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anointedlinks:
When a large demographic of men see attractive women, they unconsciously want to lunge at her and are sexually charged at that moment.

This is a natural biological phenomenon but must be tempered or balanced with the use of the logical side of a man's brain

Women naturally are able to analyze the situation for more important things first, before thinking of physical attraction.

As men, practicing doing the same will go a long way in making our world a better place and reducing negative social vices such as unwanted pregnancy, forced marriages, and gender wars.

How this works is by humanizing the situation and the person in front of you.

While some women intentionally expose body parts seductively, others are simply going about their normal human lives daily.

At first sight of a woman, a man should consider multiple factors aside from his physical attraction towards her that could prevent her from being receptive to him;

- She may be in a relationship and not be looking for another man

- She may not be attracted to you

- She may be on her monthly cycle at that time and so romance is not on her mind

- She may be in discomfort from menstrual cramps

- She may be scared of men due to a past traumatic event such as molestation

- She may be stressed because of the weather or a bad event at the office

- She may not be a good fit for you in terms of the difference in type of personality you and her have

- She may be very immature and still be in her unserious stage of life

Most men would counter the above points by mentioning that having money fixes all these...

This is true, but not for the reason most believe.

Rather, this is so because of what a man having money represents.

To a woman, this more often than not, represents that you are in control of the direction your life is going and know how to fend for yourself and can support a family if she has kids with you.

These are reasonable considerations for any sensible person and a good measure of one aspect of a person's ability to navigate life adequately.

For the reasonable ladies, the source of the man's wealth is important in that, for all they know, you could be a criminal and that would represent risk and danger to survival of a family should you be arrested or killed.

Also realise that everyone is an opportunist in one way or the other. Looking for the best deal in life for themselves: men and women alike.


This is why instead of being alert on the hunt for romance when going through your day as a man, it is better to be busy in purpose living your life. If not it is gold diggers one may attract.

Purpose is any activity geared towards making the world a better place.

That is when good things happen organically.. naturally.

Also realise that bringing another person into your life,even as a girlfriend, involves responsibility (time, money, calls, visits etc.)

If she looks very flashy, while you cannot conclude entirely without interacting with her, there may be a tendency that she expects men to react in awe to her looks.

Remember that;

- She also uses the toilet like every normal human being.

- She may not have an ideal character even though she is very pretty

- She could be very ill-mannered, arrogant and or violent

Your first priority should not be how to woo or sleep with her, but to have a conversation with her to get a feel for the type of person she is.

- She may have multiple partners and be an STD risk

- She may be brainwashed by social media to hate men

The opposite of all the above could be true as well, she could be the most amazing lady.

It is a man's job to see past the physical for intangible traits before engaging in that realm.

All this is not easy to take into consideration in the moment as biological drive put in a man by God is very strong in youth to ensure survival of the human race through reproduction.

This is why it is best to use your productive years to succeed quickly (learn how to earn an income and start earning) so that you can settle down and quench these urges safely and legally in a marriage relationship.

The tragedy is when these urges are quenched outside of committed relationships and unwanted children are born or terminated through abortion.

Everything said in this article is subject to a man having a source of income to begin with.

If you aren't working in some form or the other, stay away from eating (romance) for your own good and that of other people.

What have your experiences been like?...

As a man, how do you handle your urges?

As a woman, how do men look at or approach you and how do the different ones make you feel?

Feel free to throw in your 2 cents in the comments section

All this long epistle is just a waste of time

You do know you are trying to reason/communicate with goats

Men can never control their sexual urge they were cursed with it...

Bloody rapist

Please send met that your cousin's number .. iwanna tell him something

While you are telling the whole world what is happening in your family



Life

whitestar01:
wetin carry you go where men dey massage? Despite how much you claimed to have hated men, you need them more than they need you.

Y'all don't get it


Ilove to see men work for me.. tell em jump and they ask mamana yaya girman?

illicit:
Pics or I don't believe it

What do you need the pictures for...


The shameless man's picture is enough

Females get wahala Sha thank God she scaled through..

The masseurs should be arrested

That was how one nearly press me to death at a very popular spa around lokogoma all in the name of massage


Wicked gender

LaSenior:


There is this building in my side I have predicted that building to collapse because of the quack work done there , any building that I predicted it collapse always collapse

That house will definitely fail integrity test

Idont know what response to give to this your comment

But then why not report that building to the right authorities or is it until it takes a life

Sorry bout your mum bax

Women are gifts to this world.. this earth would have gone to the dogs if it were just men on it


Everyday Idream of a world where it will only be women

Miracood2:
Gawd!

You bout to beg here too

Please note he a gambler

He would gamble your money away

Nairalander248:
I just dey see you everywhere, you are out to frustrate this guy

We all know Samueltemi337 is a notorious relentless unrepentant beggar and gambler who who would do anything just to get money cos of his addiction(s)


Iam not here to frustrate him ijust want a change for a bro..

So this is more of a sister love to a brother is doomed

SUFFERInSMILIIN:
I thought it was a monthly thing. Is it before periods or after. Because most Nigerian women have their periods at the same time mostly at the end of the month to the first week of a new month

No it is seasonal like the weather


During dry season you can catch us in heat period


So it is once in a year thing


Wasted gender

During dry season

The word heat should have given you the clue 🤣😂

Wasted gender

He should be arrested and detained fot life... So blacks ain't human beings ko

Samueltemi337 the notorious relentless unrepentant beggar you see what I told you bout this man the other day

Y'all that have issues against the Muslims

chigoziri2403:
What's the racism there?

Try to read the write-up slowly

Thank God no live was lost

Samueltemi337 the notorious relentless unrepentant beggar what do you have to say

Rip to her

Samueltemi337

Was this why you resorted to begging..

The Unrepentant gambler