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Ladies please I need answers to these questions.

So a lady likes a guy and sees him as husband material.
The guy has a decent job but still looking for something better.
Has a nice apartment but no car yet......

now he meets a lady who knows his condition as someone trying to save for marriage
and maintain a decent life for both of them.

Now this lady is working but doesn't earn much per say but she is found of making demands
that are eating into the guys savings.

now my question is.......
Does this lady really love this guy and wants whats best for them both......
Or she just wants to eat and eventually run to the next guy willing to give her what she wants....

I'm asking because I've heard and seen cases where ladies who want what is best for their man don't like asking him for things but would rather go meet someone else they aren't dating to ask for those little things.

So please in Nigeria today which is it

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boiz2men:
From the comments on the thread by females. It is safe to say women marry who is available and not who they love.


And some people will be worshipping women

It feels great to be male.

Very insightful thank God I opened this up for discussion here.
I have learned a lot guys.

Though I already suspected that was what she was doing, now I will make her my own PLAN D

ubunja:
Why must we comment when you've never bothered to comment on our posts?? Lmfao.

I do comment on your post but this is a new account

Please distinguished ladies of Nairaland this question is for you?

It's important that you give honest and candid answer because someones future happiness is at stake.

So here is a little background story, I joined this company and I've had the pleasure of working with a lovely lady who I have started having feelings for but I couldn't tell her because she has a boyfriend.

At some point in time this lady revels to me that she may probably leave this her BF because she can't wait for him forever to do the right thing (marriage). I saw this as an opportunity to tell her how I feel about her and she said she liked me too. Now she refers to me as the only one she knows, calling me honey pie and other sweet names in the office but I'm not comfortable yet with that because I know she is still with her BF.
So one day I decided to ask her if she is still with her BF and she said yes they are still together but in the office she acts like I'm her BF.
Most times when she starts calling me those sweet names I feel like telling her to stop it because I know she is still very much with her BF and probably just trying to use me and spoil other chances I may have with other ladies in the office.

So my question is this
Should I tell her to go focus on being with her guy and stop making me feel like we are dating when clearly we are not

Please you people should try and comment, this is an account I had to create for anonymity

ubunja zinny25 magnoliaa jessysparkles blackivy27 funmmyastic can you shed some light on this issue