Great leaders believe in the medical system of their own country. If the system is not good enough, they invest in it and make it work. They don't run out to access better medicare in another country and leave millions of the other citizens they govern to be stuck with a rotting medical system. It is the same with education. They believe in their country's educational system. If the system is not up to standard, they invest in it. That is what great leaders do. Sycophants please note. Learn to differentiate between great leaders like Mandela and the other pretenders. Thank you.

Traditional rulers in the South-West, Kogi and Kwara states have called for the immediate release of the aides of the Yoruba activist, Mr Sunday Adeyemo (aka Sunday Igboho), who were arrested by operatives of the Department of State Services during a raid on his Ibadan residence.

The monarchs, under the aegis of Forum of the Yoruba Obas, also demanded compensation for the families of those killed during the raid.

The DSS had on July 1 raided Igboho’s residence in Ibadan, Oyo State, arrested 13 of his aides, and killed two others.

While parading 12 of the activist’s followers, the security agency had said it acted on an intelligence report, adding that seven AK-47 assault rifles, three pump-action guns, three charm jackets/traditional body armour, among other items, were recovered.

The incident happened hours before a rally by Yoruba Nation agitators in Ojota, Lagos.

But the traditional rulers in a statement titled, ‘The Position of the Forum of Yoruba Obas on the Recent Invasion of Sunday Adeyemo’s House by the Operatives of the DSS and the State of the Nation,’ described the invasion of Igboho’s home and killing of his aides as an infringement of their fundamental human rights.

The statement was signed by the President of the forum and Molokun of Atijere Kingdom, Ondo State, Oba Samuel Adeoye (Edema I); its General Secretary, Dr Abdulrasaq Abioye, Olukotun of Ikotun Ile, Kwara State; and 17 others.

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https://punchng.com/dss-raid-south-west-monarchs-demand-release-compensation-for-igbohos-aides/

generationz:
Lol, only God knows what she saw in that marriage. He is already linked to two baby mamas and two high class slay queens.

Sometimes, peace of mind is the best.

She’s a pretender , she will soon file for divorce, she’s only waiting for ighalo to make more money so the Alimony can be in million dollars

assamu1122:
Please post for me ASAP

My girlfriend of two years just informed me that she got pregnant with another man. That she has just done a test and it's positive. This is a woman I have gone to her family with my people and have collected and argued list. I have started buying marriage stuff on this list and now, this happened. I am confused.


What should I do please?

What should you do ?

Please Marry her with the pregnancy , at least she told you the truth na! That shows she would be a good wife material . 500 yards.

EfemenaXY:

I won't ask your wife to repay you evil-for-evil by making you have a drink of your own medicine, even though your unrepentant a$$ deserves just that and more. However, I would advice her to:

~ Check herself into the nearest ssexual health clinic and undergo a thorough screening for STDs/STIs and any other nasties you've probably exposed her to. I mean, it's okay for you to kill yourself if that's your desire, but your kids don't deserve to be made orphans because of your philandering ways. At the very least, they need their mother healthy - and not a dead mother sent to an early grave because of your insatiable greed.

~ There is absolutely no trust in that joke of a relationship you call marriage - from your end. You are a chronic player and a sneakily dangerous one. Madam should therefore start keeping some money aside for a rainy day for her and the kids, because believe me, that day will approach sooner, rather than later. She should start putting plans in place to build her own house in her name, and stash away some cash for her & the kids. For all she knows, you probably have a hoard of illegitimate bbastards and mistresses waiting patiently to reap where they never sowed.

I'm sure you probably beat your wife too. If not yet, you're quite close to doing so...and in all probability, you do so verbally (verbal abuse).

You already have an excuse for your current dirty ways and you blame her 100% for it, whilst shying from taking responsibility for your ffuck-ups.

Of course sex therapists are non-existent in Naija and a totally alien concept to your ilk.


May holy ghost fire blaze anyone or anything that would make any of our daughters come across (& heaven forbid, marry) your kind.

Amen.

Are you this stupid or you just make an extra effort today?

Kanwulia:

The Yingrish nor let me understand o.
The bad grammar was too distracting.
I gave up!

Miss/mrs elocutionist , your writting dexterity really show in your short words #lyche

QuiverBox:

You registered this Moniker today , to post about your family issue, why did you not post your issue with your original Moniker.

That shows insincerity on you part , we now give you advice with this Moniker while you go back to you original Moniker and cliam "Saint" on other People's Issues.

Be Man enough to Posts this with your original Moniker.

Go to see a Psychologist Or a Medical Doctor for your Problem.

No pretence intended here, I use to visit nairaland but never has it occur to me to make a registration and now I did ,because the need arose

dytbabe: If u love ur wife like u love ur ex, u won't have any problem giving it to her like u give ur ex
Oniranu now wants to justify his reasons
Ashawo oloko kekere

Don't judge me, even if am bad , you might be worse , who knows? Pressing back buton will not do you any harm if you can't contribute constructively on the subject matter

Tundeiab: THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN 2 BABIES GET MARRIED

You get it wrong here, who told you this issue is as a result of early marriage? As young as both of us are , we have fused together as one, we have never had rift from morning till night, I have never for once regret getting married this early, perharps I married an educated and very understanding wife, we couldnt have managed our affairs better if we are older than this, age is just a number my brother ,grow up!!!!

