Romance › Re: The Biggest Mistake A Lady Can Make In Life Is To Marry A Poor Man- Nigeria Lady by ccollins(m): 3:06pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
KarinaSlim: My senior cousin caught her husband cheating on her. Till date the husband doesn't know she knows. This man loves this my cousin like crazy. It shows. They married 2 years ago.
She told me that she will be walking out of the marriage by the end of the year (31st of December). The man doesn't know yet.
He still lives life thinking they will leave together forever. She calls me for advice. Me wey never marry, na me dey advice married woman. I am thinking of telling her to go-ahead with the divorce becos she is bitter and it's telling on her.
She is as beautiful as me and so she will marry again.
But that her husband no try.
I'm thinking of telling her to call a big family meeting during Christmas period. Call his old father and mother to the house and some siblings. Cook delicious food. When everybody finishes eating, she should then drop the big news on their faces with receipts of their son's affairs before she leaves. Let them see the son they raised.
What do u think?
Matured minds
Modified Thank you so much for your inputs. I appreciate. Funny enough. I have gotten the answers I needed from ur comments  So we have decided on what to do. She will go ahead with my ADVICE above. It is the best for now for her happiness and joy. Life is too short to live in an unhappy marriage becos of an adulterous spouse. Thanks once again.
I'm out. let her not divorce. Be with your husband. Be in ur marriage |
Politics › Re: Has Nairaland Turned To A Tribal And Apc Political Platform by ccollins(op): 5:44am On Nov 03, 2023 |
LandMann: Your head is full of stupidity. If you took a minute to read through my past posts you won't type the nonsense above.
Igbo and tribalism kill ur head any comment or good perspective that goes against their statement is automatically igbo. Respect other peoples tribe. |
Politics › Re: Has Nairaland Turned To A Tribal And Apc Political Platform by ccollins(op): 5:42am On Nov 03, 2023 |
duro4chang: It was not like this until Nnamdi Kanu started his hatred online and his followers brought it here. Then you should expect what will happen. stop finding excuses and face the disturbing issues here. U keep fanning and using the embers of ethnic and religious hatred and divisions to suit your evil motives. Nairaland is a social and interactive platform for people to talk in harmony and share educative views and interactions. The mods and seun are doing nothing to stop the political hatred and mockery people in this faceless forum put out to other people. It’s clearly a persecution, haunting and oppression of other people and groups. We are first humans from God Almighty before any affiliations, race or color. So it’s abnormal why Nairaland is one of the platforms used to cause strife and disturb the peace of Nigeria. We cannot say we are a sovereign one Nigeria and yet we keep on discriminating against a particular group/people whatever the status maybe. Go and learn about the hutsi and tutsi of Rwanda so u can know that this lawless politics of tribalism and religion is a very evil thing |
Politics › Re: Lagos Signs $1.35 Billion Deal For Fourth Mainland Bridge, Other Key Projects by ccollins(m): 11:28pm On Oct 31, 2023 |
Let’s see if they would keep to their words |
Politics › Re: Has Nairaland Turned To A Tribal And Apc Political Platform by ccollins(op): 3:58pm On Sep 30, 2023 |
duro4chang: The op is feeling the heat and cannot stand it any longer. Op, do not start what you cannot finished. Your past comments are full of tribal and political bigotry. but you and I know that the topics on the front page are too inflammatory and upsurges political hatred. Why should nl render itself as a tool for so much political and tribal divisions. Do they want Nigeria to go into war or crisis wherein a tribe is persecuted or discriminated upon. Are we no longer humans in Nigeria or are some set of people inferior and slaves |
Politics › Has Nairaland Turned To A Tribal And Apc Political Platform by ccollins(op): 7:19am On Sep 30, 2023 |
The Nairaland we know today is not what it was 10-15 years ago when it was first created in 2007. Now, Nairaland is used by all sorts of wicked tribal bigots and selfish political party loyalists who spread numerous divisions, hatred and calumny against other tribes. A lot of people here hide under the cloak of anonymity to talk like touts and stark illiterates who main job here is to make one tribe hate another tribe with venom. Can Nairaland go back to the good old days when topics on the front page were mostly educative and inspiring especially those online symposiums from our Nigerian friends in abroad. I also noticed that there is a deliberate albeit implicit approval by the management in this Nairaland forum to allow unscrupulous people post news and contents that are biased and favor APC propaganda and interests and then they would allow only bad negative contents about other opposing political party. It’s weird tho. There has not been a explanation about the bias Nairaland has for some politicians and political party and tribe |
