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If there's any sort of abuse or violence in the relationship, that's when unconditional love can cease to be a good thing.
“Love of self is as important as love of your neighbor,” Post continues. “Unconditional love can be healthy, but this does not imply tolerating hurtful behaviors.
No one should ever be a doormat because it teaches others treating people that way is okay when it’s not.

The trouble with this argument, however, is that marriage is not unconditional. When you married your spouse, you promised to love each other in the face of circumstances beyond your control. The expectation is that the two of you will do everything in your control to make your marriage work.

I saw a tiktok video about rainbow as a symbol of God's promise after He destroyed earth with rain and storm.
But LGBT community choose it as their identity.
Video source


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7022655241669627142/
And the comments got on the video got me thinking:

@trapkatakuri:I miss the time when rainbow's were just rainbow's

@football_editz_and_clipz:Remember when we were younger we used to colour everything rainbow � because we thought it was cool but now we if we do it we get called gay�

@chopper_d_uzamaki:I can’t make anything rainbow without people calling it or me gay anymore.�

@almightyprime:We must take back our rainbow

@tea.slurper.kermit:Fr bro, why they have to ruin everything

@vallonator:Apparently everything rainbow is gay now. I got a rainbow ice cream and my step sister called me gay ☹️

@iaintthatmfdumb:Right? Like they ruined it

@katietdm_:The gods promise � and lgbt rainbow �️‍� have a similar amount of colours but gods promise has more colours

@petsey:Man's bouta get cancelled by the people with negative braincells �

@user48vm2ldgbv:i’m gay and thought this was funny yall sensitive�

@bangyoutube82:people who disagree get no girls, literally

@xx_mommysboy_xx:Which is why they should change it , I find it ironic they use such a color pattern , made by god , who treats homosexuality and other stuff as sins

@xo.ayah.xo:now i get called gay when i say i like raimbow.

1�. we Ghost As A Way To end things

When we're No longer interested we don't need To tell them---we simply stop responding. If someone did this to us in real life it could be completely psychotic,But Because it's On a Text or a Message,we Have somehow Convinced our self that it is OK. Note: it's Totally Not Even In the Golden ages Letter of "Dear John" was left on a table of foyer But now we r lucky if U even get a Typed Line of Words saying "I am sorry, It isn't working."

2�.we r In a Competition Of who can care the Least?

Showing actual emotion is frowned upon. If we show our card & act like we're Interested,it leaves the Person we r Affectionate About Turned Off & Running in the Opposite Direction instead of Being Amazed We Give a Crap about them. There's a Little Gratitude For Honest & Happy Emotions�.

3�.we r Hypered Focused On sex

Sex Is Scarily available---we Can Hv it simply with a swipe of finger. There's zero effort made into getting to know someone for who they truly are unless we're willing to UnCloth & show the most sacred parts of our selves first.& Most of the time sex doesn't lead to relationship--it leads to heartache, confusion &another night Stand with Next person

4�.we expect a Perfection That doesn't exist

Social media & thousands of Dating Profiles shoved in our faces leads us to believe we r entitled fairy tale life that doesn't truly exist. We write people off for a Minor Detail & quickly Look for the next Best thing that we'll somehow find flaws in. Nothing is Good enough for us (new Generation).
We fail to realize that R/ships are a balanced & that with the amazing things come imperfections as well.

5�.we've Become Content With Being alone

While we've Been navigating The Journey To Find Love, we've consequently Committed our lives & made them into stn that is happy & rewarding with out someone to love,which means it's that much hard to invite R/ship in to our lives. We r fine on our own,so we won't leave our comfort zone for anyone�.

6�.we don't feel accountable For the Pain we inflict on to others.

When we've hurt someone's feelings�. we don't feel even the slightest bit inclined to apologize or to make good on our wrongs. It's not our problems--it's theirs. A person's emotion even if caused by stn we did or said, is up to them to resolve�.

7�.we r Too Strategic To Our Responses

Responding right away comes across as Desperate & too available�. It's amazing how we view the Luxury of having Instant access to communication as stn we need to treat as if we're still using carrier pigeons. Instant messaging is just that -- instant--but we still withhold with our response times to try & show just how busy, important, & unattached we r.

Please read this story!
�There Was a Brilliant Boy. he always scored 100% in science. Got selected for IIT madras & scored excellent in IIT. Went to the university of californiya for MBA. Got a high paying job in America & Settled there. Married a Beautiful Oda Girl. Bought a 5 room hig house & luxury cars he had everything that make him successful But few years ago he committed sucide after shooting his wife & children�.