MenGoingThereWay: Man just relax..its normal for some men to have erections with there mistresses and then when it comes to there wife they don't have that erection..Its a mind thing..That can be resolved.

- If there is any tension btw u and ur wife I will advice u address it.

- Is u kind of work stressful mentally or physically or do u over work urself Find ways to manage stress and keep ur mind free from stress before every action.

- Does ur wife touch u or do those things ur mistresses do that turn u on? If not then tell ur wife and teach her how u like it done.

- Reduce ur self servicing

- Love ur wife MORE.

- Exercise and eat right.

It could be spiritual too probably one of ur mistresses jinxed her pu.na.ni..so that ur erections won't come on for ur wife..U know how desperate these mistresses can be..muahahahahha..Booh.

Reduce the number of mistresses and if possible stop having them because soon u will notice u won't be having erections for them just like ur not having for ur wife and then u will have to go for new mistresses..Its a thing with men when we get use to it we are likely to go looking for a new one..That's why I will emphasis u love ur Wife More, focus all ur attention on making ur wife happy.

-MenGoingThereWay

I so much appreciate this workable solution ,thanks so much

Dolcilicious: Why do i feel its a spiritual problem?

Btw...is ur wife still as beautiful as b4?does she take care of her self d way she used to?In ur own view,is she still appealing to u?...if yes

Have u tried ale,afato or viagra?or v u treated ur self herbally?

My wife is more beautiful than before, she is still her elegant and charming self, with a good and very tempting physique, if there is any changes at all,it's her slightly protruding belly which is normal after child birth, as our second child is just 4 month old, as for the herbal concortion, I do take it, I don't think I have problem at all cos I have check and observed my self so well, the problem now I do not know, so also I dnt want to believe it's spiritual,I will try and explore all likely solutions prescribed here, thanks so much

ITbomb: It is about time to reignite the drowning passion, make time to go to romantic places together, cinema, gardens, bar and clubs.
And stop those outside runz

Thanks, I will give this a trial

lecturerdabo: it is nothing short of familiarity! stay calm, communicate the problem wt her and also spend more time with her as much as possible both indoors n outdoors. Make sure she is taking care of her appearance.



BE FAITHFUL TO HER AND MINIMIZE UR SELF SERVICING

in fairness to my wife,In term of dressing, she's second to none, she have a very good sense of dressing,I don't think someone can do more

Odilafta: Don't

blame little John for it refusal to stand at attention before your
wife,it's a thing of the mind..Start all over again and bring your mind
back home because it has obviously been occupied with images of
"hip-swaying,butt-shaking moves" that you get from your ex's and that your wife isn't offering you..

Stop testing it potency outside and start teaching your wife how to rock you.

Thanks, I will take a good measure of stopping the vice

zeb04: Discuss with your wife and let her know all the extra marital affairs you've been having outside is starting to have an effect on you psychologically and that's why your Jt is refusing to rise.......reason is,

1)She would know she is not to blame
2) she can find away of getting her own satisfaction .

Thanks , but I am not sure she can handle this truth divulgence

Good morning forumites, I do not know whether this is the right section to post this ,pardon me if however I'm posting on the wrong place. The is an issue of huge pertinence to me.

I am a young family man in my late 20s, I married a beautiful wife whose her age is 2yrs lesser than mine, we married 4yrs ago and have 2 beautiful kids between us now.
Initially we didn't leave together,because, my work made me a frequent traveller but I make sure I visit home every 2weeks, during this time ,true to be told, I have many girlfriends and sexually I am a very active man, (even she do complained of been too strong on bed)but not long ago, I decided to stop womanizing ,to which I drastically reduced ,but It didn't just reduced but with a price, I do self service most times ,(something I do regeret each time it's done), to stop all these, I resolve to bring my family closer, now we leave together, I must confess my wife dont really like sex, but she cherished maximum satisfaction each time we engaged in the act, but in a recent time , I discovered my body system don't really get arose each time she make a move towards me, after all the fore-plays, my JT would not even move an inch, Initially ,I tot it's not that a problem, thinking it might be my mood at that particular time, I work on my mood and make sure am in good state of mind before attempting again, but the problem persist,even if my JT Rise before, it will go down upon moving towards her, then I realized it's a problem , recently , I met an ex-girlfriend and make a move towards her, infact ,my performance was nothing short of excellence , I tried this thing thrice, and I did as normal than expected, as wrong as this might be or appear, I did it to confirm if I have problem concerning my sex life, to which I discorverd not having any,back to my wife , the problem keep persisting, she herself has not been helping the matter ,it's as if she's looking for my flop, eachtime she made a little pre-intimacy and I dont get moved, she will just start complaning that have done something outside,even when I don't do anything at all, she don't put any extra effort, she might even not talk to me through out the whole day, forumite, please help, what can I do? What could be going through her mind? I love my wife and can not afford to loose her, constructive advice please