t be friends with him, is it by force ?

I can’t even create a thread he won’t come and put mouth, then follow up by sending phone sms.

I888:
lol.. it was one of those threads where you talk about who like and all that. I no even know say the girl head no correct. the image she presents online is not who she is...

The bestie no know say him dey play with fire should he try to date her. it is best he remains just friend. I know what I am saying.

Your head no correct too. Fake ass human being. Leave me alone and face your life . The image you presented was that who you are now? Pot calling kettle black .

My best friend has seen me in my worst and good, 6yrs is not 6days. fuvk off. Fake ass. No wonder girls keep running away from you.

I’m even happy he has come here to say what he has been dying to say here since 2019. Any small thing he would say he will tell the story here , him and his gang of friends. In fact he said he has files of everything.

This is the same person that will say he doesn’t keep malice and he’s friendly. I laugh.

So far I no kill person, and no be sex tape, I no see am face to face, heaven no go fall. He can’t threatened me again, I’ve moved on.

Skullano:
Really?.

You have not seen him face to face but he said you have been insulting and giving him bills so how come all this happened when both of you have never seen face to face?.

That was back 2019, he assisted me of his own free will whenever I made a request. We both fell out of the friendship and he came to plead that we should leave things at the past . He said I broke-shamed and he said lots of things and almost wanted to bring the matter here, him and his friends but I didn’t indulge him and I began avoiding him. I even said ok, oya let me pay you your money (the money is not even up to 100k if I can calculate well, random money) I offered to pay so I can have peace but he refused. He wants to be my friend but I said no cos of too much bad blood, that is the problem o.

Skullano:
Wonderfullllll
Bros, so you know the Op in person..

No be small thing una dey do for this compound ooh

He hasn’t seen me face to face please. Na WhatsApp we do end. He’s the only person I’ve known offline nairaland . And he would be my last . I no get body for wahala.

If I should calculate right my money in my account was 260k, not even 200k.. Money I have kept to flex myself for my hard work o, not even my business money.

Your ego is too big. Reduce it so that you will live long. Goodbye .

I888:
And you are not yet willing to change... are you not the same one planning to buy a 400k phone that I even tried to advise you that it is not the best even when you know your salary cant afford it? And there is a high possibility that it was what you wanted the money from me for which I declined because your desperation was very glaring.

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About the phone I’ve bought it. At the time we were speaking I got 200k in my account, the rest of my business money I put it in my cooperative meeting . Why y don’t you tell them that you asked me for my budget of the phone and I said 200k and you said I have to up the money a bit cos you wanted to add money to get me the so called 400k phone you want to yab your mouth about but I refused and told you I would gather it myself . Then you said you don’t like iPhones and bla bla bla .

No Dey form hard man. You are a confused person. Remove my matter from your mouth .

I’ve grown like I told you, in everything. If you see me now you won’t believe it’s me.

Same you that was advising me to take it easy with work I shouldn’t kill myself when you sent me a birthday wish and I didn’t reply cos I was at work.

Pls get out. You’re so irritating. Thank God I blocked you out of my life. Fake human being like you.

The broke shame really pain you. At least it brought out the beast you have disguised as friendly

If you see messages upon messages this guy left me on WhatsApp eh. Everyone got beast inside them o, but your own is a sheer contrast to the good guy you were trying to make me believe. Omo, e too bad!

And I can’t live with such a person as you.
Woman can’t be talking long and man too dey talk long talk. House go be like mad people house .

I888:
You are not remorseful of what you said. You just screaming because I have chosen to hit you fire for fire. If I upload all the nonsense you said to me, men here will only blame me because I actually acted like an idiot by trying to be cool.

why don't you tell them that there were cases where I was literally begging you that it is enough. Like the one where we had issues, I apologized that it was enough but you wouldn't stop. You saw my pleading and suing for peace as a weakness... 3 DAYS after that incident, you attacked me again on WhatsApp.. as in 3 days after I had forgotten about it what happened and decided to stay away... you attacked me.

