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[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=580424.msg7474757#msg7474757 date=1294326372][color=#0055bb]The bible claims women came from man's rib (bull), if this is so and we are evil then our evilness is inherited str8 from the source [/color][/quote]Good theory.

@ MzDarkSkin

Right, and some say I am heartless and claim I didnt love him in the first place. Because we dont stay on the ground and grope in sorrow they believe you have no remorse when the man come begging and you are like "talk to the hands" LOL

I am and shall forever be a strong black woman, no matter what no one is saying. Trust me, I am not a fool to men again. I know them all too much by now. Mistakes I've made in the past I will make them no more.

Men dont give me the chance to love them at all. I dont see too much goodness around me at all. Its very very disappointing and sad.

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=580124.msg7474644#msg7474644 date=1294325361]Did I tell yall I got pet names for all of my assets by my husband? I am like da hell!

You men are obsessed![/quote]I couldnt stand that. I would seriously belive he's a pervert, and I really really really cant stand pervs.

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=580124.msg7474721#msg7474721 date=1294325978][color=#0055bb]A serious ting dat! Bwoy oh bwoy sum man cruel enuh?! It's like they've become insensitive to the feelings of women or something! It's pretty sad when you can't tell your man lubby dubby things for fear he might use it against you. It kinda makes me appreciative of being single whenever I am. It's always a power struggle with certain men. It's like love to them is an alien emotion! An mi wi tell dem bo dem parts an gi dem som ras words yusee! So to avoid the conflicts I just keep my feelings silent or atleast try to.[/color][/quote]I am enjoying being single for the past nuff nuff years LOL

When I decided to end my last relationship the man didnt belive I was serious to things I've told him in the past. But enough was damn enough. I couldnt take him playing on my emotions anymore. He believed because I had so much love for him and told him on many occasions that I couldnt  live without us being together, at that time I really didnt see a life without him, I loved him with my soul. Up to this day he still doesnt belive I really could leave.

It took a long time to get over him, but I knew I didnt want anymore of him so I just leave his lieing cheating azz and stayed single from then.

[quote author=Area_boy link=topic=579677.msg7466527#msg7466527 date=1294235121]i dont see why he cant forgive her so because he caught her eh?? do u realize that over 70% (or more? :O)of relationships have one form of infidelity or the other

if he really loved her, i'm sure they can work on it and move on.

my two cents [/quote]yeah. and 69.9% men are the cause.

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Good morning MzD

@ the L word, you are damn right about that. When men knows too much (the real truth) they play you and make it become your weakness.

None a dem naw hear shyt fraw mi agen, gone are the days when I used to spill my guts to a man, and what do I get in return? Nothing but hurt and more hurt. To hell with them, mi naw tell dem nutten, mi preffa fi mek it store up in mi and become bad calories. LOL

Serves you right. These kind of stories I find the time to read, no matter how long they are.

When someone turn you down they turn you down for a reason. You could have been one of those very disgusting ones. . . . . sick my stomach. As they would say on the Island a good!

alagha:
she is beautiful, humble,obedient loyal,e.t.c,above all she is a harlot, yet my friend wants her as wife.

If she's all that, how can she be going out selling her puci? Something doesnt add up here. Is he telling her to go out and exchange her body for cash?

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=580124.msg7474341#msg7474341 date=1294322735]Yeah and it hard trying to fight men off when you got the womanly assets. You men go crazy over that. I mean good Jesus!

I know I am not the only woman with womanly assets. I mean you should see the looks on his friends face every time I come around. I mean they always in a daze. So I try to stay away as much as I can. My husband thinks I don't like his friends. He just don't know.

The things women go through for our husbands.[/quote]I honor your decency and self worth, but how many husbands do you belive are doing that for their wives? Oh dont answer, NONE!

I dont want to hear anything from a man. What being with a man boils down to for me is just having a good time. Baby let's fu(k, thats it for me right now.

Naw.

go look for who smashed it, maybe they know where they "throw" the pieces, especially the little remnants.

Your husband, bf, wife or gf. Some things just will never or cant come out of my mouth to a partner.

My ex, I thought I couldnt live without him, and many times it came on the tip of my tongue to letting him know how I really feel about him at the time. But nope, I held it back.

I will never tell a man that I cant live without him.

I will never tell a man how much he means to me (never).

