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junior20202020:
Help Me Recover My Glory

THIS IS MY STORY

I started masturbating partially at the age of 19, I was a shy guy I don't have a girlfriend, everyone taught that I was a virgin. This masturbation became serious at the age of 24. I decided to quit Masturbation.

I said let me visit a prostitute, I paid her 3k, we started romancing each other, but I noticed that my dick did not erect. I was highly embarrassed, I thought because the lady was older than me, she was 33 yrs.

I visited 3 more prostitutes which are young girls in their twenties, it was the same thing, the dick did not erect at all.

Note: I normally have rock erection Even when a lady sit on my lap, early morning waking up I also use to have rock erection before I meet the first prostitute. From there I went back to masturbation again partially. At the age of 21 I made my first 1.5 million naira through business, but I noticed since I started visiting this prostitute my business collapse I could hardly boast of #200k in my account.

Around 2018 I decided to get a girlfriend, because all prostitute I meet my dick cannot rise to penetrate them. My first girlfriend was cute, I love her and she loves me. One certain day something led to something we got intimate, I romance her very well she was already screaming, she wanted me to put my dick inside but I noticed it was flaccid no erection at all. She noticed and got up and dress herself. After that day she started giving me attitude and that was how I broke up with her.

I got about 4 more girlfriend all of them broke up with me when the notice that my dick does not erect. After all this I felt like the whole world is gone, I finally got another girl friend. Anything that would lead to romance I normally tell her that as Christian we must not have sex until we are married. She would say that this is the first time she is dating a guy like me. That she loves me with all her heart. We have dated for one year now without sex, I promise her that we would have sex on our wedding night.

I am currently 27 yrs and I feel dejected. Does it mean that I may never have a child of mine own. I got tired of my situation I went into 3 days dry fasting praying to God to deliver me from sin and to restore my lost erection. ..

On the second day of the fast I was in a trance and I vommitted a lot of poison. I woke up and thanked God. After that fasting I don't normally have bad dreams of evil spirit pressing down my spirit. But I noticed that my erection have not yet been restored. Please I need help. I need God to restore my Glory. I would never use it for masturbation or fornication. Help me on what to do. I am in distress

Op, you are a good man and deserves happiness.

You shall overcome



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Nelsonnwagbo:
this is true

Yes.
People tends to deny the truth.

yuswrld20:
is the op male of female

No, the Op is a male FROM female.

Kimcutie:
You think quitting masturbation is black man mentality, a chronic masturbator is no different from a drug addict.

Don't mind am.




Masturbation zaps a lot of energy and makes one too weak to make clear decisions.


The brain becomes cloggy and thinking clear becomes a problem

Mywd:
ITK oya name them

Thank you!

Me too I'm waiting.


Then I will start listing those that have been caged by this evil practice.

yyba:
we the members of vaseline crew of sambisa forest branch reject this thread 100% .

This may be a joke, but it's not funny.




Do you know the essential nutrients that goes out of your body when you masturbate?



If you like drink one drum to refill these essential nutrients, that void WILL always be there when you masturbate!

PureGoldh:
God bless you for this wonderful article.

And you too!



This bad habit should be dealt with

Exmilitant:
I thought your 'reason' was gonna stem from medical research that has been subjected to empirical evidence and peer review... I know billonaires, men of God and celebrities who masturbates!! Stop with the blackman and his superstituos mentality already.

That's how they will be deceiving teenagers who start this unhealthy habit and find it difficult to stop.


OK, I am waiting o! List those billionaires, men of God and celebrities!


And I will lists lots of people whose purpose in life, whose growth, achievement and progress were stunted and greatly delayed because they find themselves in the trap masturbation!


To teenagers and young ones still on the fence about this issue, please run from it!



Masturbation is very unhealthy and attracts negative energies! Your will be trapped and find it difficult to attain your goals and dreams!

be in charge of your life,
SAY NO TO MASTURBATION!

Thelucifer666:
So what should we do when we feel Hot?
Should we go and Bleep olosho and risk contracting an STD or impregnating someone's daughter?

When you feel Hot?


Come on! That's what Differentiates us from lower animals like goats and sheep.


Animals can mount on anything when they feel Hot, but as a human would you just walk naaked to the market because you feel so?

would just mount on a lady in the middle of the road because you are Hot?


I know you won't stoop too low.




Feeling Hot is natural and a sign of good health, so don't mistake it for something else.


