1�. we Ghost As A Way To end things

When we're No longer interested we don't need To tell them---we simply stop responding. If someone did this to us in real life it could be completely psychotic,But Because it's On a Text or a Message,we Have somehow Convinced our self that it is OK. Note: it's Totally Not Even In the Golden ages Letter of "Dear John" was left on a table of foyer But now we r lucky if U even get a Typed Line of Words saying "I am sorry, It isn't working."

2�.we r In a Competition Of who can care the Least?

Showing actual emotion is frowned upon. If we show our card & act like we're Interested,it leaves the Person we r Affectionate About Turned Off & Running in the Opposite Direction instead of Being Amazed We Give a Crap about them. There's a Little Gratitude For Honest & Happy Emotions�.

3�.we r Hypered Focused On sex

Sex Is Scarily available---we Can Hv it simply with a swipe of finger. There's zero effort made into getting to know someone for who they truly are unless we're willing to UnCloth & show the most sacred parts of our selves first.& Most of the time sex doesn't lead to relationship--it leads to heartache, confusion &another night Stand with Next person

4�.we expect a Perfection That doesn't exist

Social media & thousands of Dating Profiles shoved in our faces leads us to believe we r entitled fairy tale life that doesn't truly exist. We write people off for a Minor Detail & quickly Look for the next Best thing that we'll somehow find flaws in. Nothing is Good enough for us (new Generation).
We fail to realize that R/ships are a balanced & that with the amazing things come imperfections as well.

5�.we've Become Content With Being alone

While we've Been navigating The Journey To Find Love, we've consequently Committed our lives & made them into stn that is happy & rewarding with out someone to love,which means it's that much hard to invite R/ship in to our lives. We r fine on our own,so we won't leave our comfort zone for anyone�.

6�.we don't feel accountable For the Pain we inflict on to others.

When we've hurt someone's feelings�. we don't feel even the slightest bit inclined to apologize or to make good on our wrongs. It's not our problems--it's theirs. A person's emotion even if caused by stn we did or said, is up to them to resolve�.

7�.we r Too Strategic To Our Responses

Responding right away comes across as Desperate & too available�. It's amazing how we view the Luxury of having Instant access to communication as stn we need to treat as if we're still using carrier pigeons. Instant messaging is just that -- instant--but we still withhold with our response times to try & show just how busy, important, & unattached we r.

You just have to adapt with the times. Things are different now and they'll never be the same again.

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