In my most recent encounter (dont know if I should even call this a relationship), I almost told the man I love him. LOL

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what a way yer heart delicate.

I C

I am a real person. Not a cyber fool. Most people on the internet are not them real selves. What most of them say (including myself) is not the truth. I am in a real world where real people are

I just come online to fok around.

Belive me, you think they do, but they dont. Different worlds. There are so many things that they dont understand or cant stand about each other LOL

as per the topic.

NEVER!!

It is sooooooo wrong.

God made all of us different so we can identify ourselves ethnically. It is us who "cross borders" and mix and mingle to get some people who dont even what race they belong to LOL

I belive that when people, for example a Nigerian and an American get together they totally DONT understand each other. I never dated anyone outside my race or Nationality. I want him to totally understand me, language and cultural barriers may cause problems, so I say "stick to your very own" and everything will be alright.

My last ex, this happens especially when we are out somewhere. He cant sit still, have to be adjusting himself in his seat every second, the hard on that he generally has made him that way. He liked to rub his hand on my back down to my butt.

I totally abandon them in the summer time.

Okaaay!

I am Miss Wright.

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=579931.msg7468882#msg7468882 date=1294253787][color=#0055bb]I am watching a show called 'Cheaters'. This couple are having problems and the woman, goes to her husband's brother for comfort and it ends up being an all out affair. Anyway the guy in the end ends up forgiving her and trying to start over with her after she cried and begged him but he refuses to deal with his brother who was smirking and bragging the whole time.

Do you guyses think you could do the same thing the husband did in regards to forgiving her (and working it out)?[/color]

*dont mind my misspelling of guys it is intentional.[/quote]People gat issues eeh.

Yuh always fine time fi watch dem kine a foolishness dey eeh. A wha do yuh mississ?

Me. me. me.

pick me!

Oh, my bad! the age!

Ok, so you said he recently finished his degree, and havent gotten a stable job as yet.

Darling, nothing wrong cooking food for a brother who you love (did you say that?)

I see nothing wrong in helping a brother with food, the kind of helping I wont advice is loaning of huge sums of money like you said to pay his rent. Didnt he make preprations for that before launching out on his own. How was it being paid while he was studying? If you see him only enjoying your food and not making extra effort to go get himself a steady job, just kick his azz to the curb, you dont need a lazy man in your corner. Because he have a degree doesnt mean he is a good man or something to keep. Some people go getting degree behind degrees with no intention of getting a job. Good luck my dear.

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banke6476:
hi everyone
i have a question boring me and i hope i can get good advice and suggestions.
I'll be as brief as i can.
i am currently dating a white guy here in the UK, we have been together for 2 yrs, before then i dated a Nigerian guy whom i had a son son, imm i had my child, he started womanising, drinking, clubbing and sort, i was thinking maybe becos i had my son, i started the gym and with 6 weeks i went back to size 8 but that wont stop him from womanising, finally he got so drunk and had a crash, the accident was so bad that he lost his life.
i was left to care for our son who was 6 month then.
i was completely scattered and i decided to move out of London. i got to Scotland and i met this guy who care for me, buy me gifts adore me, make me feel like a princess and for the first time i was beginning to love again.
i notice he didn't get along with my son who was about 2 yrs old then, i tried every thing but it wasn't working, my heart begin to shadow down. i told him how i felt and he promised he change
Yes he did change but my son never saw anything good in him, whenever we were out and if my son shld see a black guy, he would refer him as daddy and call my boyfriend by his name.

i have spoken to my son alot and this is actually affecting our relationship, confused i spoke to some friends who adviced me to get a black guy who will love me and adore my son.
i have sworn with what i had gone thru with his dad, i don't really fancy black guys as i suffered so much, i went thru alot now my boy is 4 yrs old and he is kind of getting along with my boyfriend but my boyfriend has his fears( i think).
so many times i had tried to break up but i cant, he cant either and we are not moving on or moving in or planning to get married. anytime i mention it, we discuss it and that's it, it wont go further, i want this yr to be my year and i want to get it right this time, n ending up with the wrong guy will make my life hell.

You were not

Isnt there any programs for late learners where you are at? Have her enrolled in one ASAP.

You guys are really quick. Walking up to some stranger on the street to say I love you!

Love @ first sight? Puhleeze! No such thing! Stupidness I tell you!