Career › Re: Petroleum Agency Boss Komolafe Cancels 60th Birthday Celebration Over Economy by ccollins(m): 12:26pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
True |
Travel › Re: Cities With The Worst Traffic In The World; Lagos Is No 1 - World Of Statistics by ccollins(m): 5:12am On Sep 28, 2023 |
SonOfDSoil01: pls don’t try and justify what is wrong. Even if it’s one of the oldest professions, does that make it right? Can you encourage you daughter or sister to practice prostitution to make ends meet? Pls be sensible. Yes i agree that we not all perfect as human being and therefor have our lapses as a people, but some set of people has chose to be unreasonable with there association with other ethnic tribe, and Nigeria being a multi ethnic society is a case study. When an ethnic group of people chose to migrate outside there home but tend to be antagonistic of there host and talk down on there culture and traditions, instead of them to face there business, you can only attract nothing but hate and that’s the truth. Ogba ethnic bigot, REST! I have taken time to read you and the other civilized guy’s post and he spoke with love, tolerance,humility and respect. U don’t go about denigrating a group or tribe because ur heart filled with hatred towards them. They are humans and still God’s own creation too just like your tribe is. Nigeria is multiethnic and every tribe deserves to be treated fairly and equitably. U cannot love God and hate other people. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu CSU Certificate Fraud: “Save Us From Disgrace", Eze Chukwuemeka by ccollins(m): 5:52pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
TemplarLandry: President Tinubu is here to fix Nigeria. Let naysayers keep whining and scoffing.
I dedicate “God Sent” by Seyi Vibez to him. Great jam! anyone on Nairaland already knows you are a troll and political stooge. Keep on rushing to fc. We know your type very well |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by ccollins(m): 4:36pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
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Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by ccollins(m): 4:22pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
nasire: Freezer 45k
AT MOPOL JUNCTION A BUSTOP AWAY FROM AYOBO BRIDGE RIVER JORDAN STREET. Will be available next month
WhatsApp 08156703923 I would need this |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by ccollins(m): 4:07pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
Maximatic: Sales
LG UHD TV 55 inch UM7100 Series IPS 4K Display 4K HDR Smart LED TV w/ ThinQ AI (Faulty Screen Never repaired ) 50k
Samsung Portable Home Theatre system Working Perfect 30k
Call or whatsap on 08179801339 for inquiries where can I come n get the Samsung home theatre |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by ccollins(m): 3:47pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
lightdream: We have the following for Sale hot!!!
KIA Optima year 2008 Model Saloon Car - 1.9m
Toyota Sienna 2006 with first body V6 engine auto drive - 1.9m
Also selling my 300 sqm bare land in a good location, Ibeju Lekki, Imedu
Asking Price: 1.45million (negotiable)
Comes with all documents: Deed of assignment, receipt, contract of sale
NEIGHBORHOOD: ⁃ Dangote Refinery ⁃ Lekki Deep Sea Port ⁃ Lekki Free Trade Zone ⁃ La campaign tropicana ⁃ New International Airport ⁃ Several gated estates ⁃ Several beaches
Dispenser 45k- SOLD
Shelf 20k-SOLD
Chair 20k- SOLD
3 in one chair 45k- SOLD
Executive chair 25k- SOLD
Air conditioning 70k
Printer 70k - SOLD
Table top system (sell) 50k
Receptionist table 65k
Main table 70k
Computer-SOLD
Please call:08067491691 hello |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by ccollins(m): 3:45pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
nymphomaniac: Good day.
I have the following items for sale at SURULERE Lagos state.
1. Samsung Table top fridge (chills well but has a bit of rust) - 25k
2. Nexus breeze standing and table fan - 12k each
3. Samsung 1hp AC - 60k - prt payment received - SOLD
4. Tv Console - 30k
5. GOTV and antennae - 5k
6. Two sitter couch - 40k
7. 4.5 x 6 x 14inch bed - 30k - Prt Payment received (SOLD)