You can always discipline yourself and it will die down. Get engaged in an activity, hangout, take a shower, etc.


Let me not digress.


The main point is that masturbation saps your positive energy, and leaves you with negativity, stunting your growth

johnkey:
No I say YES to masturbation. lol.

What are your reasons.



No matter what, no matter the few moments of pleasure it isn't worth the negative energies you'll attract

Xclusiveme:
Lol My gee

Oyiboman69:
no... Like I said, its the way you approach the situation from the on set,you didn't remove shyness from her and make her comfortable around you hence the yanga attitude and to overcome that, a little force is the only option left. There is a simple strategy to get a woman laid as experience has taught me.

Alright... keyword: A LITTLE FORCE

dairykidd:
So what was all the forming for now... That's why matured girls are better. All these girls doing first day thru 7 days rule like its going to make niggaz value the pussie meanwhile it doesn't

Don't mind em

MrBriel:
Consensual sex is when both parties are of legal age, agree to engage in intercourse by choice, and have the freedom and capacity to make that choice. This means agreeing to sexual relations without fear, coercion, force or intimidation. Giving consent is active, not passive. It means freely choosing to say ‘yes’ and also being free to change your mind at any time.

It is also a crime to have a sexual relationship with someone under 18 years of age if you have a relationship of authority with them, for example, you are their teacher or employer.

If someone is not able to give consent to sex, regardless of their age, it is a crime to have a sexual relationship with them. People who cannot give consent are those who are:

unconscious, asleep, intoxicated, drugged, or otherwise unable to say ‘yes’
have a psychological or decision-making disability that impacts on their ability to understand what they are consenting to.

EXAMPLES, NONE OF THESE PEOPLE CONSENTED.

“I’ve been going out with this guy for a few months. He wanted me to have sex with him but I wasn’t ready. He started to shout and get really angry. I gave in to him because I was so scared.”

“My husband and I separated six months ago. I still see him because of the children. Recently he came to the house, forced me into the bedroom and had sex with me.”

“I was at a party and had too much to drink. I fell asleep on a spare bed. I woke up with someone I didn’t know having sex with me.”

Must the consent be active?


Judging from your narrative, it means most girls are raped, even those that are in an active relationship.


Because they hardly say YES and only the very very few bold ones will be clear especially the first time

marlow1962:
Mtchewww

Brace yourself.


The truth is bitter

johnkey:
Still better than the negative energy from naija babes these days

Don't be deceived.



Negative energies from babes can be controlled but the ones from masturbation WILL control you.



Be in charge, say no to masturbation

Don't mind anyone fooling you, masturbation is not good for you.


The one reason you shouldn't engage in the act is that it attracts negative energies towards you.


When you engage in the act your neurological and psychological build up is altered, and your state of mind won't remain normal.



You feel deeply drained and negative energies will be drawn to you.


You react coldly to your loved ones and friends, and that positive vibe leaves you.



Things would likely turn out negative for you and it would seem like favor has drifted from you.


You are left to battle with a big gap, the gap of feeling useless and unwanted, and you are likely to get into quarrels and banters.


In essence why engage in an act that would bring negative energies to you?



Make up your mind to give it up today and see yourself living your life with full potential and meeting up with your goals faster than ever.

ModestGal:
I mean i'm now a Tech lady and I love it

that's good

seunak2016:
if she allow you to suck her nipples then na you no push hard, suck her nipples for like 10min for night then put your second hand into her pants to finger her, once you are allow to finger her, she will allow you off her pants or she off it herself. but be close to her, like discuss personal thing

badt guy...



I finally chop her sha

dairykidd:
Lol reminds me of my Uyo babe.. first time she came to visit on a Christmas holiday, we were indoors watching movies and chilling. I tried to fvck and she just told me point blank that she didn't come here for that even had a serious look. Okay i no bother. Went back to movies. This girl came around 11 am and its about 3pm no show for me. I tried again around 5pm no show and she said she would be going home as she needs to see her mom because she was actually coming from her elder sisters place. I convinced her to sleep over we argued about it and i thought her how to lie to her mom. It worked she was sleeping over. So 7pm i asked her to follow me out for drinks she declined that she would rather be home watching movies. I went out, got high and came back. Lo and behold this babe was putting on just my tank top. No panties and bra. Omor i just left her to herself because i needed no further proof of my fvcking that night. After all said and done time came for the main event.. u wouldn't believe this girl was still insisting i let her be and she was serious about it.. I would have none of that. She was saying no but was grabbing me even when i had my fingers in her pussie she was still saying no but kissing me and urging me on with her waist. I fvcked her like a mad man all through the night... What I'm saying is sometimes u really don't need to listen to their no. Some Naija girls saying No means u should try harder. Okay if she no want the first day wetin she still dey do for ur house. If u dey read my post now and she dey bed u never fvck and she dey form sleeping. Oga finger fvck, press and suck bobbi, kiss her do anything to make sure u enter Jerusalem. Otherwise na see finish for u oo