You attacked me because you saw my quietness as weakness, you saw it as a mean to bully me. From 4 pm to 9 pm you kept sending messages... and not once did I say a word on that day. I was just saving everything you said. The next day you used your WhatsApp status to attack me. I didn't say anything and all I did was screenshot everything and saved it.

The day you try to broke shame me was the day you crossed a line.

But same you are here screaming "leave me alone" cos you never imagined that a guy who was once cool could be this mad. This is a lesson to you so that next time you don't take a man's gentility for granted or interpret it as a weakness and have the boldness to insult him.

The weirdest thing is you go about this attitude, not because you have anything that a man can benefit from but just because you have asss boobs and pusssyyy...

How far with the stuff you broke shame me for? where is it? how is it going?

And you are not yet willing to change... are you not the same one planning to buy a 400k phone that I even tried to advise you that it is not the best even when you know your salary cant afford it? And there is a high possibility that it was what you wanted the money from me for which I declined because your desperation was very glaring.

You are uploading pics but you didn't upload one where you called me a fat pig I have never been fat to the point of looking like a pig. I was extremely skinny for most of my life. just small weight WEY I add, you thought it was ideal to use it to body-shame me. lol.. of course, I told you I have shed it off but the sad reality is that there is nothing you can do to increase your height! NOTHING!

Goodluck!

You talk too much. Tell them too how you called me names and shamed me that I have no value economically , that I only have ass and boobs cos I’m fine that I feel I’m something. Thank God my business is going well and I’m working out to be more physically fit cos mentally I’ve advanced.

Stop being a victim. The ego you want to carry, it’s too big for your body. You have told me you have anger issues and impatient with things and I see them clearly now.

Moreover I asked to pay you back the money and you refused and said let past be past. I own nothing against you cos I’ve moved on, you’re not my type . Kindly stop with your disturbance. I no kill person .

Goodluck to you too!

Salt06:
It's not easy for him too to be in that position where he wants a relationship and you don't and he remains there as a friend. Try to understand with him, it is emotionally tasking. If your mind is made up about not wanting a relationship then give it time, You'd gradually get over him.

Thanks so much . I appreciate your comment . I’ve heard , when he comes home we will talk about everything.

I want peace o. I no kill person .
Leave me alone .

You guys can see what I am dealing with . I’m so tired .

He sent me messages on sms too concerning my bestie. Yesterday he was ranting on nairaland that He can comment anywhere , my father didn’t own nairaland.

Is it his father who owns my phone too that he sent me messages about what I didn’t ask him for ? I haven’t spoken to him since last year and I’ve blocked his many numbers he uses to disturb my life .

Shey una dey see? Tell him to leave me alone .

And keep my best friend out of your mouth cos that nigga I will never trade him for Gucci.
Keep your advice to yourself about him. Jealousy won’t let you rest .

You commented on text and on nairaland cos of him. Nairaland no reach you, you still carry the matter enter sms. Who asked for your freaking advice in my sms? Abi Na your papa buy me phone ?

Sorry for the blur pictures . Phone was too close to the camera .

Stop lying and twisting things. This is what you have wanted to do since 2019 , to bring the matter here but I’ve avoided you. This is 2021. You can as well defame me to get them off your chest .

Nothing is new under the sun and no matter what, people will forget and move on. I no kill person .

Leave I and my mom alone.

I888:
You know I still have screenshot of those things you said right? You know I kept them right? AND the one you uploaded now is me referencing where you broke shame me, not the picture you are trying to paint. yes, it was hurtful cos I never believe someone I drew close to could you use such on my person....

And you said those words because I couldn't send money for what you requested for and another guy did it. But it is the same person you broke shame that you wrote long epistle in your bid to get something from him. I declined because I didn't want money to cause a problem between us. I remember also telling you that I can't even add to the long debt that people are owing me.

My friend get out.

