in all fearness there are always bad apples in all societies, eastern europeans do treat their woman like slaves, then cheat on them as well. it is therefore wrong to put all the nigerian man in one catagory.  like in all societies there those who  ill-treat women and those who are lovely to woman. having dated a cheating nigerian man four years ago, i swore to the fact that i would never make the same mistake again. he was having multiple affairs and under my nose too. those are the bad apples. i recently met a wonderful nigerian guy, who treats me like a princess, which has want to learn more about nigeria, i am to do this by spending most of my gap year in nigeria, and alone, an issue we ( my boyfriend and i ) have agreed on, suggesting he respects my voice. its high time people stopped painting nigerians as individuals with the worst characteristic based on a few individuals behaviours. nigeria also has great, honest man. oh and i am a non- nigerian who has developed a love

in all fearness there are always bad apples in all societies, eastern europeans do treat their woman like slaves, then cheat on them as well. it is therefore wrong to put all the nigerian man in one catagory. like in all societies there those who ill-treat women and those who are lovely to woman. having dated a cheating nigerian man four years ago, i swore to the fact that i would never make the same mistake again. he was having multiple affairs and under my nose too. those are the bad apples. i recently met a wonderful nigerian guy, who treats me like a princess, which has want to learn more about nigeria, i am to do this by spending most of my gap year in nigeria, and alone. its high time people stopped painting nigerians as individuals with the worst characteristic based on a few individuals behaviours. nigeria also has great, honest man. oh and i am not nigerian.

sorry i am not a guy, but i have been in a similar predicament one too many times. it would be a good idea to tell him about your feeling provided he feels the same way, and that it was on the ground of insecurity on his part, which was as a result of ur drifting off. however, if that does not happen to be the case ( as we know some man lie to get what they want, again i am sorry to all the genuin guys out there) he is likely to play along with you, a situation that would lead to to getting more hurt than you are now. i still strongly believe in 'let the guy go, if he loves you he will be back for you', and if not as time goes on the heartach soon heal. on that note, i wish the very best with whatever action you decide to take.

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i realise that it has been over a year since you lost ur beloved sister and a daughter to your parent. my sincere condolences to you and your family, it must have been an ordeal for your family not only to loose your sister an some blunders, then to make matters worse discover her sweating at a point at which you wanted to put closure. your experiences and the comments of other users have made me very much ashamed to call myself/ affiliate myself to the medical profession. the situation has left me lost for words and with great disappointment for having gone in the medical field as we are trained to give a 100% holistic care to people. furthermore, your ordeal has left me lost for word. my prayers will remain with u and ur family