8. 6kg Gas cylinder - 12k
9. Microwave (doesn’t heat fast) - 5k
10. Blender (500 watts) - 10k.
11. 2.5kva Elepaq Gen (original engine and coil) - 50k
12. HP Deskjet printer 2630 (never used) - 20k
Pls message on WhatsApp 08163388585
Some items available for pickup today, others from July 15. Pickup on Saturday and sunday only. hello, I need the gen n fridge |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by ccollins(m): 3:26pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
empressSkincare: You can pay the 70K outrightly or pay 55K now and 15K when it arrives. We have made it convenient for you and The choice is yours. What you'll receive is excatly what you see in the attached images. Pre-order is ending tomorrow where is ur address if I want to come n pick it up |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by ccollins(m): 3:25pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
Drickstore: Toshiba 40" Smart FHD TV is available for sale. Model: 40L3863DB Miracast/Screen Mirroring Free Netflix Login YouTube, Netflix and Amazon prime Bluetooth connectivity USB and HDMI WiFi Connections Headphone Jack TV Feet Remote Control
08185993014 Iyana Ipaja how much |
Crime › Re: Police In The US Intercept Stolen Cars Bound For West Africa by ccollins(m): 9:05am On Jul 30, 2023 |
jaxxy: anybody who steals a Mercedes is wasting their time. The company can shut the car down from anywhere in the world and render it useless. what about the car parts. Lol |
Crime › Re: A Married Man Was Caught Stealing A Jumbo Loaf Of Bread This Morning. by ccollins(m): 8:24am On Jul 23, 2023 |
Puss360: Sentiment.. Sentiment........ It's a crime to steal... But honestly, if your problem amounts to thoughts of stealing, why no go out and beg... People will mock you, but out of pity they will give you... But with stealing, if you are caught, the shame will be much.... Poor man.. chai... But e good as dem beat am sha it’s evil and wicked |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Can You Manage 150k Salary In Lagos?? by ccollins(m): 12:17pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
SurveyR: Okay
Join my telegram group let's make money from Surveys. am interested |
Politics › Re: Court Orders Obasanjo, Yaradua, Jonathan, Buhari To Account For $5bn Abacha Loot by ccollins(m): 5:12pm On Jul 09, 2023 |
helinues: So pe o ti lo
 political jobber. Everyone knows you here as a political stooge |
Politics › Re: Photo: LASG Fires LAWMA CEO Unceremoniously by ccollins(m): 4:33pm On Jul 08, 2023 |
dyera: Time for the LASG to sack all heads of service that did not contribute much in the last election and appoint those that made huge contribution as heads of service. Appointment base on reward for loyalty, equals appointing incompetent people. rubbish. So contribution to election and loyalty as a civil servant is more important than performing for the betterment of your society. |
Education › Re: Okeke Solomon Ekene Emerges Best Graduating Student In Russian University by ccollins(m): 3:35pm On Jul 08, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Oyinbo Lady Visits Her Boyfriend In The Trenches In Nigeria (Photos) by ccollins(m): 10:16am On Jun 28, 2023 |
Mrscarter: Aussie let’s get to know dear. Are u in Nigeria |
Politics › Re: President Tinubu Approves Dissolution Of Boards Of Parastatals, Agencies by ccollins(m): 9:59pm On Jun 19, 2023 |
DonNeon: .... Whatever decisions he's making up there, let it affect the life of the common man positively on the street rather than rewarding his cronies or punishing his foes...
The amount I spent on tfare today just within this city wasn't funny at all😪 which side is that |
Politics › Re: Japa: Reps Vote Against Anti — Migration Motion by ccollins(m): 2:16pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
NaughtyBrainiac: They are right to have done that.
Let who wants to leave, leave in peace.
Let them leave so that others left behind can take up the jobs they resigned from.
We have Millions of Nigerians that will replace them this primitive and barbaric mindset cannot make Nigeria better no one would like to stay in a country that keeps valuing dollars over its local currency and makes life difficult for people who finish from school |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Las Vegas Police Officer's Bodycam Captures 'UFO In The Night Sky' (pics) by ccollins(m): 2:40pm On Jun 10, 2023 |
nairalanda1: Erm...
1.A lot of humans do not believe in 'god'
2.Then again, assuming there are other sentient beings in the universe, at the end, religious people would just say that if god can create life on Planet Earth, it does not stop him or her or it from creating life on other planets.
3.Indeed some religons (eg Mormons and Scientologists) believe that there is life on other planets. you better give your life to Jesus Christ completely and stop playing and making vain theories and knowledge important. You should bear it in mind that heaven and hell is real. The only way to heaven(God’s kingdom) is to sincerely repent of your sins and disobedience and surrender to Jesus Christ the Son of the living God. Choose whom you will serve. Follow Jesus Christ with your whole heart and trust God. You will never regret that decision for the rest of your life Joshua 24:15 ... choose this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your fathers served in the region beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD. |
Politics › Re: Otti Appoints Ikechukwu Uwanna, 21 Others As Special Advisers (See list) by ccollins(m): 5:40pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
FreeStuffsNG: No single non-Igbo appointed. Smh.
No South west State Governor, including my Governor, HE Sanwo-Olu, must ever appoint Igbo or any non-Yoruba except the Governor of his or her state has appointed a Yoruba first.