Is that your ego that will kill you. Oga leave me alone this year I beg you. I no follow you buy market . Upon all you said, you are still begging me to talk to you. Obsession is real.

Since I’ve moved on to better things, psychologically and mentally, physically and spiritually my life is going forward . If you wanna die in the past ,, kindly do so. My business is moving well, I’ve achieved a lot by God’s grace .

You have said let the past be the past but you have not let me rest .
Whatever you think I may have done to you I’m sorry and I forgive you too for whatever bad you have said to me.

But pls leave me alone, I’ve moved on to better reasonings and things . Stop stalking me cos I rejected your proposals .

Tell him to leave me alone .

He has said all bad about me (that’s his own problem)

What does he not understand that I don’t want his friendship or so called friendliness? Cos he’s far from what he talks here. He can keep things in mind for Africa and later tell you he is friendly.

Note all messages he sent me , he sent this year .

I just want him out of my phone and way. He can say bad about me , that’s ok.
If I was so bad as he said he won’t be calling and texting me and my mom. Kindly beg him to leave me alone. I want peace .

I’ve deleted his number , I’ve removed him from my mind . He can paints a picture of me he likes , no problem. But I don’t want him anymore as he stalks me. Upon all the bad things he has said about me, he still wanna keep touch .

Why won’t he leave me alone ? This was this year o, he sent the messages this year, I haven’t spoken to him since I blocked him last year . Note I have blocked him from all angle . But he still have my number .

He said he didn’t say a word and I poured abuses on him , see when he said and confessed he said awful things . Reason I made up my mind not to be his friend anymore . If he said I am bad or defames me, I just want him to leave me alone

Despite everything he said I was . I wanted peace and broke ties with him so he can leave me alone cos he talks too much and he’s toxic . He follows me everywhere, on Nairaland and basically stalks me . I deleted his number and all why does he still talks about me till now?

He basically harasses me.
Despite all he said I am and how bad I am, why does he still text he wants to talk to me?

I888:
One: you are rude.

Two: you think being a gentleman is weakness which was why you would attack me for days without be saying anything hurtful in return.

Now unleashed a side of me that you never knew existed, and you called me vindictive.

Three: you love to rate a man based on money in his bank.

Four: you insult men who ask u out and ridicule them behind their back. Hope know you the guy whose picture you sent to me as a bid to inflate your fragile ego. You ridiculed him and his only crime was asking you out. His greatest mistake.

Five: You are a hypocrite. You can't take what you do to others. You forgot u told me that you uploaded pic of a guy cos of me cos u wanted to get at me. And when I did same to you with a girl who is far ahead of you in all ramifications , you went berserk lol. I had to show you your receipt to point out your hypocrisy. Cos u didn't know I kept receipts of all the rubbish u said to me.


No b only you dey mad. Some of us dey keep our own for cooler.

I never knew you are a big liar . Me went berserk for who? And when have I ever told you that I uploaded a pic of a guy cos of you? Abeg wenti Dey your body wey I go jealous reach to post a guy cos of you?

Or it was the other way round , you always feel jealous whenever a guy appears on my status , looking at it now , the reason you went to upload the girl on your dp, someone I don’t bloody care about was to make me feel bad but unfortunately I never cared cos I never liked you.

You went to draw my attention to the girls picture and I told you I have no business concerning who is on your dp or not .

You’re suck a freaking liar . See I just want you out of my life . Stop lying .
See who said he didn’t say a word confessing he actually did.

I did this , I did that . But you still stalking.

It’s me driving you away from my life but you want to enter by all means . You keep calling and texting me stupid messages. Then you will come nairaland to form hard guy.

I don’t want a relationship with you, leave me alone ! Gosh! Let me have peace ! Stop calling my mom and asking of her. My mom was in the hospital last year and he kept calling her and texting , she had to call me to complained he was bothering her with calls and she couldn’t sleep.

This is the one that is now here on nairaland saying I begged him money. You and your money I have rejected but won’t let me have peace .