*What went wrong?*

Californiya psychology institute studied his case & found what went wrong.
The researcher met The boy's friends & family & found that he lost his job due to America's economic crisis & he had to sit without a job fo' along time. After even reducing his previous salary amount, he didn't get a job. Then, his house installement broke & he & his family lost their home. They survived few months with less money & then he & his wife together decide to commit sucide�. He 1st shot his wife & children, then he shot hims self.

The case concluded the man was programmed for success but he wasn't trained for handling failures.

Now let's come to actual question what are the habits of highly successful people?
1st of all there are many people who will tell u about success habits but today i want to tell u that even if u have achieverd everything,yet there's a chance to lose everything,nobody knows when the next economic crisis will hit. The best habit of success is getting trained of handling failures.

�I also request every parent, please not only program ur child to be successful but teach them how to handle failures & also teach them proper lessons of life. Level science & maths knowledge will help them to clear competetive exams but a knowledge about life will help them to face every problem. Teach them "how money works" instead of teaching them "to work for money." Help them in finding their passion bcoz This degree won't help them in the next economic crisis n failure.

�Success is a lousy teacher. Failure teaches u more

�When a man has a good car, it attracts more ladies to him.�‍� when a lady has a good car it repels guys from her.
This the world we live in.

�When a teenage boy impregnates his teenage girlfriend The girl dropout from the school and the Boy keep his education.
This the world we live in

�when a guy catches his girlfriend with other person He fights his girlfriend.�‍�when a woman catches her guy with other lady. She fights with the other lady.this the world we live in..

�A76 years old man Can marry a 26 yearsLady.�‍�A 36 years old laddy is tagged as too old to get married
This the world we live in

�A man looses his wife to death and #Remarries after 1 year,he did the right thing, he's being raised and praised and congratulated for moving on..after all: life is for the living..�‍�when a woman looses her husband to death and remaries after 4yeaRs, "Ahh,so early?are u sure she wasn't sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband..this the world we in.

�when a married man is caught with another woman in bed his wife is asked to forgive him and move on..�‍�when a married girl caught with another man..his Husband tells her to leave the house.
This is the world we live in

�when a man gets transferred by his company to another state, all the family relocates with him.�‍� when a girl transferred by her company to another state she goes alone or resigns from the Job.

�So do u think this world is fair for Both genders

Here's the video link

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7005571451629669637/

[b]This information shouldn't be hidden or a big surprise, but also you got to think they don't teach us these things in sex dore in school when we're in school and sex education.

So why do you think they want to keep this information hidden from us?

Well, first, every woman that sleeps when a man, no matter who they are, they've literally become like them, become one in flesh. It's because it's a sacred thing to do with somebody, and that's why it's very important to stay sacred to yourself until you are ready to be married and committed, because that's a commitment, that is marriage and it's a very powerful thing, and that's why we have things called soul ties and soulbonds.

And it's not a joke. The sperm cells also travel up to the woman's brain, and then that's how she starts to think like him, even breathe like him. Literally, like you become one with this man, with every man and whatever whoever your mom slept within the past is, you get your personality from too. So if your mom slept with, multiple men, have multiple baby fathers, she, you have the personality of the past. Me in the past that she slept with, and women absorb things because we receive and what men give.

That's why you want to be very, very, very sacred, with even what you eat, which you breathe when you're around, because you literally become, you receive and what you choose, or maybe not even choose, to absorb. Women who have multiple men's diana inside of them also as well, become crazy because they have so many different personalities and imprints on them, so many different breeds inside of them. So I says, to simplify this is that it means that a woman will become an imagination of every man with whom she has sexual intercourse. A woman will begin to develop the traits and characteristics, both physically and mentality, of the man who has ejaculated inside of her, then passes these imprints on to her children. This damaging form of microtheoris results from the flow of genetic material that is carried by man sperm.

After ejaculation, during sectional intercourse, sperm breaks the blood barrier of the uterus and it goes up to the brain, where it finds its way into the nucleus of the neutrons. I'm sorry, neurons, says. The neurons are subject to the process known as genetic recombination, in which the cells are forever altered in favour of the genetic material being carried by the term, which means it cannot be changed. For this reason, a man shall forever leave both his father and his mother and forever to be joined by his wife, and two become one.[/b]