they can form eh

Xclusiveme:
Is her name favour? U know that slim tall fair girl? well, what you have to do is go buy Spanish fly and put it in her tea or drink. Her sex drive needs to skyrocket first before u start what I'm about to say. Sit close to her and hold her hands, whisper to her ear how beautiful she looks and how lucky u are to have her in your life. That will slowly be melting her heart for the Spanish fly to kick in. Kiss her knuckles, grab her hands and stand her up. Put a slow romantic song, place her hands on your shoulders and place urs on her waist. Dance the ball dance u see on movies. Make sure the room is a little bit dark. Stare into her eyes, lick ur lips a little bit and watch her melt. Go in for the kiss slowly. But don't rush to have sex yet. Suck her bottom lips slowly, place ur hands on her panties. Uhmm sorry ba3 low

lol... Spain fly kwa?



Please it hasn't gotten to this level.




I don't think I'll use such.



but I finally chop sha

Okoroawusa:
Bro leave that girl alone. You didn't define your relationship before bringing her over and now she has spent two days.
Better let her go home before you rape her.

she brought herself.




Long story short, we came and came that we just cannot can anymore

Babaibejii:
Start kissing the earlobe and neck b4 you claim the lips, and you can be assertive without bring forceful. You shld try suck her tits too while at it. Thats a finishing move.

exactly.



That's what I did.


it finally ended in loads of cums

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Stephenmoka4:
2 nights is small, not everyone is really into laying with any woman that sleep in their home. Some b4 an hour of visit they have started thinking of how to use her for pleasure.

true.

Oyiboman69:
Force

it depends on the level of force.

Oyiboman69:
I believed its the way you approach the situation from the begging...don't worry, all you have to do is a little fight... Not punch or whatever oo,struggle with her for some time ,she go give in.if you think she will hand it over to you in a platter of gold,then,you are on a long ride.
Trust me...experience has taught me that. My cent.

you are making sense man.


I finally went down with her, though I didn't use force.

Can you explain more about the "fight "?


won't it be seen as rape

Shootingstar93:
She is there for free food. Any girl that visits a guy that is asking her out and stays for days without consenting to Sex just came to eat free food. It's not about decency.

She doesn't want to have Sex with u. Reasons;
1~ she might not like u enough to allow u have Sex with her

2~ she might think that u just want a fling or one night stand, so, she's decides to play u by staying in ur house and eating ur food for free and not allowing u to touch her.

Any lady that goes to a guy's house to stay for some days is not decent. U are not related in any way, if she's that decent she will be terrified to sleep over.

She's pretentious and be careful cos her type, if u don't use condom during Sex, she will later call u to tell u she's pregnant and needs money for abortion or that u must marry her.

They are leeches. Once they get hold of u, to remove Dem from ur life would be problematic.


U said she does not want to go, lol, she's not going anywhere ooo,when there's food and possibly enough movies to watch.

A decent girl will not have the liver to sleep over in a guy's house for days and even spread legs to watch telemundo.

Her eyes don tear kakaraka and she'll follow the plot of this game to the last.

I can't really tell sha..

She can chop free food but I finally furked her

Stephenmoka4:
Might not work for many, I know some people who have tried different tips, it's sometimes depending on the girl. You think they don't read stuff too.

Yea, girls are different.



This one just wanted me not to see her as cheap.


I finally came sha

Homeboiy:
guy them curse you
girl sleep your house 2 nights de enjoy free food and u never fúck her.

If na me I don send her out after the first day.
if she see me next time ,she go avoid me.

true sha...

But I guess my patience paid off ...

I've browsed her website finally

Stephenmoka4:
Won't that be an harassment/assault on her, there are different reasons for visiting, some guys just push it to one.

that's it.
However after taking my time I finally came

Sundrus:
Yes, if u play ur role well with the average Nigerian girl.

what about the majority that won't do this?