I even offered to pay him back his money but he refused, and pleaded he just wanted to talk to me that I should let everything stay in the past . You feel he is friendly, but Na lie. I’ve never seen anyone who takes things to heart like him.

You’re toxic and you keep malice and you want a fight which I’ve avoid since 2019.

I broke shame you , why still calling and begging me to talk to you? Simp wey Dey from hard man for nairaland. If I should expose the text you sent me, all the men here will call you a simp.

I’ve never seen a confused person in my life. The rejection really pained you.

Leave me alone ! You’re not the first person to be rejected in this life .

I888:
Okay, when I made that call, did I ask you out again? Like we had quarrel and I came back to ask you out again? Am I mad?

What rejection? I keep harping in where I have a problem with u but you are trying divert attention.

How do you go about broke shaming someone that you are nowhere near financially?just how? And you still wanted to him to give you after doing that?

Why did you persist after he rejected the request and this went on for like 3 days until he told you he can't give to someone that broke shame him, which made you angry and you resorted to calling him vindictive.

You asked first, he rejected.

You asked again, he declined and he told you that money has caused problem which he doesn't want to repeat itself and you got angry...

I am not someone that keeps malice with people for long. I guess your interpretation is that I am trying to ask u out again.

Wrong!

God forbid I will repeat that mistake. God forbid I will want to have anything with any girl from your kind of life background. Cos Na una no get but Na una dey yab men pass.

Rubbish

The boldness though.

All this your plenty post Na for government o. I said I don’t want you anymore , keep your so called friendliness to yourself.

Hope you guys can see he’s the one calling despite I’ve told him to leave me alone ? If you feel someone is after your money , do you call them and call their mother too?

What sort of friendliness is this ? I said I don’t want to be a friend , leave me alone .
The financial aspect isn’t on it cos if you feel a girl is after your money, then you won’t be stalking her. Period !

I888:
what obsession? Your post made front page, and I clicked to read and only to find out it was you. I commented like everyone else but you chose to be an idiot and insult me. I I already made it clear that I won't ever tolerate your insults anymore.

The day you tried to broke shame me was the day you cross the line. You insulted me for months, while I kept my cool.

You are mad!

You see where he’s calling me mad ? This is the same person who will now come and lie he didn’t say a word .

Leave me alone abeg. I’m not the only girl who has rejected you.

I888:
Whoever sees this now will think I am begging you to date me. But you just want to lie.

You called me toxic when you are the toxic one until I decided to give you back in your own coin.

You are begging. And yes you want to die . Show them the text you sent me begging me to talk to you. Stop forming hard man. I don’t need your so called friendship and friendliness. Na by force ? Stop calling and text , I don’t need it .

I888:
No... stop the lies.

Yes I called, not to ask for anything but to keep a friend lines. Nothing more and there is nothing wrong about that.

Until you made a financial request which I gently declined and you kept pestering and pushing me. I told you how do you broke shame someone and still want them to lend you? Does it make sense?

You persisted cos in your mind, this guy is still a mumu and as such, you wanted to obtain from him cos u thought he still has that likeness that could be used to get things from him.

You didn't like the fact that I reminded you of your crime, you flared up and called me "vindictive"

Calling someone "vindictive" is an admittance that you did something wrong and they chose to revenge.

There is nothing wrong about asking but when you make it look like the other person is stupid, then there is a problem.

See eh, forget the financial aspect . We both know the reason for your pain was cos I rejected you. Despite the so called financial stuff you keep talking about , I kept rejecting you.

People of nairaland help me to ask him this question..

He said I requested financial help, why does he keep calling and stalking me despite I’ve warned him severally to leave me alone ?

Do you beg a girl who you feel she is after your money to keep in touch with you? To the extent you call her mother without requesting for your calls?

You see his pain? It was the rejections.

Despite it all, I’ve said ok!! I don’t want to be friends with you. Why can’t he leave me alone ?