Since 1999, South East state Governors keep appointing only Igbo of their own but want other states to appoint Igbo. That is a recipe for injustice and kolewek.
For justice, appoint Yoruba and non-Igbo first and the non Igbo states will appoint Igbo, collaborating by reciprocation. Gone are those days of injustice when you hold your own 100% and want to collect that of others in Yorubaland then turn around to meddle in our politics to work against the dominant political aspirations of the Yoruba when they demand you give them from your own.
Gov. Alex Otti , same Alex who was made in Yorubaland, should appoint a Yoruba today if you want an Abian to get an appointment in Yorubaland! If you don't, for justice and fairness, nothing for Abians in Yorubaland too.
The cheating will no longer be tolerated. Give us land in Igboland if you want land in Yorubaland. Give us appointment in Igboland if you want appointment in Yorubaland. That is collaborating by reciprocation.
There should be equity and fairness. Open up your Igboland,jobs, appointments and the opportunities there to the Yoruba and other Nigerians same way the Yoruba did and we can make progress together. Alex Otti wants to continue in this clannish nepotic tradition of cheating the Yoruba living in Igboland and continue the injustice against other Nigerians.It must to stop! Check my signature for free stuffs! u are aware that is even more worst that am Igbo man has never been a president in Nigeria even before 1999 presidency. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Shooting In Moultrie, US: Shooter kills his Mother, Grandmother, Commits Suicide by ccollins(m): 6:12am On May 05, 2023 |
lhordspy: This is for people who love dragging Nigeria's name down into the mud and painting us bad at every given opportunity.
Just 5 months into 2023. US is with almost over 150 cases of mass shooting already.
US the self-acclaimed world peace-maker, going around different countries causing unnecessary tension, chaos, political upset, turning neighbouring countries against eachother all in the name of seeking world peace; cant even keep its house in order.
What a bulaba ! apc criminal doing pr for Nigeria bad and incongruous image. You better go and sit down. Go explain how soldiers shot at un armed protesters at lekki toll gate and killed many. In America, the security agencies don’t hide like unscrupulous deceptive miscreat when it comes to transparent accounts about crimes in their country unlike in Nigeria where government interferes in protests and still went ahead to order soldiers to murder unarmed protesters at lekki toll gates. Bunch of criminals and muderders in Nigeria government. All of U will still give account to Almighty God on the judgement day about many evil acts of sacrilege , oppression and violence against the Nigerian people and the so called apc government relied heavily to cover up such acts with heavy propaganda |
Crime › Re: Mob Sets Suspected Kidnapper Ablaze In Anambra Community, Rescue Victim (Photos) by ccollins(m): 4:01am On May 04, 2023 |
Westerhoffe:

Law and judgment on kidnappers:
“And he that stealeth a man, and selleth him, or if he be found in his hand, he shall surely be put to death.” — Exodus 21:16 (KJV)
“If a man be found stealing any of his brethren of the children of Israel, and maketh merchandise of him, or selleth him; then that thief shall die; and thou shalt put evil away from among you.” — Deuteronomy 24:7 (KJV) this was in the Old Testament under the law. We are now in the new dispensation of grace through Christ Jesus under the New Testament. You should have gone more in-depth into God’s word and understand that though it’s very true that God hates sin and there are punishments for sin. There is now mercy, remission and forgiveness of sin in the New Testament unlike the Old Testament where there would be instant judgement on a sinner( note: I am not saying God will still not judge everyone both sinners and saints in this New Testament dispensation, it would still happen) |
Politics › Re: I Won’t Refund Cost Of Flyovers To Rivers – Tinubu Tells Wike by ccollins(m): 3:33am On May 04, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: He did not work for Asiwaju, Nigerians worked for Asiwaju. criminal. U think u can disseminate lies and deceive the public with your propaganda , deceits and lies. Which Nigerians voted for such type of person with questionable character |
Politics › Re: Nigerians React To Binani’s ‘Void’ Declaration by ccollins(m): 5:43pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
thesicilian: They should all calm down. Typical of Nigerians, when something goes wrong instead of conducting a detailed investigation, they are calling for scraping of INEC, some are even blaming democracy. No system is perfect, what needs to be done is find out what went wrong and fix it asap rubbish. U people like the Sicilians would find a way to justify evil and it seems u are want people I be quiet in the face of injustice and tha horrible on your part |
Travel › Re: Johnson Arumemi-Ikhide, Arik Air Founder Barred From Airline’s Premises by ccollins(m): 3:16pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
MasterTeeUSA: Took it once from NY from Nigeria...never again. One of the most useless airline.. I am not even sure I feel like sharing the experience Share your experiences |